Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

yes i have desided to do it and not look back the kids wants me to wait tell after xmas but, i am so upset over the drinking do you think i should wait since the kids want him here for xmas? he is good to the kids and he is not a hitter so what do you think?

2007-12-10 23:53:37 · 10 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Singles & Dating

i just read that in some question some days ago and it sounded wierd 2 me.

2007-12-10 23:41:17 · 16 answers · asked by A1 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my 36yr old husband was having an affair with a 16yr old girl. He knew she was 16 and he believes that he is in love with her. We've been married 10 yrs and I don't know what to make of this. I did call police and turn him in and so did the girls parents and he tells me he feels I betrayed him. They confiscated his car because thats where they were having sex and they confiscated his cellphone because they were texting one another. He took nude pics of himself but claims he never sent them her phone does not take pics I've seen it. Even after he realized he was in trouble with the law he has still made an effort to contact her and see her so he can get closure. I don't understand any of this. He wants her to tell him why its over and wants to know how she feels, he's not grasping that he violated this child and took her virginity. Is he living in a fantasy, has he lost all sense of reality. They've only know eachother for 2 1/2 mo. Can anyone make any sense?

2007-12-10 23:40:13 · 20 answers · asked by latinamochalatte20052000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

after 7 years of the child what can a mother do to ensure the cour awards the custody to her

2007-12-10 23:38:39 · 3 answers · asked by naaz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 23:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by Alexa 2 in Singles & Dating

Missed it?
So my friend and her husband are trying to have a baby, she has missed her period for 9 days now and has taken 3 urines preg tests that all are negative...what's going on with her, now she is worried.

2007-12-10 23:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend has been looking for a job for awhile and everyday i ask him if he has applied and i've looked for some postings online and in person and send him the information. but everytime i bring it up he gives me this whole explanation on how he is trying his hardest and i should get off his back because finding a job is hard .. but then he speaks to his parents on the phone and they say he should look for a new job ASAP and try harder and he says okay and gets right on it!! why is it that i have to hear the bitter end of the whole issue but his parents get the yes sir and i get the no i've tried today?? can anyone help me with this???

2007-12-10 23:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and basically to sum it up, everyone who I've ever loved in my life (my dad, grandpa, aunts, cousins, ect). I've never had any friends or anything. So anyway, my problem is that I can't like love anyone anymore. I can care for a person but I don't love them and I won't tell them I love them either if even I thought I did because if I tell them, I'm afraid they'll just end up leaving me like everyone else has. I can't trust anyone to do anything nice for me without wondering if they had an ulterior motive. I can't stand having people touching me. I just have a really hard time relating to people and getting them to like me. Even since I was young and I think I was really nice. I even remember doing kids' homework in school so they would like me. How can I make myself more normal? Thanks.

2007-12-10 23:32:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is coming home in a few hours from a snowboarding trip. He has been away for 5 days... we missed each other like mad... what can i do to welcome him home? original ideas welcome!

2007-12-10 23:29:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for 3 years, and married since July. 3 wks after we got home from the honeymoon, I found out I was pregnant. Early on in the pregnancy, my husband found a better paying job closer to home and I am up for a job that is in my field of study (I'm currently in my Jr. year of college). All was going well until yesterday morning. My husband called into work sick, Shortly after he called work, he was feeling better, and i suggested that he go back 2 work. He didnt want 2. Shortly later, a message on the machine was firing him. His boss later relayed the message that if he went to work for a half day, he would understand and could keep his job. My husband refused. So I left. I feel betrayed. He had the chance to right the wrong but didn't. We're in a small town with little jobs. I told him I won't go back until he fixes the mistake he made. He says I'm making a big deal over nothing. I say we've got a baby on the way and to grow up. Was I wrong 2 leave him?

2007-12-10 23:28:54 · 16 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How did you tell your mother when you got the blood under there?

2007-12-10 23:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by Vanessa J 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather kiss a man who is completely shaven or with hair/stubble on his face? How do you feel about facial hair in general?

2007-12-10 23:22:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married young, for my 18th bd I got a crib and a month a beautiful daughter inwhich I adore,anyway she was just a baby 3-4 and her fatrher molested her, the hospital conformed it,@ the time we were seperated. I was tottaly destroyed,more 4 her than myself. Well now she is growns up23 if you call that grown up, 2 girls of her own and 1in the waym,I have never lied about her father nor did I constantaly bring up what he had sone, I found out 2 days ago that she has made contact with him and even meet him,she tells me that she can reamber what happened to her and where a sertin smell or event can set off her reambering,he of course is dening it the courts found that it did happen but they could not prove for absout sertian it was him,they found him not guilthy due to insafent evedince, I have hear through the family that she is making plans with her father to go to fla and meet the rest of them, I really don't believe that she believes me or she's blocking it out, I need help!

2007-12-10 23:18:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-10 23:16:55 · 19 answers · asked by maha 1 in Friends

what do you say?

2007-12-10 23:14:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 23:13:15 · 29 answers · asked by Gemma T 5 in Singles & Dating

I fill verry verry aukward when my family ask me about my study. because idid my study so so worst......HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-10 23:09:23 · 4 answers · asked by lies_she 2 in Singles & Dating

I love a gril.She is 24 years old.But i am 14.I really really love her.I just want to be with her.But it's too difficult. My friends think I should give up.It is ruthless for me to give up.I don't know what should I do.I LOVE HER.MAYBE I WILL NEVER BE WITH HER.BUT I CAN'T GIVE UP
HELP!!!!

2007-12-10 23:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Couple of years ago I had an accident that scarred my face. When my wife saw me after the accident, she divorced me. 2 years went by without any contact from her. Then I met a wonderful woman who noticed my eyes first and we started dating. Last night my woman and I were at my place watching movies when someone knocked on my door and it was my ex. I was surprised to see her, it took me by surprise that she was there. She barged in and when she saw my woman sitting on the couch she started calling her names and was screaming and hollering. I told the ex to get out and attempted to escort her out the door. Things happened so fast after that, the ex kept hollering and my woman seemed to disappear. Then I heard someone say my name and I really thought it was the ex, I was so damn upset and angry. I didn't turn around, I thought I was speaking to the ex and I told her what the hell is she still doing here, can't she see I'm with someone I care about? I heard the door close

2007-12-10 23:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 23:07:41 · 12 answers · asked by LOLIT 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK.. My sister in-law lives with us...She is muslim.NOt that it matters or maybe it does,,,She has lived here for two years now...Her husband and her divorced...She was pregnant at the time,,I helped he threw the labor and delivery and we bought her all the baby stuff she would need,,,threw all theses two years..Well She does nothing to help me out..No cleaning.. Not even sweeping nothing...She keep's her own dishes in her room her own toaster and pans and utencils..and even soap...I have nought her and her child clothes and jewelery..and taken her shopping for things...I just do not understand why she does not even help me out....She does not eat what I cook she prepares her own food..If I buy two gallons of milk she will open the new one before the old one is gone...I am so upset ..She sleeps at differant hours than we do...So I hardley get to see my Niece..And to top it off she will keep her door shut all day long and only come out when she thinks I am not around...

2007-12-10 23:06:11 · 18 answers · asked by getagrip 3 in Family

2007-12-10 22:57:53 · 11 answers · asked by Gail S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can a man who has relationship with some girls love one girl forever can I trust him?

2007-12-10 22:56:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I decided to myself that I was gonna live in my van and save money so that I don't have to run to my parents for money. My parents have money (mom and dad are both lawyers) My dad says I'm being selfish and that I lost my mind. My mom ask where will I take a bath and study ...cause I'll be starting college again. I have money now but I don't want to spend it on an apartment. I can't say I have a great plan but am I wrong for trying to do it myself? I know I can do it. I've been staying at a couple different rest stops and truck stops at night, and take showers in the truck stops. I know a lot of people so far there so I feel real safe and they know my situation (it's kinda like home) am I wrong or do you think I could do it? Please give me advice ...

2007-12-10 22:51:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this guy who claims to have feelings for me and I am considering having a relationship with him.He is a charmer and flirt,but I have no prob with that until today.I saw him being super nice to a russian woman, real stunner now. He is attracted to her, I have heard this because a co- worker told me that he blushes everytime he sees her.Is this just part of what men do and means nothing? Or should I be worried that he is lying to me?

2007-12-10 22:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Singles & Dating

HAPPY XMASSSSSSS

2007-12-10 22:45:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl that I am falling for is upset at me because she wanted to have dinner and I couldn't make it. She called at noon, wanting to have dinner at 6, I work nights and hadn't slept yet. I told her I want to have dinner with her, but couldn't that night. She said she'll call anyways, in case I was awake. She ended up not calling, I haven't talked to her in 4 days, I think she's a little upset.

Should I apologize for not making time? I really don't feel like I did anything wrong, but I do like her alot.

2007-12-10 22:40:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just dont know.

2007-12-10 22:34:21 · 12 answers · asked by D 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was just talking to a friend the other day, and I found it hard to believe what he said. He is very casual when talking about sex. He asked me this: Would you rather have sex with a random girl for one night with no consequences, or have an emotional relationship with a girl and slowly build up your relationship? I replied that I'd rather be with a girl intimately and slowly build from that. He replied to my answer that I must be crazy. He said that he would take the first option without hesitating and said I wasn't a man.

The way he responded had me thinking, are a lot of people out there that think the way my friend thinks too? I can't imagine what kind of father he'd end up as. I just want an honest opinion of which option you'd take. If you'd really take the first option, just say it, same thing as the second. I just want a good idea of what people really think.

2007-12-10 22:24:34 · 14 answers · asked by Samuel C 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband does not give me affection and attention,how should i make him crave for my presence and attention.i want him to miss me when i am not around or busy in other activities.it really does not bother him when i do not give him time,even if he hides his feelings by not complaining .it hurts.he has never ever complained about not having time and attention from me?i think he does not care

2007-12-10 22:21:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce