Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

U have had a long hard day at work and in the evening ur girlfriend takes u into the bedroom and removes her dressing gown to reveal a red and black corset, thong and stockings.

Are u up for it even though u are knackered???

The reason i'm asking is its me and my blokes 2 year anniversary tonight but im scared he'll b too tired to do anything and will turn me down. i have never ever dressed up in anything like this before and i am terrified.

Any advice?? SHould i wait til the weekend?

Love Tinks xoxox

2007-12-10 19:44:14 · 19 answers · asked by *T*I*N*K*E*R*B*E*L*L* 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my friends husband stays out all night and she told him if he did it again that was it , about 3 months later he does it again and she tosses his *** out , so the next day hes calling saying he wants to come back thinking everything has blowed over so he ask her to come and pick him up at like 1 am and it was raining so she said hell no. so around 15 mins later he comes back and kicks the door down and starts yelling and breaking evertything from the tv, radio,computer,dvd all the elctronical appliances in the house , then he goes outside and smashes the car windows. and then after all of that she runs in the house and he comes back and kicks the back door in and threntens her so she runs next door and calls cops now hes saying its her fault she shouldnt have locked out him out. how does she continue to have a friendship with him for the children but at the same time what can she say to help him know what he did is what affected there marriage and get him to move on and stop this?

2007-12-10 19:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by khissmyputtytat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my BF ages ago and he keeps texting me, phoning me and calling round. He keeps telling me he loves me but he's ok with us being over (I ended the relationship). I have a new BF and ex know's this. He not only text's/phones me he's calling my friends and telling them how much he loves me and asking them about my new BF, they told me they get fed up with him calling them all the time but haven't got the heart to tell him so... should I tell him to leave them alone or just let them sort it out? Should I tell him to leave me alone too?? My BF is getting annoyed with it all and has said he'll have a word, but I don't know if that would stop him. I feel like screaming sometimes!!!

2007-12-10 19:38:33 · 17 answers · asked by sleepybaby 1 in Singles & Dating

hypothetically, there this girl you have been seeing not exclusively or anything but you act like your crazy about her one second then don't care the next. i think it's to protect himself because he cared when he didnt expect to but...

would it bother you if you seen her with another guy?
if so, what would you do?

2007-12-10 19:33:57 · 15 answers · asked by hellkitten 5 in Singles & Dating

ok what are some cute romantic ideas you can do without money?

My bf asked me this and he lives in Nj

I said walk in the park and picnic or like cuddling watching movies with hot coco

2007-12-10 19:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Singles & Dating

My hubby wants me to go out with him in skirt without innerwears and more trasparant cloths. he do touch me in public places. Is this normal? Sometimes when he found me in innerwear, he made me to take out them in nearby restrooms.

2007-12-10 19:28:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

years ago?

2007-12-10 19:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by Ben T 1 in Friends

A woman caught me looking at her chest yesterday, at the food court, in the mall. (I don't normally stare like that, but I wasn't even really looking... I was kind of just spacing out.) She smiled, but then she shook her head and waved her finger at me. What does that mean? Was she upset? I felt bad about it, and I still do, kinda.

2007-12-10 19:20:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So...
I told my husband tonight that I wanted to seperate and that I thought it would be best for us if we were apart.Well, at first it went over ok, then **** hit the fan. Needless to say he is not happy about this! He said that I am giving up on him and that he needs my help, and I said that there is nothing for me to do, I have givin him all the help I can, but that the rest is up to him.
The thing is...like I said...I have been with him for 5 years, married almost 3 years. He started anti-depressents about 3 weeks ago, he says they arn't strong enough, that he needs stronger. (he's on effexor 70 MG) But, I have been the brunt of his unhappiness. I have been screamed at, have things thrown at me while Im holding the baby, been called names, he's left all weekend to play "video games" at his friends house, he doesn't take his pill on the weekend so he can drink, he's threated to "pound my face into the wall", "smash the cell phone through my face", "i'm being a c***!"

2007-12-10 19:19:43 · 5 answers · asked by lesliebedford623 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She's always calling me fat and saying stuff like 'Why would I bother with a horrible person like you?' When we walk on the streets she would walk with my sister only and leave me behind. She gets angry with me really easily and twists everything I say into something negative directed against her. Maybe I'm really a horrible person but then why is it that my classmates and even my teachers like me? Some of them have even told me I was pretty? Whatever it is I am sick and tired of it so I was thinking, if she hates me so much, should I just make everyone's lives easier and go away?

2007-12-10 19:19:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay my dad brought me an ipod nano and both him and my mother got upset if i let anyone use it.... i can understand that whatever but i put my ipod on the table at my moms house and she hid it! and on top of that she doesnt remember where she hid it ![she really doesnt she isnt tricking me here] so she wont even look for it a 200$ ipod that she lost and she says its my fault i shouldnt have had it out but i put it there for areason so if i go somewhere i can just grab it she said that anyone couldve just taken it execpt nobody ever comes in our house! if my dad finds out he will be pissed i tryed lookin for it myself but i dunno where to look...so who is whong? and what should i do?

2007-12-10 19:17:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been together for a year now and he want to wait till after out 2 years together, he is scared that his parents will not like the idea of us moving in together any sooner, how do I go about talking to him about doing it sooner, he says he believes that he can marry me, so I don't know.And he is quite a traditional guy, eventhough I think tradition flew out the window for the both of us when we started sleeping together. I want us to have a partnership before we decide to get married. I know he loves me but don't know how to talk to hom about this. Any ideas on how to convince him sooner is better than later, I would much rather know sooner than later if we would be able to live together.

2007-12-10 19:16:25 · 5 answers · asked by anonomous 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 19:16:05 · 11 answers · asked by magy 1 in Singles & Dating

Do they mean...Am i prepared...like do I have all my stuff together...

OR do they mean.

Am i really ready to be tied down, and married?

So many have asked me this....And I just want to now what they mean by it.

2007-12-10 19:13:39 · 26 answers · asked by Imdatchick 3 in Weddings

Is it ok to have a housewarming party a month after our wedding

2007-12-10 19:13:18 · 10 answers · asked by lee 1 in Weddings

2007-12-10 18:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Farmer & Granny Crabtree 5 in Singles & Dating

i know a girl that barely ever talks around new people and all these guys have crushes on her. she gets every guy she ever looks at. they all go crazy over her and i dont get it. shes not skinny but shes not chubby either, shes like average size and shes a goody-goody. she doesnt drink or smoke or party. shes not fun. she tells people she wants to go bungee jumping and sky diving and ride roller coasters. shes so weird and crazy. why would anyone like her? im skinny, i have blonde hair, blue eyes and im tall. shes short, has brown hair and green eyes. im so much prettier. why are they all going after her and not me? its making me mad, i think maybe the guys are just to shy to let me know they like me to.

I know someone has to agree with me. Its just stupid girls saying shes not ugly. Come on guys, who agrees with me? I want her to know shes not hot.

2007-12-10 18:54:12 · 33 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 1 in Singles & Dating

Your are beautifull, you are unique, your DNA is only yours, so smile love yourself and most of all be happy.

2007-12-10 18:51:12 · 22 answers · asked by maram 4 in Friends

why do some men use women and brag to there friends i have saw this in life where a woman married . and has a family get involved in a affair knwing well if it comes ou there marrage is over. why would a man do a woman like that isnt there no decency in them at all once they got from a woman what they wanted is that right on there part . or what isnt that the numbr .1. divorce rate now . and dont the laws need to be more stricter on this when it comes to it and both parties need to account for there actions in a court o law . whould this slow it down if each had to appar in there not the one who wasnt doing nothing but trusted . there spouces .

2007-12-10 18:46:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are exposing groups of Christian Fundamentalists who sell literature advocating hitting their children with branches, plastic plumbing piping, paddles and advocate whipping 7 month old babies if they are irritable. Can anyone tell where it says to do this in the bible. http://childabuseaustralia.wordpress.com/

2007-12-10 18:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by Terry G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he's messing with my head, like beyond belief. and i'm falling for it
-he makes me feel guilty for not telling him EVERY aspect of my day, yet he compulsively lies to me
-he's a crazy emotionless wreck, until him being sad works for the situation
-he talks about how much he loves being with me, yet we're broken up due to HIM (we still hang out (WAYYY too much if you ask me))
-he makes me feel sorry for things that are his fault and that he does on his own

i guess the real thing is how do i get away from that? we're gonna be living like 20 minutes apart, but i have no plans to change my phone number so he can still contact me. how do i resist the urge not to call/text him back? how do i not feel so bad for him that i'm his friend again? do i need to act like he's pretty much dead? what's the rules on that stuff? i need complete honesty please!!! BUT i know for a fact that he is both the best and worst thing that has ever happened to me...cause i've learned alot from it

2007-12-10 18:40:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Our rule thus far has been that only one piece swimsuits are allowed, but she has been bugging us about it a lot lately...any thoughts?

2007-12-10 18:40:09 · 18 answers · asked by ksucats06 1 in Family

My partner and I live together and are planning a future together that includes marriage and children. He is a successful business man. He has been given a fantastic opportunity to buy into a huge company as an equity partner. This would mean us moving to another state. I am a professional earning a good salary, nowhere close to the same scale as what he will be making, but love my job. My family are here and my mum is not well and has been told her outlook won’t be good in 12 months. Should I go or should we do the long distance thing for 12 months? Could that cause the end of our relationship?? We are madly in love and I don't want him to miss out on this opportunity and regret it.

2007-12-10 18:37:03 · 3 answers · asked by Kels_Bells 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-10 18:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by it's me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

For example, lets say on his 16th Birthday he claimed to gay, would this bother you and WHY?

2007-12-10 18:27:14 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so my husband and I are complete opposites in practically everything including how we raise our daughter. He was living abroad due to immigration issues for the first two years of her life. When he came to the US he told me I had screwed up and ruined our daughter. I was always proud of how close we were especially ince i did it alone.I am very into the attachment parenting, cosleeping etc. He thinks I am completely spoiling our daughter and that she has no respect for me. In some ways I agree, she hits me and has no real respect for my authority. I know that I need to become more strict if I want to maintain control of her as she grows older. My husband actually told me tonight, as I struggled to get her to go to bed without me, that he felt having a daughter with me was a mistake and that he didn't want any more kids because that would be an even bigger mistake. In general she is very good for a two-year old. She doesn't really throw tantrums except at bedtime and is affectionate

2007-12-10 18:17:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 18:17:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

GUYS ONLY what would you do if were delivering pizza and when you rang the bell the woman who opened the door was topless

2007-12-10 18:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by LeeAnn 1 in Singles & Dating

don't get my wrong -- I love my bf with all my heart and soul -- but how do you know when you're relationship has hit a dead end?
i'm in my first relationship.. so im not exactly sure.

2007-12-10 18:08:32 · 30 answers · asked by christypooh87 2 in Singles & Dating

He's left me so many times (about 8 times in 2 years). Every time he left (but one) was during one of my monthly PMS crying non-stop modes. When I tell him that I am just hormonal and I'm sorry for any disrespect, he says I am making lame excuses for being a b**ch and that I can't treat people this way. I sought medical treatment, but my doc says its normal to have this mood shift every month as long as at same time each month. Tell that to my husband. Why is PMS still a locker rooom joke to men? It's wrecked my life and is no joke at all. Fact is I can't control my emotions for 2 days of the month, so why am I punished? My kids already miss their Dad and I feel sick with grief and regret though I know I had no control at the time. I wish I had luxury of hiding out for these 2 days each month, but I don't.

2007-12-10 18:07:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce