Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

i really like this hot chick who goes to my high school. she looks like such a good girl but her sex personality is so different. when she learned i liked her she sent me a note that said to meet her outside her locker during c period, and when i did she lead me into the janitor's closet and stripped us both and we hooked up.
that weekend we went to the movies and sat in the back. in the middle of the movie she grabbed my d1ck and started playing around with it like it was a typical thing to do when watching a movie.
i feel like it's moving kinda fast and she's just using me...?
is this normal behavior for a girl? i've never had a girlfriend like this.

2007-12-10 14:15:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hearing people (including my own parents) using the words "kids" to refer to my sister and I (20 and 23) and my other friends is really starting to annoy me. It makes me think they think we're goats. We're not. The appropriate word to use is children which establishes our humanity. Why call your children something they're not?

2007-12-10 14:14:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is there really such thing as too young to get married ?

2007-12-10 14:14:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met him a couple of years ago through my boyfriend. We all became friends and hung out. A year later I met his wife. She lives in another state because he is in the military. After a few months his wife and I became good friends. She doesn't know he has been carrying on an affair and is now living with his mistress. The wife is waiting and believes he will come home to her around Christmas. I feel horrible about this. If I talk, I will lose him as a friend. If I keep quiet and the wife finds out I knew, I will lose her as a friend. And, if I do say something and they patch things up, there is a chance I could lose both of them. Or, should I cut myself loose now and contact them in a couple of years to see how they're doing?

2007-12-10 14:12:47 · 22 answers · asked by rdavis61 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted a Q about my gf being raped. Well her mother HATES me . I mean she can't stand me. She actually told my soon to be fiance, that she doesn't want her to have kids with me because im not good. And i'm trying my best to fit all of her needs since I'm done being mad and i know she was hurt. She completely ran to her mother. But she says that she loves me. She said she needs her mother for "support" so she can heal. But i think thats bullcrap. Becuase she acts liek im not trying to help her get better. Why does she even need her mother, IM HERE. I just want to call everything off. I want too leave her. What should i do. And i knwo she was raped and im not trying to be an ***. But im just pissed. And imnot gunna let her mother ruin the life og the kids that i want with her. What should i do???

2007-12-10 14:09:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Haven't heard from him in 6 days.....

2007-12-10 14:08:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is 9 years old and it is his first idea to send a letter to Santa. He believes that Santa will answer him. Please, anyone help me to get Santa`s address !!! Thanks a lot.

2007-12-10 14:07:34 · 37 answers · asked by Andrey V 1 in Family

My husband passed away in June due to a 4-wheeler accident. Right after it happened I felt hopeless and helpless. I loved him with all my heart. I started getting tattoos in memory of him. I used to be against tattoos until I lost him. While getting the tattoos I met the tattoo artist who I am now currently dating. I still love my husband and always will, and I wasn't looking for anyone to date this just happened. I am falling for this guy but I don't know what he thinks of me. We live two hours apart, but on the weekends we spend almost the entire weekend together. However, when I return to school during the week he only calls and talks to me maybe 5 minutes a day. He also has told me that he loves me. Does he really love me or just using me?? Does he just not like to talk on the phone??? I just can't get hurt any more. I have been through enough as it is!!!!

2007-12-10 14:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by Dragonfly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

IAM A 35 YEAR OLD WOMEN,IAM NOT BAD LOOKING,NOT A BAD PERSON,,IAM A LEAP BABY,,THE 29TH OF FEB,,I JUST GOT OUT OF A 13YEAR RELATIONSHIP,,THAT I WAS WAY WAY OFF ON WHAT WAS GOING ON,,IAM FAR FROM STUPID,,,,NOR IAM A PUNK,,I CAN FIGHT FOR MYSELF,,RATHER GOOD AT IT,,I NEED HELP,,I AM SHY OF THE $$ I NEED TO FILE FOR MY SON,,OUT OF EGO,GREED,AND A REAL SICK SEX PROBLEM(,IAM GATHERING) WILOIAM TAYLOR IS HIDEING MY SON FROM ME,,I MISS MY SON,,LIES HAVE HURT MY CHILDREN,,THE TRUTH IS SOMETHING THEY WILL KNOW KNOW NOTHING ABOUT TILL THEY FEEL THE EMTIONS THEMSELVES,,I DONT KNOW WHAT I WAS WAITING FOR,,BUT,,IT HAS ALMOIST COST ME MY SON,,CAN SOME ONE HELP??EVEN TO HELP ME DO THE PAPERS??I KNOW WHAT HAS TO BE DONE,,THE REAL DEAL IS THAT IS DEEEEEPER THAN ANYONE WANTS TO SAY,,PEOPLE ARE GETTING INTO SOMETHING THAT IS GOOING TO BACK FIRE IN THEIR FACE,,I JUST WANT MY KIDS TO LOVE THEMSELVES INSIDE AND OUT,,ALL I CAN DO IS LOVE THEM,,THEY HAVE BEEN FORCED TO PICK SIDES,,THIS IS LIFE NOT A BING GAME

2007-12-10 14:06:14 · 1 answers · asked by paytonsrm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I found out at Thanksgiving last year that my husband was having an affair with a co-worker. i have now learned that they are still talking and of course they still work together. I want this to work out it is a 27 year marriage and beleive it or not I still love him. i need some advice on what to do next before I go crazy.

2007-12-10 14:05:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my wife are young parents and usually go to clubs together. we have a daughter whos 2 months and tonight she wants to go clubbin and wants me to watch our daughter by myself. i cant even change a tire let alone watch my daughter by myself. just kidding. should i be cool with it and let her go? or see if we can find a babysitter and go together if we can! we deserve the time to have fun weve worked so hard but she wants to go tonight and we might not have a babysitter. i dont like it because women who go clubbin are usually single. it sounds like a bad idea. but what do you think? i hate the idea of going seperate.

2007-12-10 14:01:58 · 26 answers · asked by FukcingAngel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 13:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband have been together for going on 2 years and he don't like to get his stuff sucked on. I have only done it one time since we have been together and anytime I try to do it he seems like he don't want it. In the beg. of our relationship he said he did not like it but I did not know he really ment it like this. What is wrong with him? has any guys ever felt like this?

2007-12-10 13:58:28 · 17 answers · asked by Nae 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well everytime me andmy bf cuddle he gets relel horny and closes his eyes and breaths heavy and stops talking.Why deos he act like hes in a coma /rell tired when we cuddle?

2007-12-10 13:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he wore a condom and i didnt do anythink i didnt want to do. but i'm confused as it didnt feel wrong it felt nice and comfortable.

2007-12-10 13:57:49 · 23 answers · asked by Zinola R 1 in Singles & Dating

Myboyfreind has been to jail on numerous occasions. and this is cos of his stupid "Boys". I tell him that they bring him down, i have locked him down since he has met me he has not been in trouble and has changed his life for the better, so why does he still want contact with these supposed friends of his. Me and his mother and trying to stop him seeing them but he won't? What do i do???

2007-12-10 13:55:17 · 8 answers · asked by Christina 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay life is pretty good right now, I hav a boyfriend im a prep i wear hollister and all that im not trying to brag just a picture of who i am, and lately this guy told me to be yourself, and i said im still dont no this hapend recently. i tried switching groups i became emo for a day just for fun it wuz too much fun!!!! but i cant just leave behind everything and i dont no wut the heck im doin i probably sound a litl weird but im going crazzy im always faking a smile and im always mellow, can some one plz help me.

2007-12-10 13:53:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He and I grew up together, she is in the picture for the past few years. My husband and I talked before I told her and we decided it was the best thing to do. She said she already suspected it, and for months she called me all day long, wanting to talk or have advice. Then all of a sudden she stopped calling me, except when she wants something. That was 2 yrs ago. They decided to stay together, she told me she was staying for his money (he has a good job), and they promptly had a 3rd kid to seal the deal, calling the child the name I had always wanted to give a child. I feel really hurt, I deleted her on facebook, I called him a couple of times, he said he would call back and never did, I don't know why it upsets me, but I feel that they treated me really badly. How can I stop letting it bother me?

2007-12-10 13:52:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 13:51:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do men use others procrastination as a pitiful pathetic excuse for their own?

2007-12-10 13:51:35 · 12 answers · asked by xxxcariooo 3 in Singles & Dating

1st off ... i have a mental illness in which it is not my best interest to have significant others or to date at all.... im not a killer or harmful but doctors and therapists throughout my life have alwayss told me its not in my best interest... i have come to peace with that .. and know now that they are right..
with that in mind.... i have alot of female friends... i have guy friends too but alot of female friends... sometimes hanging out with some of my female friends they grow to be interested in me? i do not want this... this isnt to say im irresistible of nething liek that im nothing special... in fact majority of my relationships with the opposite sex never get to that point...
im not flirting or nething like that ...do u think its cuz they want something they cant have? i realli dont flirt at all with them...
neway... this is new to me... i realli dont want any woman to be into me... this never was a concern in my life before.. how do i know when a woman is getting into me?

2007-12-10 13:50:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't tell me the obvious
ex. they are mean to you..etc.

2007-12-10 13:49:11 · 10 answers · asked by abcgal01 2 in Friends

all i can say is i did bad stuff in a mens restroom with my ex then i lie to the princelble and said i didnt do anything.

2007-12-10 13:46:23 · 2 answers · asked by Rosa M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how often do you touch your wife and just hug her with out having any sex. Or how often do you have this need to just be close to your wife with out wanting anything from her. How often do you tell her that you love her?

2007-12-10 13:45:24 · 10 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a friendship with this girl and its come to the point thats its detrimental to our marriage. We've been together for 3yrs married for 2 1/2. We have a toddler. He's know this girl for less than year.

I told him he needs to stop being around her until we can get our marriage back on track. He flat out refuses to stop being around her. He's not cheating with her but has fantasies about it. She's a lesbian with significant other.

I've probed as far as I'm willing and told him it hurts to much to stay like this and he needed to tell this friend goodbye for the sake of our marriage.He stated "I'll choose our daughter over anyone including you"

I'm glad he feels that strongly about his kid but on the same hand I feel as though he stated he's still not going to choose ME over this girl.

I'm thinking about talking to this girl privately. I don't think she's aware of the situation. Would that be a mistake?? What should I even say???

2007-12-10 13:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by ARL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there was a strange lady in it 'what shall i do .

2007-12-10 13:43:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband of 10 years used to work with my cousin's husband. A few days ago she called me and told me that there were rumors circulating around the workplace that my husband was having an affair with one of his former coworkers while he still worked there. She said that her husband heard people saying that they went out to long lunches together and that he picked her up after work once. He was never secretive about having lunch with her and he often had lunch at home. Lunch between friends isn't really a reason to be suspicious, but now I'm wondering if he was "hiding out in the open." This women does have a reputation for promiscuity according to both of our husbands (mentioned independantly from this instance) and niether one of the accused were present during this rumorfest. My husband says they were just friends and that he has hardly spoken to her since he quit. No one said they witnessed any physical intamacy, but they did suspect more than friendship. Gossip or truth?

2007-12-10 13:43:39 · 6 answers · asked by rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would u do if u had an crush on someone for 7 years,but u know that u r an shy gurl,but that
boy don't know your name

2007-12-10 13:38:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just small gifts .is it better too give ;or recive ..

2007-12-10 13:38:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys, what sports do you find most impressive that girls play? What sports do you wish girls would play more?

2007-12-10 13:37:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating