Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

( please see my other question for details) should i ask her out or was it a one time thing?

2007-12-10 12:47:48 · 1 answers · asked by Plubi 1 in Singles & Dating

hello everyone ,im presently unemployed,the store close down, and i havent been able to find any as yet, and my boyfriend of 7 yrs told me not to worry about it ,and he has been paying my bills ever since ,but im still looking,i een give up,so now lately he was coming in me ,and i ask him one night if he knew the out come this colud lead into, he said yes ,i could get pregnant ,so i said ok ,then he said he was trying long time so how come im not pregnant as yet ,so i said these things take time,so here i am thinking this man want a baby ,so i was like lord you have to help me give this man a child ,and couple weeks after that i found out i was 5 weeks pregnant , i was so happyi couldnt wait to tell my boyffiend ,but when i told him he was like we cant afford a baby ,you have to get an abortion,now im so stress out because i dont want a abortion and this is my first child ,i feel that god bless me with one why should i kill it,you think he is right or wrong,or what should i do

2007-12-10 12:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by rochelle a 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 26. I am 24. We have been dating about a month but we have long distance relationship so it is either spending the night at his house or getting a hotel room which I can't really afford. The thing is we have been great friends for a year or so and we haven't seen eachother in person since we began the "relationship". This will be the first time. We've actually only seen eachother in person a few times but a year ago we started phone conversations that were great and it developed into something much more.... so now we are going to see how it is in person with our "relationship". We are both virgins, and don't plan on doing anything like that. Do you think it is a good idea or do you think it will be uncomfortable and awkward? The thing is I don't want us to feel like we HAVE to get physical such as kissing or whatever (sex wont happen).....but I don't want physical things to feel forced.

2007-12-10 12:47:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 12:45:30 · 4 answers · asked by ynot be the best 1 in Singles & Dating

I acted very needy last night and really upset my bf of 2 months.We got into a fight. We said we didn't want to fight and goodnight but things were still not good. This morning I sent him a text appologising and explaining why I was acting like that and that I wouldn't do it anymore. He has not replied and I'm sure would have gotten it by now. I don't want him to break up with me and want to do whatever I can to make things better. Should I send him another text/call him or should I just leave him alone and wait for him to contact me?
Also... I don't know if he's still mad & annoyed or if he knows he has me wrapped around his finger right now and is making me sweat a bit. (he's a bit of a game player). I don't want to play games... I just want to do what to do at this point to salvage things.
What should I do if he doesn't call me at all tonight? (we talk everyday even just to say hi) Should I then call him tomorrow?
Do you think he might be waiting to see what I'll do next???

2007-12-10 12:42:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or they simply dislike me?

2007-12-10 12:42:09 · 17 answers · asked by gurmet 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior dating a freshman in high school and we have been together for a week now. We have yet to share the first kiss while seeing each other outside of school two days during this week. She comes and talks to me before one period while im outside the class. One idea I had to break the ice of the first kiss was that during the few minutes we talk for me to simply say... "Your going to have to forgive me for doing this, but ????" and then finally kiss her. Any input on finishing that sentence is greatly appreciated as well as thoughts on if this is a good or great way to break the ice.


Thanks in advance!

2007-12-10 12:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Morgan F 1 in Singles & Dating

one of my coworkers shes having a baby, but no ones likes her cause shes goes behind our backs and tell our supervisor what ever we do! she also watches every of our conversation and she becomes part of them without being invited, should we still go ahead and give her a baby shower?

2007-12-10 12:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by edie 2 in Friends

2007-12-10 12:32:57 · 3 answers · asked by Grace 1 in Family

Long story short....
Me and my wife were married and had a daughter in Southern California. We separated and she left with my daughter up to Central California (about 6 or 7 hours away). She then issued a child support order on me and I have 32% of my pay garnished weekly. She keeps telling me that if I quit my job, move up to Central California to be closer to our daughter, and take her 50% of the time, she will pull the child support orders. I do want to be closer to my daughter, but my question is:
Is what she is saying even possible? Can you just pull child support orders at a whim? I'm afraid if I quit my job here and leave everything behind, the court system will take me down finacially once I get down there with backpay and such. Then I will be in a worse off situation since I won't have a job, home, or any type of security. I want to be closer to my daughter, but don't want to be homeless in doing so.
How easy/fast is it to stop child support?

2007-12-10 12:31:43 · 12 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when he says he will be here for me and the baby? ( if i am pregnant) hes always been a good boyfriend and hes actually really mature, and he took it really well. He's actually excited and says he cant wait for us to be a family, that kinda freaks me out. and do you get kicked outta school if your pregnant in grade 8?

2007-12-10 12:28:30 · 8 answers · asked by NataliE 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you then give me some sugar?

2007-12-10 12:26:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with my boyfriend and it was on a three way with my ex me and him and right after i broke up with him he had 2 go and my ex was like "good thing you dumped that sorry loser!!!!" and i was like "why?" and he was like "because now you got a new boyfriend!" and i was like "uhh ok w/e but actually your that new of a boyfriend 2 me" and then he was "huh?" and i was like "duh cuz we already went out remember we went out for like 5 months!!!!"
and he was like "ohh ya i just didnt get wat you said but now i do!"

i think thats kinda funny do u?

PS i was single for about 45 seconds

(a few minutes later the dude i just dumped, his 24 yr old older brother called me and started cussing me out and asked 2 talk 2 my mom 2 make sure i never called back that # and i told him not 2 worry cuz i was never gonna call that ***** back anyway !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
lol
~olivia~

2007-12-10 12:25:04 · 8 answers · asked by ~OLIVIA~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 12:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

I have already talked to my girlfriend today, but I just wanted to call her just to say goodnight and that I miss her. We have been dating awhile.

2007-12-10 12:21:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 12:21:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sick of being single. I have brown hair big brown eyes and a great body. And i;'m outtgoing and funny. So why is it i can't stay commited? i've cheated a few times and i regret it. And don't do it anymore. I have a hard life but i want someone to share it with. ugh. ( by the way i'm not deprerate) but just in that mood. Any advice?

2007-12-10 12:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf wants a chase how do i give him one.. were on a little break and he says he doesnt want it so easy so how do i make it hard? detailed answers please

2007-12-10 12:19:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 12:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by marissas aunt 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but....im too shy too tell him.He sometimes talk to me when his friends aren't with him.He keep teasing me everytime were alone...that i like this other guy....but I actually don't.What do you think I should do about it?I need tips...

2007-12-10 12:16:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to get over my ex. he was a jerk. we won't ever make it. how do i ease the pain? cutting is not an option...jk...but no on the cutting part.

2007-12-10 12:16:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Aight, people. Heres the deal. I have never had a boyfriend - see, thing is, I've had guys crush on me, but when I find out, I get scared and push them away. I think its cause I have liked this one kid for a year and I'm hoping for him...but I somehow know it won't happen. So I just stay friends with them, but not close friends anymore. It makes me feel like a bad person. Whats up, and what the hell do I do?

2007-12-10 12:16:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the last day of 8th grade last year me and my friends guys and girls all hung out at our friends house. When we got there the girls were looking through the year book and deciding about who is the best looking guy in the grade. They said i was and i was hanging out with about 4 of my friends and ever since then all the 4 guys that were there that day and not picked as best looking guy started to make fun of me and call me ugly and that the girls lied about being the best looking. Is this true?

2007-12-10 12:15:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do if your boyfriend who hasn't seen in weeks then he shows up at school and doesn't say anything and his friends sayed that it was over but i can't get over him

2007-12-10 12:14:45 · 11 answers · asked by dark9girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy for 4 yrs. Him and I always had crushes on each other... but, I had a boyfriend (ps... crush lives about 230 miles away from me). I'm no longer with my boyfriend, and I just found out this guy (crush) has had an off/on girlfriend for the entire time we've known each other. He tells me he likes me a lot and even knows and likes my daughter (I had with my ex). These past couple months we've been talking/txtng a lot and have grown close to one another. I recently recieved a call from his FIANCE' (that's what she said) ... and she questioned our (crush and i's) relationship: asked me how i knew him... have we ever "hooked up", and just tons of questions. - i told him about the call i received, and what was said over the conversation- and asked if they were really engaged. He said no- that she's his girlfriend off and on for 4 yrs. -- they don't even live together=
so.. my question is... what should i do? or tell him? i like him-

2007-12-10 12:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by austin t 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months we both like each other and have alot of fun when we're together. For some reason though in school she is a totally different person, she doesnt talk to me much and will flirt with other guys instead of me, i understand she is a flirty person but it gets kind of annoying, i wouldent expect her to be embarresed of me because in my ipinion im a good looking guy. Then i confronted her about this, and she said that she wants me to play more of hard to get to keep our relationship intresting? Im gettin rly tired with this beacuse i love being aruond her and talking to her, when its just us its fine but around people i have to play "hard to get" i dont understand she's my gf wouldent she want me to hold her and talk to her most of the time. I understand the line between too mushy and sweet

2007-12-10 12:13:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would appreciate input from people who don't just want to slam her, because I really don't need that right now..I am confused and need good advice!

She has been married for over 10 years, they have a child together (9 yrs old).

She says she has met someone else. She says that even if she hadn't met someone else, she would still want out of her marriage...now that she knows what is out there.

She married her husband right out of high school at 17 (not b/c she was pregnant--military).

She thinks she will get full custody just by asking for it. I tell her that's not how it works.

She can't just take their kid and move, can she? Please help, this is my sister...and my neice!

2007-12-10 12:11:32 · 24 answers · asked by Sherri P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 12:09:56 · 12 answers · asked by dimond32 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so, I'm the only person out of all of my friends that has never had a boyfriend. Or anything close, for that matter. I know I'm not the prettiest girl in school, but I do have some traits that some girls say are nice. I have nice eyes and pretty hair. But I am not skinny, and I am really cautious (I have had 3 knee surgeries). Also, I am very sarcastic, and sensitive. What do you think could get guys to notice me, for reasons other than that I can help with homework? And really, if looks don't matter, why have guys said they don't like me because I am ugly? I'd absolutly love some advice! Or just your own thoughts on this.

2007-12-10 12:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i knoe these two guys they r soooooo cute and so nice i don't wanna hurt there feelings. i mean i like both of them the same amount but they both asked me out . i don't wanna pick favorites because i'm not that type of person. i need some help! and if i go out with them at the same time it'll be hard to do that cause we go to the same school !wat should i do????????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-10 12:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating