I acted very needy last night and really upset my bf of 2 months.We got into a fight. We said we didn't want to fight and goodnight but things were still not good. This morning I sent him a text appologising and explaining why I was acting like that and that I wouldn't do it anymore. He has not replied and I'm sure would have gotten it by now. I don't want him to break up with me and want to do whatever I can to make things better. Should I send him another text/call him or should I just leave him alone and wait for him to contact me?
Also... I don't know if he's still mad & annoyed or if he knows he has me wrapped around his finger right now and is making me sweat a bit. (he's a bit of a game player). I don't want to play games... I just want to do what to do at this point to salvage things.
What should I do if he doesn't call me at all tonight? (we talk everyday even just to say hi) Should I then call him tomorrow?
Do you think he might be waiting to see what I'll do next???
2007-12-10 12:42:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a stomachache and am very worried. I don't want to lose him! I am DIEING to talk to him. Please tell me what you think and what I should do!!!
Do you think he will call me still tonight???
2007-12-10 12:42:43 · update #1
You really need to chill out. You just stated acting needy was what drove him to want some space, and now you're freaking out because you can't continue to display needy behavior. Wait for him to get back to you. If he decides to let some minor episode end the relationship, he's not the one for you. When you do talk with him again, try not to be so worked up. In the meantime, so you wont stress out, find something to occupy yourself. That might help a lot.
2007-12-10 12:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all keep in mind that the aching is a chemical effect of love. It is unpleasant but just a symptom. You are lucky to be in love but will have to suffer the physical consequences. You should send a brief message in whatever medium you are used to communicating in-- text, email or whatever. It should be SHORT and to the point. My suggestion. "I think we both made some mistakes yesterday. I am sorry for my part. I want to talk to you when you are ready. I am going to go to bed now to get a good night sleep." DON'T wear your heart on your sleeve. DON'T beg. Just be your normal charming self.
2007-12-10 12:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every lady deserves to be treated like one!!!!!! Is he doing that you say "he's a bit of a game player" does that mean he uses you or just keeps you around for convenience. You two have been together for 2 months don't sweat it if he doesn't call move on. find someone who appreciates you and will not take you for granted.
2007-12-10 12:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by shimko42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would not fight him by force but talking to him to solve the problem. sending apologizing would not satisfied him. you need to talk to him in a private room and explain it. let him give a time to decide, i know your BF didn't reply but you have to give him a time maybe he will change his mind and he will miss you. I will never leave him alone unless your BF is only playing or using you. just try your best to communicate with him. THE BEST WAY TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEMS IS TO ASK GOD WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE THE BELIEVER OF GOD.
2007-12-10 12:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin the Wise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would use reverse physcology here.I would text him again but ask him ' Are you ok Hunny.....are you feeling any better '...instead of seeming needy once more, thats how he might have interpreted your last text message, you reverse the roles....you put him in the position where he has to answer you because you have asked if he is alright, if he wants to talk about how he feels, about the whole situation linked to it... which he certainly will, he will text back..I can guarantee it..
2007-12-10 12:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, no game player is or will be ever be good enough for you. they really are immature and stupid. if he cant handle facing you for whatever reason, give him some time (he might have his reasons) .. but if he doesnt call within a couple days, there's gonna be problems. call him up then.
i would say good luck.. but i dont like the way how this dude is treating you.
2007-12-10 12:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive always hated the word desperation. Reading your question brought the word up front.
If you act so desperate and he knows it, he's at an advantage. Let him make the next move.
You have already tried to contact him.
Now take it easy.
2007-12-10 12:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by mysterian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call you. If you keep on trying to contact him he'll just think you're needy. Just try and relax and see if he calls. Don't play into his hands and call him just to see what he says. You've apologised and explained your actions, it's his turn to contact you now.
2007-12-10 12:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fone him ask if he got you letter and clear things up
if you think you where the needy one what are you afraid of and what are you waiting for the more time it take the worse you'll get if you did wrong it's up to you to make ir better
2007-12-10 12:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Love s2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, don't call. Play it cool. Don't panic. He'll come back and if he's really thinking he's got you wrapped around his finger, you'll blow him away if you let him make the first move back.
2007-12-10 12:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋