Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

Okay, so I'm not the type of girl who goes and gets what she wants. And there's this guy in my science class who I really just want to talk to, not so much date (although that'd be cool) and he doesn't really know who I am. I've talked to him maybe twice, and it was totally casual and having to do with the class. I'm not sure he knows my name, and he's a year older then me...
Plus, my mom doesn't want me dating someone unless he's christian which is really restricting. I mean I like this guy, but what do I do to get his attention without seeming desperate? He also has a Myspace, but I don't want to just send him a random message wanting to get to know him when he doesn't really know me...you know?
The good thing is that he's straight and I never see him flirting or hanging out with girls. I guess that's good, right? *Sigh* I don't know what to do... help me?

2007-12-10 11:19:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 11:18:52 · 14 answers · asked by Beast from the East 4 in Singles & Dating

loosen up a little bit because everytime a guy likes me and i dont like him i always hide from him at school.....and i usually dont like them becuse their desperate and the guys i usually do like already have cubby blonde girlfriends (no offense to anyone like that reading this) am i wrong to not like guys that are desperate? and i always feel that i dont have a chance to get with the guys that i like. they dont even know me.
help..?

2007-12-10 11:16:15 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs.Arthur 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 11:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by Dejalo 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend To Say:

"i luv u"
or
"i love you"

The "i luv u" one irritates me, cos it makes it seem like
they don't mean it. =/

what do you think?

[.x.] Heartless [.x.]

2007-12-10 11:13:06 · 4 answers · asked by HollieBella_x 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on my best friends brother.he flirts with me and i like,obviously.he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend.its seems to me like its ONLY just a physical attraction.but i would hate to wonder "what if".

should i and how can i get over this crush?

2007-12-10 11:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This I started dating a girl in October it was good at first. Soon we hit a boatload of problems. The main issue w/ her was trust. We didn't really hang out outside of class all most of November. It was a really hard month for me and her. The past week or so we've been talkin' and seeing each other more. Last night she told me she slept w/ some body else. Then said she'd be okay if I did the same thing while we were having problems. I said no, then she said she was just joking? It's been also two months for us. Do you think she did or was she trying to catch me slipping?

2007-12-10 11:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 11:10:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 11:10:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now, I feel guilty because I feel like I'm cheating on my new boyfriend with my ex and I love both of them so much! now SOMEONE put me in this pressure because of his answer to my new question! I'm not saying who, but he put me in this place and he knows who he is. I'm stuck between 2 guys here! My boyfriend hates my ex so much because my ex called me a b****, whore, and ugly, immature loser and my boyfriend knows what my ex did to me, my friends, and him! Also if I tell my boyfriend that I'm in love with my ex, he will be crushed and break up with me! What do you think I should do about this? Should I tell my boyfriend about this when he gets back from vacation? plz be honest and NO STUPID OR PERVERT/RETARDED ANSWERS! Also NO TV SHOWS OFFERING! Someone did that to my last question and I'm not going to do it! Thanks so much for answering this question and I will check on this later!

-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*

2007-12-10 11:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Singles & Dating

I'll try to be breif as possible. me & my ex have a 4 yr old together. we are still doing paper work & in the process of him getting visitation. so there isnt anything set in stone yet. but i have been voluntarily letting my ex keep our daughter every other weekend so she can get used to being with him. we've each have been driving & meeting half way to do the swap (and with our work schedules, 7:30PM seems to work out best). we agreed to both being present when we drop off or pick up our daughter. lately HIS MOM has been wanting to do the pick ups instead of my ex. she thinks our time frame is just too late in the evening but that's the only convenient time for me. and from my understanding when my child stays with her father, he doesnt make her go to bed until midnight or later... should i tell his mom to butt out or let her get our child, or not back out on my word & have my ex come and get our daughter?? 7:30PM or not at all???

2007-12-10 11:07:32 · 13 answers · asked by loved<3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so this guy comes up to me and say do you know what this means and he was doing this push up looking thing while sitting down. He just stuck his hand straight out and he was doing a push up.

2007-12-10 11:06:32 · 5 answers · asked by Im*Crushed 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad divorced my mom earlier this year, and is getting remaried right befor christmas. I am sad but happy that he is really happy. He asked me to sing in the wedding and i am having a hard time comming up wtih a good song. That's not all about how compltely gushing in love we are right now. They like country music but i doesn't have to be.

2007-12-10 11:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by Jen B 1 in Weddings

wife and are seperated she makes it hard to be with my kid. shes says that she doesn't know who am anymore and doesn't trust me around our daughter. our daughter is very happy to see me though. i never did anything to harm her.

2007-12-10 11:02:39 · 25 answers · asked by ace82 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship now for 6 yrs its a long story and no one knew about my relationship with this person however i found out 6 months ago that he was cheating on me with this girl. I had enough solid evidence to prove it and when i asked him and told him my proof he just made excuses and blamed me for not paying attention to him and always nagging him..... i did nag him but it was because he was doing things i didnt like and when he didnt change the behaviour after we talked about it i would nag... doesnt give him reason to cheat... he should have just been honest. anyways being me i decided to forgive him as long as he cuts of all ties with this person..... i asked him to do it in front of me but he said he wanted to do it his way... i believed him and thought he had stopped seeing her. as it turns out he is still with her and i am not tired of this... i have decided to break off with him and have told him. he is upset and tells me he loves me and that he is not cheating...

2007-12-10 11:02:06 · 7 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

OK..would you ever date a girl because of her personality? I mean shes ok lookin...you just usually tend to go for girls who look great but then break your heart....if you had been in this situation (more than once) would you go out with someone who you said a 10 personality to her face but was just ok lookin...

2007-12-10 11:01:48 · 16 answers · asked by I♥NickSimmons 1 in Singles & Dating

how often?
where?
do you cry in front of friends/family, or by yourself?

im just trying to see if the stereotype is true =]

2007-12-10 10:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by Kenna Coconut™ Actorasauress Rex 5 in Singles & Dating

♥Catti♥

2007-12-10 10:58:19 · 17 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Friends

2007-12-10 10:54:28 · 13 answers · asked by asp_snake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 10:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking forward to buy a diamond ring for my wedding hence I would like to know if its a suitable stone for me.

2007-12-10 10:51:28 · 18 answers · asked by Rekthes N 1 in Weddings

I am 17 so you at least have to be under 18.

2007-12-10 10:48:15 · 18 answers · asked by raven 1 in Singles & Dating

I just need help and i dont want no stupid talk like just suck it up and w/e just try to help!! also he wants to fu*k outside buh i never done that!! HELP!!

2007-12-10 10:46:02 · 1 answers · asked by Bad Jawn ! 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm sooo lost. Everytime someone asks me what i want to do when i get older i have NO clue. my bestfriend (that moved an hour away a while ago, we are still bff tho =). and like she seems to think that after school we're gonna move to BC to get this thing, and then go to California, and do some school there, and then we're gonna be fashion designer or w.e. Okay, so the question what type of career shoudl i persue? I want something that has to do with animals, and nature and forests and stuff. But i don't want to be a vet i can't stand to stick needles in animals. My dad has wanted to be a forest ranger but he couldn't because he couldn't stay away for 2 yrs. I want some sort of career that doesn' have me sittin' at a desk all day, but will allow me to go outside, and someday hopefully give me enough leeway so when i do decide to ahve kids, my work wont interfere with it (i know i'm thinking ahead alot, but hey i can't help it) i can't think of a career i would like to persue. help pl

2007-12-10 10:44:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

with a bad back no money, no prospects , a little willy, useless in bed, adicted to porn movies.
But on the plus side I'm spotless underneath and I go to church every
Sunday

2007-12-10 10:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by mickeok 1 in Singles & Dating

Well guys i bought a new lingerie outfit for my bf and i had it sent to his house i told him not to open it and we have been apart for 3 weeks what would be a new fun idea to incorporate with this new look of mine to really get him squirming. Its pink see through and lacy if that helps :-)

2007-12-10 10:43:14 · 22 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

Im crying right now. I caught my dad watching porn and porn videos underneath the bed and history of porn websites. When i got home from school, I went on the computer and it was logged under his username and desktop and I was looking under the recent websites hes been on and theres porn video websites everywhere. He wasnt working today so I think hes been doing that all day. It really makes me sad to know that my dad has been watching this c rap and i dont believe in it. he doesnt know i know but still. it really makes me mad and my mom and dad are married but fight off and on but right now i just want to bash his head. i hate him so much right now. hes coming home soon so what should i do? im only 13 years old

2007-12-10 10:42:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ARE you always have to be the one to initiate the conversation or aim, message of whatever it is with a friend---If you are the one who waits, why do you?... Does that mean they are not your *true friend?..OR does it mean that those friends are the ones who expect others to make the move first?..*passive friends or lazy?...Most of my friends are like this, it's a miracle when they do initiate the conversation first , it's **getting kind of old** I mean they do reply and we ENJOY our talk, but why is it that I usually or always have to initiate it?...

Whats your thought on this?....

* I think asking them why why they don't go first for once, would start WW III -lol, or just that it shouldn't matter, as long as we're friends.

2007-12-10 10:41:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-10 10:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shared a house with a german guy called karl(kalle)klass in penicuik midlothian about 6 years ago and would love to know what hes up to now.he is a joiner to trade and the last i know was he was living in edinburgh.he was into jazz music plse help

2007-12-10 10:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by eckdoo 1 in Friends