I have been in a relationship now for 6 yrs its a long story and no one knew about my relationship with this person however i found out 6 months ago that he was cheating on me with this girl. I had enough solid evidence to prove it and when i asked him and told him my proof he just made excuses and blamed me for not paying attention to him and always nagging him..... i did nag him but it was because he was doing things i didnt like and when he didnt change the behaviour after we talked about it i would nag... doesnt give him reason to cheat... he should have just been honest. anyways being me i decided to forgive him as long as he cuts of all ties with this person..... i asked him to do it in front of me but he said he wanted to do it his way... i believed him and thought he had stopped seeing her. as it turns out he is still with her and i am not tired of this... i have decided to break off with him and have told him. he is upset and tells me he loves me and that he is not cheating...
2007-12-10 11:02:06 · 7 answers · asked by star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yet i know he is still seeing her....... i feel sorry for breaking up with him as i think he is a pathological lier... but i cannot ruin my life for him.......... what can i do to make myself feel better for breaking up with him? should I still continue to be a friend for him? or cut him off completely?
2007-12-10 11:03:28 · update #1
he's such a cheater and a liar! you shouldn't talk to him anymore and I know that you don't, but it's the best way for you not to be hurt anymore.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-10 11:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think you're right. he is a pethological liar. these people need excitement that no one can give.. it can be anything from two timing to pretending to be ill.. i watched a show that discussed the subject (NO not dr. phil lol) and there was a woman that lied to her whole family about having cancer!
amazing what these people do.. my suggestion is for you to move on. find yourself a blunt guy...as rude as some bluntness can be, at least you'll know that he'll never lie to you.
it's better to have a bitter truth than a sweet lie.
2007-12-10 11:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by pokerface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off completely!!! In your place, I would've broken it off as soon as I found out he was cheating. Since you forgave him once, if you keep him close, you might decide to forgive him again (in a moment of weakness). He's not worth it. GO get a new guy.
2007-12-10 11:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by angelica7979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you made a deal for him to stop cheating and come back to you, and he broke it, you need to dump him.
Giving him a chance to fix his mistake is one thing - but for him to keep going on AFTER you gave him the chance to try again is treating you disrespectfully AGAIN. ESPECIALLY since he's lying about still doing it.
Don't give in. He had his chance to fix his mistake, and he took it as a chance to disrespect you more. He blew it.
Cut him off completely.
2007-12-10 11:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dont Call Me Dude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably cut him off completely... he might like you both but if he loved you enough he'll understand why your upset and stop hanging around with the other girl!
2007-12-10 11:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Amber Lynn <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut it off completely. as much as you don't want to, it's the best thing for you. this guy sounds like a complete loser and you deserve better than him. good luck!
2007-12-10 11:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb !!
2007-12-10 11:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by may w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋