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Okay, so I'm not the type of girl who goes and gets what she wants. And there's this guy in my science class who I really just want to talk to, not so much date (although that'd be cool) and he doesn't really know who I am. I've talked to him maybe twice, and it was totally casual and having to do with the class. I'm not sure he knows my name, and he's a year older then me...
Plus, my mom doesn't want me dating someone unless he's christian which is really restricting. I mean I like this guy, but what do I do to get his attention without seeming desperate? He also has a Myspace, but I don't want to just send him a random message wanting to get to know him when he doesn't really know me...you know?
The good thing is that he's straight and I never see him flirting or hanging out with girls. I guess that's good, right? *Sigh* I don't know what to do... help me?

2007-12-10 11:19:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Relax, be honest. Go sit down right next to him, and just say "Hey fella, can't help but notice you have a little bit higher class then the rest of these fellas, love to get to know you a little better, now settle down, I'm not asking for a date, just rare to find someone like yourself here, like to know more about you is all" But in your own style! Would any of that be a lie? Could you pull it off? Give it a try, if he has this class that your seeing, then he should know better then to diss you, or not understand were your coming from. Besides it lays the cards all out on the table, simply says:

I'm interested in your charater.
But not interested enough to be desperaly seeking a date and attention.

Which was your aim right? Go get Honest!

2007-12-13 09:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

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