i have a crush on my best friends brother.he flirts with me and i like,obviously.he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend.its seems to me like its ONLY just a physical attraction.but i would hate to wonder "what if".
should i and how can i get over this crush?
2007-12-10 11:12:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My answer is a very simple one: take this same situation and let us assume that your current boyfriend came to you and asked you the same question you are now asking; how would you feel?It is normal to sometimes feel a certain amount of attraction to another person even if we are in a relationship with someone else.However, unless we are ready, willing, and want to end that romance, we should not fall victim to the temptation.So forget your best friend's brother and continue to spice up what you have with your boyfriend. I want you to remember an old saying that says "a bird in hand is worth two in the bush". Think about it.
2007-12-10 11:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're leaning the right way. Just tell him straight up that this would wreck your friendship.
2007-12-10 11:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're already taken, and so is he. tell yourself that you know you can't have him, and then just try to be friends with him. and i agree with the other person- hang out with your boyfriend more.
:) hannah
2007-12-10 11:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sleep with him and get it over with. Then move on.
2007-12-10 11:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If both of you feel attracted for real, why not?
2007-12-10 11:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize what u have is btr,a nd if it isn't then y r u wondering?
2007-12-10 11:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out with your boyfriend more.
2007-12-10 11:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2007-12-10 11:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by gommmme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with your boyfriend then u know where your loyality lies
2007-12-10 11:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do him, so that you won't have what ifs in the future ...
2007-12-10 11:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋