now, I feel guilty because I feel like I'm cheating on my new boyfriend with my ex and I love both of them so much! now SOMEONE put me in this pressure because of his answer to my new question! I'm not saying who, but he put me in this place and he knows who he is. I'm stuck between 2 guys here! My boyfriend hates my ex so much because my ex called me a b****, whore, and ugly, immature loser and my boyfriend knows what my ex did to me, my friends, and him! Also if I tell my boyfriend that I'm in love with my ex, he will be crushed and break up with me! What do you think I should do about this? Should I tell my boyfriend about this when he gets back from vacation? plz be honest and NO STUPID OR PERVERT/RETARDED ANSWERS! Also NO TV SHOWS OFFERING! Someone did that to my last question and I'm not going to do it! Thanks so much for answering this question and I will check on this later!
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-10 11:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also if you haven't answered my previous question, here's the link!
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnRkaaPhzuGVN82G1girkzXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071210143706AATlg56
2007-12-10 11:08:17 · update #1
Umm, if your ex was that bad to you, why are you still with him? Regardless, you should tell your boyfriend. Tell him that you still love your ex and you have no idea what to do and that you are seeking him for advice. If he really cares about you, then he would help you work it out rather than just say forget about your ex.
Hiding something like this would only lead to mistrust and everything in general will be worse.
Tell him that you love him, but you love your ex as well. I'm sure that he will help you through this. Just remember to not hide it. Because if he finds out later, then he will be angrier and will not only break up with you, but probably never speak to you again.
2007-12-10 11:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by niiro13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why so many question on the same guy? I said in a previous question if you want to be with a guy who calls you a *****, whore and ugly then you deserve him and tell your new guy that you don't like him because he is a nice guy. Your not stuck between 2 guys that's just an excuse you are making to yourself, be honest with yourself for a minute and you'll know that the truth is you don't even love this new guy otherwise this question would never need to be asked. You love the way the other guy who treats you like crap, you think you can make him change and be good, well your wrong. If you want to be treated nice, kind and like you deserve to be then why even bother talking to a guy who calls you all the filth under the sun? Maybe your one of those girls who likes being being treated like crap if that's the case then good luck to you.
Sorry that is so long and harsh but you need to wake up and face reality.
Good luck
2007-12-11 07:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon Prince 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well coming from me a 14 yr old i can try this. But seriously do u want a guy who has called you those names? Seriously!? a b**** a whore and so on thats pathetic. Well if you trully love that guy who calls you that and thinks that then tell the guy cause he deserves to know. You cant play with two hearts. Go with your gut feeling on this but sicerely if i were a girl i would never accept being called those names like that.
2007-12-10 19:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think your cheating on him. But anyways, you must love your ex more cause if you really loved you current boyfriend you would want to go back with your ex.
2007-12-10 19:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Amber Lynn <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhmm i guess it depends on the situation
what did you ex do to you?
and you know there might be tough love between you and your ex
what i mean is that
the situation that youre in with your ex could really mean true love
uhmm i dont know what else to say
like i would like to know what he really ddid to you
and why did you two break up
etc...
2007-12-11 01:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you like about your ex'; and think about the long run.
2007-12-10 21:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well every girl is entitled to a secret so keep wat happened between u and ya ex to ya self and move on wit ya new boyfriend cause your ex doesn't deserve you and he's not worth ya time! he had his chance and he messed up!!
hope i helped =]
In love with Yahi<33
2007-12-10 20:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bad Jawn ! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please respect yourself first,be with the person who respects you.
The person who calls you bad names cannot give you love or care for you,dont waste your emotions and time on him,be strong ,respect yourself ------move on -----your ex is ex.
2007-12-14 00:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by naz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
noooooooo..........
your not cheating!!!!!!!!!
that normal...........
just stay cool...........
2007-12-11 23:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋