Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

How long were you married? Was it mutual agreement or a shocker?

2007-12-10 09:15:45 · 16 answers · asked by doug g 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i wanted to try out the spider-man kiss(you know the one when you kiss upside down) Anyways, I wanted to see if anyone liked kissing that way and if I should try it.

If you've never kissed that way then what is you're favorite way to kiss/be kiss? Do you like it when they starts at your neck and works thier way up or randomly kissed etc.?

2007-12-10 09:14:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who was your very first crush? At school? Who was he/she?
How many others have you had?

How far did you go with each of them?

2007-12-10 09:14:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What are the Signs!

2007-12-10 09:13:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no end ? Its kind of like karma or a genertaional curse ?

2007-12-10 09:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 09:12:01 · 15 answers · asked by rob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I know my best friend she will talk sexual and flirt with any guy. And my boyfriend called Danielle and they were talking. Not sure what, but i know they aren't cheating but supposefully my best friend danielle said she would never but she does anyway!! WTF?? I don't want to be clingy but we are in a really good relationship right now and I want it to stay that way. But if he's gonna call another girl and if danielle is gonna flirt back then my chances of breaking up with him is a huge increase. So what do I do??

2007-12-10 09:11:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl went our seperate ways, she wasnt ready for anything too serious and i couldnt wait any longer. I miss her terribly but at the end of the day, she said it will be best if we stay friends because she isnt ready for anything and altho she really likes me she doesnt want to mess me around. Im sorta coming to terms that im not going to be with her, but we hardly speak and im not sure we ever will, i cant drive myself to speak to her because we are no longer more than friends and i cant think of anything to say on the friends basis. Its almost teasing me in the way that we are just friends.
Im not a selfish person, but im struggling to make any effort for us to be friends.
Is it normal to feel like this? the only way i can see her in my life is if we were together, but if i cant be with her then i cant see her in my life at all. im a 19 yr old lad, and it feels like shes missing.

2007-12-10 09:11:04 · 5 answers · asked by thewordplay1 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy told you the reason he couldn't go out with you is because his parents don't want him dating someone younger than him. even though he's less than a year older than me. would you believe him? or think its just a sucky excuse

2007-12-10 09:10:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone that knows the truth. We are christens and want to be right b4 the Lord. Have little$ thanks for anyhelp

2007-12-10 09:10:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is 7 years older and said that she is too old for me. She then emails me and says I took her by surprise because she always thought of me as only a friend, but she did say that she may take a chance in future. After a couple days of real awkwardness, I thought she wanted nothing to do with me and was just letting me down easy. Then all of a sudden at the office party she started to flirt with me for the entire night. I walked her back to the office and was about to ask her out again when another coworker interrupted. We haven't really talked about that night since. However, she is being really nice to me now, she bought me chocolates the other day and playing with her hair a lot when she talks to me. Should I ask her out again? She is really shy and I am not sure she has the guts to ask me out? What should I do, I really like this woman and want to be with her. However, I dont want to be pushy and lose my job with some sexual harassment complaint. I really think she likes me though

2007-12-10 09:08:34 · 1 answers · asked by Mark C 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my b/f of 3 years cheated on me for the first 8 mnths of our relationship. He has called me and come to my work to see me, and he tells me how sorry he is and that if he could go back and change things he would. Should I believe him? Or is it once a cheater always a cheater? I love him very much. But I'm scared. Should I try to work things out with him? Or, as hard as it will be, Let him go?

2007-12-10 09:06:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been on this guy's top friend list forever, along with his good friends, and I consider us to be good friends, we've even said that we like each other & that there could be potential for a long term relationship.. Well he knocked off some of the people he had on their for awhile, including me!!?? Should I be mad at this, or is this like blow to me or what? He's still on my top list but I moved him to another spot just to show him lol. But I don't like the fact that he messes around like that. What's his deal?

2007-12-10 09:04:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 09:04:46 · 15 answers · asked by Almondia 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend met in high school. We have been going out for almost 2 years. I have been out of high school for 2 years. I love her so much and she is very beautiful and I would trade her for any amount of money or fashion model in the world. I truly love her more than words can describe. I am almost 20 and she is almost 19. She is in college right now and Im trying to figure out what to do with my life. I really would do anything for her I would even die for her. I know we are young but the love is real. So the question is when should we get married? I mean getting married is a big step. So how long should I wait until I propose? now, next year, 4 years, when?

2007-12-10 09:04:29 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiancé plan to get married in 2009. The other day she asked if I knew about pre nuptial agreements and whether we should have made before the big day.

So can some one explain to me in simple terms what exactly a pre nuptial agreement is and what are the advantages and dis advantages to having one.

2007-12-10 09:03:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have some time set aside with my spouse tonight to discuss his married friend... we have our first child due in 3 months and this guy is destroying our relationship, he's in his 30's. Everytime he calls it feels like a slap in the face, he doesn't respect our relationship:
1) Calls at least once/day at home, work to drink (he's an alcoholic)
2) Only ever invites the spouse, even if its mutual friends bday (he always leaves his wife behind)
3) Rumours: After our first date he called him up to say "I heard she was moody," and a couple months later him and his friend (who has been trying to date me forever) started a rumour that I was saying mean things about spouse behind his back (would never do).
4) Has a bedroom for spouse and expects him to stay every Sat. night to drink & watch football all day Sunday. Puts me on guilt trips for my spouse not staying with him.
5) Lies to me (i.e.: "my wife has tickets to this show, she wants you to go") just so he can be with my partner.

2007-12-10 09:02:57 · 14 answers · asked by Betty 4 in Marriage & Divorce

One time when he was drunk at a family party he followed me upstairs, backed me up against the wall and started saying things like "I give really good backrubs, you know" (while he was rubbing my shoulders) and "your cousin doesn't really love me". He was pretty drunk though when he said all of this so that probably had a lot to do with it. He tells me he thinks I'm smart and that his mom loves me and he's super nice to me but then again he's nice to everyone. He also looks right into my eyes sometimes and smiles and holds his gaze for quite an uncomfortably long time. Is he just being friendly or what? I'm not going to steal her fiance from her or anything I'd just like to know if I'm reading too much into it or not.

2007-12-10 08:53:12 · 1 answers · asked by Runaround Sue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a hard financial time lately even though I am working 2 jobs & we live a very simple life. So when my ex offered to pay for Christmas this year, I was surprised, happy and relieved. We went shopping this past weekend. When it was time for him to leave, I reminded him my child support had been due three days earlier. He got very quiet and made a comment about having to pay for all of Christmas on his own then he guessed. I was floored. He never said he would pay for Christmas in leiu of child support. I mean bills don't stop just because it is Christmas. If I could afford to not get my child support, I would have paid for Christmas myself. So he wrote me a check for $50 less and made a comment saying he felt taken advantage of. I told him that I must have misunderstood what he said and that he knows I don't have any money. He has a much better paying job than me, has a wife who makes good money and they have no children together. (cont.)

2007-12-10 08:52:42 · 25 answers · asked by wondermom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He left a few days ago, and moved in with his parents. He said he just couldn't take my jealousy and complaining anymore. I suggested counseling, but he is set on divorce. How do I get through to him, without being pushy, controlling, or psycho? We have a family to fight for!

2007-12-10 08:51:51 · 18 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has always been a VERY popular and sought after man. And i cant explain how i got him or why me. We are still young 24 and 26. But his past pretty much kills me. We cant speak about exs without getting very jealous. When i think about his past i feel it shoulda been me or i feel like he cheated on me (though we werent together at that time). But for some reason now it has consumed me, i constantly think about it. In a way i feel like i got "leftovers". i know that sounds mean but it is the best way to explain it. It has gotten to the point where im starting not to like him because of it. I really do love him please help me.

2007-12-10 08:51:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Only because you had feelings for the previous person? Id love to hear all your stories.

2007-12-10 08:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by zora 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's assume that you were given the opportunity to go away from work and everthing and everyone (include your spouse or gf/bf and children) for like two month on a dream come true vacation for you, do you think that you would be tempted to cheat. can you or will you be able to keep you pants zipped and your legs crossed through out the whole entire trip?...what if we say that this dream vacation is filled with pretty guys/girls that are just so damn hot and lots and lots of buzz and you were missing your sweetheart ..would you still be able to not cheat then? how would you prevent that from happening?

2007-12-10 08:49:42 · 62 answers · asked by mama2be 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not refferring to surgery or anything like that. Just a standard check up, or MRI, or X-ray?

2007-12-10 08:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by oneakmusic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Near home there is a bookies and people keep puting money in the machines and lose it they have a bet on the rulet machines and will bet and win 40 then put it in and win 100 then put that in lose then bang the machine. do you think they are daft?

2007-12-10 08:47:29 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been having trouble lately,she wants freedom, independance ,has said she hates her life doesnt want to be married or be a mum kept telling me she was moving out,said I had done nothing wrong she had just grown, we are seeing a councilior she has resolved some issues but last night I told her whilst at the councilor that I was scared because I was starting to love her less and that Im afraid it could just keep going this was said at the councilor now she is being cold to me did I say the wrong thing or was being honest wright

2007-12-10 08:46:58 · 12 answers · asked by finally solo35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 2.5 years and together with this man for 5 years. This is a terrible relationship. He is constantly calling me names, putting me down, telling me I'm stupid. We recently had a baby 7 weeks ago, and he has no interest in the baby. In fact, it scares me to leave him alone with the baby, thats why I never do it. His newest thing is telling me that I don't take care of the baby. I know I should leave, I know I should get out--my whole family is backing me...Im in NC and they are in FL, so all I have to do is get in my car and drive to FL, and as soon as Im there I know i'll be ok, SO why am I still here?

2007-12-10 08:44:10 · 23 answers · asked by lesliebedford623 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think about her all of the time like us girls do when we have a bf?

2007-12-10 08:44:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all,
I could never forget my ex-boyfriend and we've stayed friends since we broke up (years ago). We had this little fling last summer but we didn't end up together (since we both were in a relationship). We haven't talked since then, i'm afraid that he's avoiding me :(

I really want to have a second chance with him and I think he wants it too (hopefully :p) But we're both really shy and keeping the feeling to ourselves.

Should I tell him about my feelings? What should I say? I don't want to scare him away,tho, cus we haven't talked for 1 year. He's a Pisces and I'm a Capricorn.

Thanks guys :)

xoxo

2007-12-10 08:42:46 · 2 answers · asked by si_kriesty 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 08:40:45 · 38 answers · asked by kpoires3 1 in Marriage & Divorce