Only because you had feelings for the previous person? Id love to hear all your stories.
2007-12-10 08:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by zora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes and it was wrong-it only made matters worse
2007-12-10 08:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ohh yes big mistake because i ended up hurting the new guy, who was a great guy.I was just fresh out of a relationship in which i had not given proper closure. i realize now how immature that was, just look at it this way the new person you are going to be with deserves your complete heart and mind in the relationship it may feel good but if you are not ready give yourself time and space matter of fact it is advisable to give yourself time after the breakup of a relationship before you start a new one.if the person is for you he will still be around. cheers
2007-12-11 01:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Versacetica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but the thing is i am much happier with the new guy but i made a mistake cos i broke the other guys heart and i hate myself for that and i never ment to i was crazy and young didnt understand what i was doing but i still with the guy i got into a relationship with quickly
2007-12-10 16:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by xXx pink princezz xXx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called Rebound. Lots of people do it and most regret it. Slow the train down. Jump off at the first place you're comfortable.
2007-12-10 17:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Poppy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YUP. I was with my ex (childs father) for 7 years when he suddnly walked out on us then 2weeks later he moved in with his boss' wife then married her 6mos later. needless to say i was devastated. but 6 mos after he left i found someone and we married a year after we met. I love my husband but i never got closure from my previous relationship. And believe me it is hurting my marriage. If my husband knew i still had feelings for my ex he would flip. i never had proper time to heal.
2007-12-10 16:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It an animal instinct thing.
One needs to feel wanted, not rejected.
To feel part of, and needed, by the community.
So---we have to prove to our immediate surroundings, that you are worthy, and as such----you pull the first available mate, that comes into view
2007-12-10 16:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and she was messed up, out of it now tho ! i think you get scared of being alone ! patience is very important clear your mind and enjoy the freedom ! then think of what features your looking for in your long term partner, sex aint everything! you will find them,(i havnt yet) just stay possitive with yourself !
2007-12-11 23:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Just in talking to people I hear all about their issues. I have no problem in telling them go away, you're icky.
2007-12-10 17:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably, but you can't beat a rebound to show the ex what thet r missing out on
2007-12-10 16:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
never really done that. always had plenty of single time inbetween
2007-12-10 16:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋