Let's assume that you were given the opportunity to go away from work and everthing and everyone (include your spouse or gf/bf and children) for like two month on a dream come true vacation for you, do you think that you would be tempted to cheat. can you or will you be able to keep you pants zipped and your legs crossed through out the whole entire trip?...what if we say that this dream vacation is filled with pretty guys/girls that are just so damn hot and lots and lots of buzz and you were missing your sweetheart ..would you still be able to not cheat then? how would you prevent that from happening?
2007-12-10 08:49:42 · 62 answers · asked by mama2be 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I wouldn't cheat.
Before I left, I would talk to my two partners and together we would determine what kind of rules we would work under as well as prompt notitification before anything develops.
I love my two girlfriends too much to cheat on them.
2007-12-10 10:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Donald J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Few people leave their spouse for that length of time on vacation unless the goal IS to cheat. Temptation reaches all of us at some point. It is what we do with that temptation that defines who we are. And you don't have to go on an exotic trip or be away that long to cheat. But doing so, means you are probably already tempted.
2007-12-10 08:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by David M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes def. I would be able to not cheat!! 1st off if you have children that gives you all the more reason not to cheat and your husband trust you enough to leave for 2 months!! Also, I wouldn't cheat because I am shy and probably wouldn't talk to a lot of people well I was on the trip!!
2007-12-10 08:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 2 or 3 month "vacation" away from everyone? Alone? That would not be a dream to me. I would be miserable. I wouldn't go in the first place and if i was forced, i would be miserable the whole time i was there. Sex would be the last thing on my mind.
2007-12-10 09:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that I would not cheat. I am married and took vows. I would honor those vows the entire trip.
Now, if I weren't married - without that committment, I might. But, that would be if I didn't want to spend my life with the person that I was cheating on.
How would I prevent that from happening? Just Say No.
2007-12-10 08:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by sarlha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before marriage, we had a long distance relationship for over 2 years. Since then hubby has been away many a time, once for an entire year. Both of us have remained faithful throughout, with no thoughts of cheating. It's hard work, but it can be done!
2007-12-10 10:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by usafbrat64 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One does not have to go to a dream vacation
to cheat or be tempted to cheat as I have been
approached many times by other woman just
walking down the street or at a club while with my
wife and it means nothing to me as I like putting
them in their place and letting them know that they
are wasting their time with me as after all,married
for over 20yrs, nothing can take the place of
what I have so I wouldn't waste my time with
anything else.
2007-12-10 14:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally it wouldn't be a dream holiday without my spouse and children and no amount of hot unzipped people would get me that buzzed I would need to sh.g around. I would prefer sight seeing and counting the days until I could be home again. Happiness is where my heart lies.
2007-12-10 08:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a happily married woman. No I wouldn't cheat simply because I'd rather have a lifetime of happiness , then a one or two nite stand. I would enjoy my trip without cheating. Marriage and a relationship is what you make it. I choose not to cheat. You prevent it from happening by not setting yourself up to cheat. Simple
2007-12-10 08:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by Classy Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lived a thousand miles away from my soon-to-be husband for 10 months and never once did I even feel the slight temptation to cheat on him. It depends on how dedicated you are to the person you are with if you will be conflicted with the temptation. For me, I love my fiance too much to ever even consider cheating! So to answer your question, I could definately make it through the vacation with my legs remaining closed.
2007-12-10 08:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋