I recently found out that my b/f of 3 years cheated on me for the first 8 mnths of our relationship. He has called me and come to my work to see me, and he tells me how sorry he is and that if he could go back and change things he would. Should I believe him? Or is it once a cheater always a cheater? I love him very much. But I'm scared. Should I try to work things out with him? Or, as hard as it will be, Let him go?
2007-12-10 09:06:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, you should and you told us that he was honest to you about that, so you should try to work this out with him.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-10 09:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Very few things in life 'always' occur, however people who are truly remorseful about cheating typically figure that out the first time they cheat (and are filled with guilt)...if it took him 8 months to decide it was a mistake, then he wasn't that into you back then.
How can you be sure he hasn't cheated since? I wouldn't be comfy with the situation...but you know him better than we. Can you trust him?
2007-12-10 17:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him go.I know its hard but I've been there and if you forgive him he will just think its alright to cheat and that you don't care if he does and then he will continue to do it.Just let him go and move on. Good luck! Hope I helped!
2007-12-10 17:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by broken</3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋