Why would you divorce , what is reason enough to just call it quits.?

Question

How long were you married? Was it mutual agreement or a shocker?

Answer 1

my reasons would be cheating... abuse.... alcohol/drugs.... criminal activity... no sex or affection.

Answer 2

Good question, Why would you do anything? I mean anything like get married at the first place. I think the answer lies in your question itself.

Basically it is fact of life that we all [not all though] have our own reasons, one way or other. It's like it takes one to know one. If you don't try! You don't know.

I believe having divorce mostly affect you two ways. I don't know about man but for a woman, first you divorce your other-half, then try to stay sane is vital to your existence. Now if you stay in stressful marriage it's also threatens your sanity. One way or other you have to pay the price. And if you not affected by any of these then you should call your self lucky.

What i have gathered in my own experience that it is always depend on individual. There are times that people get so bored so quickly that relationships fails.Sometime only one person make all the effort and other one takes it for granted. other times there is other facters play there part, like ego,money,status or third party interfearance.
So the important part is before you make a disican or call it quit make sure you tried every angle to save the heartachqe. Otherwise in ten years time you will turnround and think your self how foolish youv'e been and regrets forever.
It is human nature that we all thrive on easy life. But sometime in order to find happiness we want, we need to let go off exsees baggage we carrying for no reason. Things happens, life goes on. No ones chicken and fighting is not everybody thing. Although everyone prefer to be happy and deserved to be happy. After all it's your life, you run it.
!!!!!!!!!!!! World peace !!!!!

Answer 3

Who knows? There's all kinds of reasons. Infidelity is probably the most common. Some are shockers and some are mutual agreement. Had one of each.

Answer 4

This question is old but I want to answer. You divorced your ex wife because she didn't work? Excuse me but she had a child with you, she was a mother. And as a woman that's the most important job she'll ever have. I will ALWAYS choose my child over a career of super modeling or anything appealing to me! And that says something! If a man marries me and gets me pregnant, I pop out a child 9 months later and he expects me to work I will GLADLY divorce him. Who cooked? Since you're so stingy, did you make your own food and demand to make your own? Or did your ex wife do it..? And if so, why? Why did the woman have to cook? Stop denying gender roles. I'm all for woman working and being a career woman while having a kid and I have no doubt in my mind she can do it just as I'm okay with the husband being the house husband. Just don't be a hypocrite..(ex she cooks and cleans for you but is expected to pay for her own stuff..) get real dude.

Answer 5

Married two years, I know, not that long.
He spent the entire marriage writing a book and neglecting me. I would call for him to come to sleep or at least cuddle with me and he wouldn't respond, even after 30 mins of nicely asking. He would be up until 3am writing. His book was more important than a wife. Only after I left did he try to figure out what he did. Then, when I came back he retracted everything he "discovered" about himself and said he still didn't know why I left. Explaining it for 100 hours made no difference. Talking until 3am for 2 months straight 5 out of 7 days a week, made no difference. Finally I Just had to get my own place for my own sanity and relaxation. He's a good man, but things were not supposed to be that way.

Answer 6

wow, it's really hard to try and sum it up, you know. my divorce was easier than most. he was abusive in any way a man could be toward a woman. i stayed until he almost killed me. i stayed b/c i thought my kids deserved both parents and i did love this fuc--in man at some point in time. however, i saw the light and thought, hey my kids deserve way better than this. i wanted to be a better mother, so i got out. and it was definitely enough to call it quits.
don't know what's going on in your relationship, but if you feel it's time to end things it just may be. sometimes, things can change though, so giving it your all isn't necessarily a bad thing.
hope you follow your heart
blessings and luck to you and your future

Answer 7

Was married for 17 years. She went through an extended period of lying and infidelity. For the three years after that supposedly stopped we go no where in counseling and trying. She was an angry person and blamed me for every flaw in her life and our life together. I decided it was no less harmful for my children to see us divorce than to see their mother continually disrespect their father. It was painful, and it was costly, but I have absolutely no doubt that I made the right decision to pursue a divorce.

Answer 8

Divorce sucks I hated it. He cheated we worked it out he cheated again and that is when I lost all trust in him and just did not feel the same anymore. I ended the relationship he did not want to but it is beyond me why someone would cheat like that and still want to stay in the relationship. I just dont get it. Why would they cheat in the first place if they were in love and happy?

Answer 9

I was married 5 years. He said he just needed some space but he had another woman in the wings...It was not a happy marriage,but still was a surprise to me...hurt for quite awhile.

Answer 10

Infidelity was reason enough. It was not mutual but I felt there was no other choice. It hurt too much and I couldn't fathom how staying together would ever work after that. So she cheated, I filed.

Answer 11

We were married eight years, and kept telling him that I was unhappy, I wanted us to counseling and he didn't want. I suggested a trail separation. Finally I just said I can't do this anymore, he talked me out of it a few times. Then when he went to work one night I emptied the house out except for his stuff, and I left a bed for him out of the spear room, and that was it. It's been 3 months and no change from him, just talk. And he was very shocked.