Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

My story-
their is this girl who liked me my freshman/sophomore year who asked me to homecoming freshman year, but instead of liking her back i dated someone else sophomore year because i didnt feel the same way. (only lasted 2 months) Then junior year comes a long, and i asked her to Homecoming.. but ever since then, we fell apart not talking but the occasional, "hows your day?" ..at the end of summer of my senior year..i saw her online and i pourd out my feelings about her..we started putting things back together and talk atleast 5x a week on msgr..she told me i can call her and text her..and told me when she gets back..i can ask her out...now i just get these feelings where i want to talk to her everyday just beacuse im really in love with her knowing that love was in front of me the whole time..
how often should you talk to someone, not officially dating..to the point where it doesnt make you look clingy..is it bad to call after you text someone "hey, hows it goin, are you busy"

2007-12-10 07:30:57 · 1 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 29 and having problems letting my past gf's past go. Why? I was able to with other girlfriends and didn't give it a second thought. I realize it's childish to mull over something that is finished but still find it hard to do. I want to stop it but don't know how. She has been with 15 guys before meeting me. I've been with 7. That's double. I don't think about my past gf so why should she? Just feel like she "had her fun" and ready to settle down when I know I turned down what could have been 20. I feel let down that I should've acted on my impulses like a lot of other people did. I can't get those years back. What to do? I'm jealous and feel sexually inadequate here but don't want to worry over spilled milk.

2007-12-10 07:30:56 · 11 answers · asked by modusoperandi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my son is with his father, he feels the need to not act out he's quiet and barely says anything. But when I enter the room or car he feels the need to act out like crying and stuff. I can't understand why my twenty month old acts like his toward his father. Also how can I make his father understand that he's still too young to explain is emotions and mention how he feels so it's okay that he cries. When my son cries my husband will do things like call him "Betty" for whatever reason and tell him he's going to be a sissy if he doesn't start crying. I have a hard time with this because I grew up with parents that constantly put me down and I know how bad it hurts even when you get older. My husbands mom was very nurturing and loving, his father however was a bit on the tougher side rarely spent time with him and such. I think about my son in the future and I want him to be a good husband and parent even though he's only twenty months old now. Please help?

2007-12-10 07:29:37 · 8 answers · asked by crymeariver 5 in Family

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2007-12-10 07:28:59 · 9 answers · asked by shikage9999 2 in Friends

2007-12-10 07:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by tamara b 1 in Singles & Dating

I started dating this guy for a month now and things are great, besides the fact he is divorced and has an ex wife, he just recently told me he has a "domestic violence" on his record from an argument him and his wife had had years ago and she had called the police. He said he had pinned her down when they argued, she called police and he was arrested. he does not seem like a violent person, should I continue to see him or would you be freked out by his record?

2007-12-10 07:26:48 · 24 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have friends who say age is just a ## and others think it depends on their maturity. still others say i'm a cradle robber or a guys too old. help!!!

2007-12-10 07:21:53 · 37 answers · asked by LMD 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 07:20:10 · 2 answers · asked by Johnny Favourite 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Every day in a couple of my classes, i get malicously made fun of and I can not stand it any more. Every time I say something, I get made fun of it for no reason. I am a nerd/smart but they will be mean to me and then expect all the answers to worksheets we do. I am 15. I have a good amount of friends but most of them are not in my class so I have no one who I like in my class. I get really angry at them when they are jerks and I tell then that they are the stupidest kid I know and that they will never amount to anything. I am a really nice person and people will usually say that about me but when people are mean I just flip. I NEED to make this stop. What can I do?

2007-12-10 07:19:41 · 12 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Friends

I live in California. I am the custodial parent and am requesting child support. My ex is unemployed, however the judge is imputing minimun wage on him. His wife is in the military and therefore they live rent and utility-free on the military base. Does the judge consider this in calculating child support? I pay over $1300 per month in mortgage, electric, water, etc. Please only answer this if you've been in this situation or at least know someone who has. Does it matter at all that he is not military, and that his wife is? I do know that his wife receives BAH for self and dependents. That amount she receives went up significantly when they got married.

2007-12-10 07:18:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my husband so much. When I tell people that I am married they freak out and say that I am crazy. I was sixteen when I got married. My husband is such a great guy. I do not regret getting married to him but was I too young???

2007-12-10 07:16:04 · 32 answers · asked by .:♥Stepherz♥:. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 07:15:11 · 4 answers · asked by tj1000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are both very happy and love each other very much! everyone is saying that we need to set a wedding date and asking when the wedding is, we have talked about it and want to stay engaged for a couple of years and enjoy that and not rush into getting married (spread everything out a bit I suppose) and people seem to think its weird? is this not normal? are you supposed to set a date and then plan the wedding straight away? Any ideas?

2007-12-10 07:15:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-10 07:14:40 · 23 answers · asked by Marky M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 07:14:27 · 28 answers · asked by tamara b 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my fiancée very much. We have been together for a while now and in just about every way the relationship is very satisfying. Every way but one, I find our sex life to be very unfulfilling. I am not asking for threesomes or serious kink, just for her to take charge and be a little more aggressive from time, maybe express some opinions about what she wants, and maybe a little bit of variety or surprise. This isn’t something I want to ruin the relationship over; I would like to find a way to express that my needs aren’t being met and that I am down-right bored. How do I raise the issue without hurting her feelings or coming off like a jerk?

2007-12-10 07:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by M B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am with my Fiance for 2 years now, have plans to get married on April 10, 2009. I would like to here her voice during the day, see how her day is going and just to talk **** for a few. She gives me every excuse in the book for not taking her lunch break or not wanting to go downstairs to the Cafe or outside the building to call me. She has an elevator in her building where she works. She just told me she only calls me because I ask her to, but she dont want to call me most of the time. Am I asking to much to want to speak with the Love Of My Life for a few minutes during her day? Do I have to wait until after she gets out of work to speak to her? I would love some advice on this topic.
Thank You

2007-12-10 07:12:00 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 6 years has admitted to likeing my best friend who just moved back in town after a long time. He is staying away from her now but still makes comments here and there that drive me crazy. Bascily asking how she is doing in such. If he's so fond of her should I leave him?

2007-12-10 07:11:34 · 13 answers · asked by Mommy of 2) 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 07:09:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your spouse cheated on you but ya'll have been through too much to just throw it all away..is it ok to do it back to him/her?? or should you just give up on him/her??

2007-12-10 07:08:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would kill the guy that did it but what would others say

2007-12-10 07:04:16 · 14 answers · asked by Andreu 2 in Singles & Dating

i live at college and today after math class halfway back to the gym i play basketball at which is across campus i saw two girls talking to each other and walking with eachother who was from my class walking in front of me. We were walking in the same direction and i passed them because i was in a rush. i heard once i got to their side they stopped talking then i heard one say ahhhhhhhhhh yea. and repeat it then the next one said he's hot, and they repeated it about 3-5 times. i am not sure if they were talking about me or some other random guy walking in the other direction but i found it coincidental they stopped talking when i got to their side and did that when my back was towards them. Do you think they noticed me from class.

it was more then loud enough for me to hear

2007-12-10 07:03:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 07:03:02 · 8 answers · asked by Ellie 2 in Weddings

Me and my boyfriend love each other very much..i would pretty much die without him..but we fight a lot...and sometimes we both say horrible things to eachother..but in the end we always love eachother...is it normal to be like that?..i know its not me...we don't fight unless he gives me attitude...and he usually gets mad over the stupidest things...is he insecure maybe? Help?

2007-12-10 07:01:03 · 26 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

I have known him for a little over a year, he had always had a thing for me, then just recently I started seeing something in him. so we started dating for the past month.the thing is he has a 10 yr old daughter and has been divorced for two years now.Im an independant 27 yr old girl and I really like him, but Im afraid of his"baggage". would you still go for him? or keep looking for a man that has less to bring in a relationship?

2007-12-10 07:00:04 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 06:59:52 · 13 answers · asked by missabbaleigh 1 in Weddings

2007-12-10 06:59:41 · 38 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got really drunk and was flirting with a guy, I dont know what really happened but he showed up at my house and I was passing out as he was having sex with me. He was sober. Im scared Im pregnant because Im not on the pill and I found out he sleeps around...Im goin to get checked out soon. He just moved away to become a police officer...should I just leave it alone or say something to him? Is this considered taking advantage of me even though I was flirty and had no problem making out with him?

2007-12-10 06:55:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Fantasized about someone you found on Yahoo Answers even though you don't know them?

2007-12-10 06:55:17 · 8 answers · asked by icu2 1 in Singles & Dating

when you're special some one is sad mad or just because you want to see them happy what do you when they tell you some thing special what would make you happy what do you want to here form that special?

2007-12-10 06:50:28 · 4 answers · asked by stand alone complex 5 in Singles & Dating