how often should you talk/text a person you like but not going out?

Question

My story-
their is this girl who liked me my freshman/sophomore year who asked me to homecoming freshman year, but instead of liking her back i dated someone else sophomore year because i didnt feel the same way. (only lasted 2 months) Then junior year comes a long, and i asked her to Homecoming.. but ever since then, we fell apart not talking but the occasional, "hows your day?" ..at the end of summer of my senior year..i saw her online and i pourd out my feelings about her..we started putting things back together and talk atleast 5x a week on msgr..she told me i can call her and text her..and told me when she gets back..i can ask her out...now i just get these feelings where i want to talk to her everyday just beacuse im really in love with her knowing that love was in front of me the whole time..
how often should you talk to someone, not officially dating..to the point where it doesnt make you look clingy..is it bad to call after you text someone "hey, hows it goin, are you busy"

she would reply with" no, what are you up to"...then instead of replying with text, i would call.....it that bad...or should i just text back....sacrifices listening to her voice

sry about my grammer, i was in a hurry

Answer 1

don't spend too much time texting, talking, or wasting any kind of energy with a girl. look at it like a job interview. you want to make the first meeting short and sweet and then you seal the deal.