Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

how old were you had sex for the first time? And did you regret this?

2007-12-10 06:06:11 · 18 answers · asked by tarek a 2 in Singles & Dating

These family members are actually "step" related and are extremely greedy. They have previously actually sued their own blood sister and mother! Their mother died several years ago and their step-father is on his dieing of cancer, as his care givers (son & wife) we are concerned that when he passes they will try whatever means available to gain financially as they are NOT in his Last Will & Testament.

2007-12-10 06:04:02 · 5 answers · asked by VW 1 in Family

i am getting married in april and i am in love with my fience he is the most wonderful man in the world. My parents are NOT against it and i was just wondering if you think i am to young?

2007-12-10 06:03:34 · 75 answers · asked by mandie 1 in Weddings

I have been dating a guy for about a year. He calls me his girlfriend, so I guess we are gf/bf. He is a perfect companion. He is respectful, honest, motivated, stable, friendly, handsome, helpful, just all around a perfect catch. One problem. I feel no chemistry twords him. I did in the first month we dated, everything was new and exciting. But for the past 10 months I feel nothing. I dislike kissing him and being intamate with him (many times a week) is something that I simply and respectfully put- dislike. He is head over heels for me and would and does anything for me. He is with me 6 days a week. I enjoy his company and feel that we would make a super partnership in life, however I am saddened because I feel there is no passion on my behalf. I have no desire for him at all. I told him I am missing chemistry but feel we are a great team, he only tries to come on stronger- :( . My friends and rents love him. Could I see a therapist or would they laugh at me?

2007-12-10 06:03:28 · 10 answers · asked by sentfromheaven 4 in Singles & Dating

is she the most beautiful lady in the planet?
http://jessica-alba.topwomen.org/images/Jessica_Alba.jpg

:) guess who ?

2007-12-10 06:02:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The man I have wasted time loving for a year has been unfaithful to me, or acted with intention. I need something to put me in power mode cuz right now Im weak.

2007-12-10 06:01:19 · 22 answers · asked by carolyn 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a sit. and I am not sure how to handle it, I come from a large family. 1 of my sisters are not by blood, her family kinda gave her to us when she was young and was brought up with us. We have always been sisters and that is how we identify each other, her kids are my niece & nephew & vice versa. She has 2 blood siblings but never sees them. In April the unthinkable happened and my niece was killed she was 5 yrs, now people on the outside R telling her how we are not "Real" family and have no right to grieve the way we are. now that there is a lawsuit, people are coming out of the woodwork, and telling her to be careful of US!! While my niece was alive My Sister worked and we took care of the kids more than she did, aside from that my niece was named for me. Noone gave to thoughts to her while she was here and now there are opinions. It is literally killing me because I lost the closest thing to a daughter I have ever had. I don't know how to handle the hurtful things.......

2007-12-10 05:59:30 · 3 answers · asked by peacefulflower23 3 in Family

if ur boyfriend of 3 months lost his ex gf who died about 6 months ago and he was with her for almost 3 years and loved her dearly & still kept pictures of her in his wallet and stuff, would this make you mad or would u be okay with it?

2007-12-10 05:58:10 · 39 answers · asked by gypsy 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend didnt tell me she had a bf and i found out by her ex bf..

2007-12-10 05:57:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

At a party this past week end, a friend of mine called a girl up so he could ask her out. When she got there and met him, she quickly started to go after me. I told her that "im just here for the drinks", but she still didnt leave me alone. Well he's pissed, and I really didnt do any thing with her (but he dosent belive me) and he thinks i "stole" her from him.

does that make me a bad friend? what should I do?

2007-12-10 05:55:41 · 23 answers · asked by Crimson 5 in Singles & Dating

"Allegro Ma Non Troppo"
Life, you are beautiful (I say)
you just couldn't get more fecund,
more befrogged or nightingaily,
more anthill or Sprouting.
I am trying to court YOUR favour,
to get into your good graces,
To anticipate your whims!
I am always the first to bow,
Always there where YOU can see me
with my humble,reverent face,
soaring on the wings of rapture,
falling under waves of wonder.
Oh how grassy is this hopper,
how this berry ripely rasps.
I would never had conceived it
if I weren't conceived myself!
Life (I) say I've no idea
what I should compare you to.
No one else can make a pine cone
And then make the pine cone's clone.
I praise your inventiveness,
bounty, sweep, exactitude,
sense of order - gifts that border
On Witchcraft and Wizardry!
Life:
I just don't want to upset you
tease, vex or rile.
For Millennia, I've been trying
to appease you with a smile.
I tug at you life, by your leaf hem:
will you stop for me JUST ONCE
momentarily forgetting
To what end YOU Run and Run

2007-12-10 05:54:57 · 2 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6 in Friends

still live at home with your oldies? i do :( i could of moved in with a friend but they wont let me till april when im 18!how crap is that?

2007-12-10 05:54:02 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was at this club dancing with this random girl and then she started grinding on me for a good 5min. My guess was that she liked me but then her boyfriend comes along and she gives me a smile and walks off with him and starts kissing him. why would she do that??

2007-12-10 05:50:48 · 40 answers · asked by foxtrot 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me a couple of months ago, claiming he just needed space shortly after; I found out that there was another woman involved. He said he didn't leave me for her, that my being unable to have a child was to much and he couldn't live without one, she could "possibly" fill that void. I accepted this fact and have been seperated since. We chose to start our relationship over as friends. I was just informed that his "girlfriend" doesn't like that I still do things for him, all the typical "wife" stuff, errands, morning coffee, setting aside dinner, and even cleaning snow off the car. How do I tell him or get him to see that this girl is just jealous and views me as competition? She's with him 5 nights a week and tries to occupy any free time he has, then he can't be with me. What can I do to show him that I'm the one he should really be with? For about a month he has been wanting and trying to have sex with me. I do love him and I can and would forgive him for his affair

2007-12-10 05:49:32 · 32 answers · asked by rcarnalla@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Adults Have Sex 61 Times a Year
Adults, on average, have sex about 61 times per year, or slightly more than once a week, according to University of Chicago's National Opinion Research Center. Marital status and age are key influences in sexual activity.

http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/marriage/marriage.html

2007-12-10 05:48:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So we are at the bar the other night and she starts asking me how many people I've been with. I tell her she has to go first. After another drink and some hesitation, she admits i "might be" number 30!!! I am 22 and have been with 10 girls. I knew she was a hornball before but I never expected that! Then she goes on to tell me that she started at age 14 and was "really bad because she did a lot of ecstacy" until age 17. She started saying something about "her and a girlfriend one time at the beach when she was 17" but then she wouldnt finish the story once she saw the look on my face. She claims in the past 7 years she has only been with 6 people. Do I need to walk away from this relationship now. I love her, but COME ON!

2007-12-10 05:47:02 · 37 answers · asked by skyguy 1 in Singles & Dating

It's around those days where love fills the air. This coming year i will be 24. I've been living in the states for about 18 years now. I have adapte to everything here, even consider myself a bit of an white girl, but i can't shake this feeling off that i want to be with someone like me. I've dated guys of all races, but i have never encounter someone who chinese. I just want to know what it is like to be with someone who shares the same culture as me. I want someone who can watch TVB series with me. I want someone who can speak cantonese. Portland lacks chinese. I can't move away just to find love. I don't know where to find him, perhaps ill always be unhappy.

2007-12-10 05:46:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 05:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by jb n 1 in Family

I was just wonderin.....Thankx!

2007-12-10 05:46:10 · 17 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand what the importance of my attire has on my hubby but I think it's ridiculous and is a form of him being overly jealous and insecure. What do you all think? For ex. just this morning he asks why am I wearing those pants? I am like...What is wrong with these pants?? The pants have no pockets on the back and are considered professional since I am required to dress like that. He also asked why am I wearing boots with heels. I usually wear my flats but since it's raining outside I needed to cover up my feet! How to get my husband to chill out a bit on this issue?

2007-12-10 05:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Marriage & Divorce

with a BJ? I can't think of a better way to wake up.

2007-12-10 05:43:44 · 10 answers · asked by bigbuttcheek 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my borhter-in-law and his wife have a 9 month old son and leave him with her mother every weekend so they can get hammered. her mother by the way has and still is raising raising 5 girls. yongest to oldest... 8, 10, 13, 16, and 21. all but the two youngest are having sex, and the 16 year old just gave birth to her second child. besides that the language that that woman uses isn't the best for any kid to pick up.
I have offered so many times to watch their son, and so have his (and my husbands) parents have also offered to watch him.
They still leave him at her mother's.
and all this so they can get drunk!
what should i do?

2007-12-10 05:43:30 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

What is right?
The Scenario: Married 1 1/2 yrs. to a man with 2 college age kids not living at home. I tried but never any relationship with the kids. He said give up.
The kids would prefer their 48 yr. old Dad to be single
Very opinionated kids. Very anti-social except with their dad who hung the moon. They love each other very much,and thats great but how much say-so should they have when it comes to my marriage with him. Should the Dad be torn on how to balance his time with them and me? They have put their Dad in a situation, (or should I say he has let them) to kind of pick sides. Thats wrong. He has raised them all his life, Ive only been here a short time, do I make it easy and bow out?

2007-12-10 05:42:13 · 30 answers · asked by rainydaze 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed this wonderful man one day in the park playing with his young son. Not only did he seem like a devoted dad but a genuine nice person to everyone he met(helped a old lady with her car) One day his son came over to see my dog and we had a little chat. I found out he was newly divoced and lived in the same area as I did. We ran into each other a few more times and he asked me over to his place to watch a movie we both had been talking about. When I got to his place we spent 2 hrs just talking about me where I grew up,what I did for work,hobbies ect HE was the one asking and seemed so interested in my life. He then asked if he could kiss me and one thing lead to anouther and we had s@x. After that everything changed. He turned cold and rude. When before he would cling to every word i said now he could hardly be bothered to look at me when I talked to him. Nerver calling to take me out only calling when he wanted a booty call. Plus i just found out he has/had a gf all along

2007-12-10 05:42:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I noticed this wonderful man one day in the park playing with his young son. Not only did he seem like a devoted dad but a genuine nice person to everyone he met(helped a old lady with her car) One day his son came over to see my dog and we had a little chat. I found out he was newly divoced and lived in the same area as I did. We ran into each other a few more times and he asked me over to his place to watch a movie we both had been talking about. When I got to his place we spent 2 hrs just talking about me where I grew up,what I did for work,hobbies ect HE was the one asking and seemed so interested in my life. He then asked if he could kiss me and one thing lead to anouther and we had s@x. After that everything changed. He turned cold and rude. When before he would cling to every word i said now he could hardly be bothered to look at me when I talked to him. Nerver calling to take me out only calling when he wanted a booty call. Plus i just found out he has/had a gf all along

2007-12-10 05:41:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I noticed this wonderful man one day in the park playing with his young son. Not only did he seem like a devoted dad but a genuine nice person to everyone he met(helped a old lady with her car) One day his son came over to see my dog and we had a little chat. I found out he was newly divoced and lived in the same area as I did. We ran into each other a few more times and he asked me over to his place to watch a movie we both had been talking about. When I got to his place we spent 2 hrs just talking about me where I grew up,what I did for work,hobbies ect HE was the one asking and seemed so interested in my life. He then asked if he could kiss me and one thing lead to anouther and we had s@x. After that everything changed. He turned cold and rude. When before he would cling to every word i said now he could hardly be bothered to look at me when I talked to him. Nerver calling to take me out only calling when he wanted a booty call. Plus i just found out he has/had a gf all along

2007-12-10 05:41:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm friends with this guy who always asks me for relationship advice and right now he wants to go out with some girl I dislike. But he's not really sure he wants to go out with her and constantly asks me reasons for why he shouldn't go out with him. I don't have a real reason apart from I like him myself. He sends me sweet goodnight texts sometimes and always wants to hang out with me at school and out of school. We're really good friends, but he forgets that I'm female and that I'm two years younger then him at times, so that's a bit annoying, but he says its because I'm his good friend.

When my other friends make comments about him and me obviously supposed to be go out, ie today he guessed what colour my underwear was and my friend said he wants to see them, he said "I don't plan on seeing them ever."

So sometimes I think ah he must like me, but then other times I think well he obviously just sees me as a little sister type friend. (but then he forgets my age?) Any ideas?

2007-12-10 05:41:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever loved somebody so much it makes you cry?

Have you ever needed something so bad you can't sleep at night?

Have you ever tried to find the words but they don't come out right?

Have you ever been in love?

Been in love so bad that you'd do anything to make them understand?

Have you ever had someone steal your heart away, you'd give anything to make them feel the same?

Have you ever searched for words to get you in their heart but you don't know what to say and you don't know where to start

Have you ever found the one you've dreamed of all of your life?

You'd do just about anything to look into their eyes?

Have you finally found the one you've given your heart to, only to find that one won't give their heart to you?

Have you ever closed your eyes and dreamed that they were there?

And all you can do is wait for the day when they will care?

2007-12-10 05:40:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 5' 9", around 190 - 200 depending on how close to Christmas dinner I am. I'm a dual-citizen, that makes me a British-American. I enjoy anything technical, hiking or cooking food. I like to work out when I have the means. I love telling jokes and can pull my legs over the back of my head. I have a huge tool box filled with computer parts. I work at a computer store M-F 9-6. I love my cats more than anything. I like music and playing music. I have a ukulele. I figured out that song from the movie "The Jerk." I live underground and pay almost no bills. I have 5 fish that are immortal. I can talk about any subject and love to listen to anything you have to say. I'm starting swing dance lessons soon so I'll be able to add dancing to my repertoire in the not to distant future. Here's a pic of me.

http://b2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00167/23/32/167152332_l.jpg

I was also a cute kid.

http://b5.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00437/51/56/437146515_l.jpg

Would you like this?

2007-12-10 05:39:15 · 19 answers · asked by Higurb M 1 in Singles & Dating

that she doesn't want me one it that much anymore actully I haven't really been on it to much .later gator ..is this on the test

2007-12-10 05:38:18 · 3 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Friends