I noticed this wonderful man one day in the park playing with his young son. Not only did he seem like a devoted dad but a genuine nice person to everyone he met(helped a old lady with her car) One day his son came over to see my dog and we had a little chat. I found out he was newly divoced and lived in the same area as I did. We ran into each other a few more times and he asked me over to his place to watch a movie we both had been talking about. When I got to his place we spent 2 hrs just talking about me where I grew up,what I did for work,hobbies ect HE was the one asking and seemed so interested in my life. He then asked if he could kiss me and one thing lead to anouther and we had s@x. After that everything changed. He turned cold and rude. When before he would cling to every word i said now he could hardly be bothered to look at me when I talked to him. Nerver calling to take me out only calling when he wanted a booty call. Plus i just found out he has/had a gf all along
2007-12-10 05:42:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
User/Loser...what's the difference?
2007-12-10 05:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sailon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this guy was a big loser. One good thing can come out of this though, you can change how you react to the next guy. 2 good 2 B true = false. You let your heart (and your hormones) lead and you should have listened to your head. When it comes to love never just use your heart or just your head. It's important to be sure that they are both in agreement before you trust someone enough to have sex with them. Don't beat yourself up for bad judgement this time. Chalk this one up to a learning experience.
2007-12-10 14:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have the capacity for both good and evil. I think in this case you just didn't wait long enough to get to know him well. Maybe that's why it's a good idea to save the best you have for someone special. Just remember everyone isn't like that. You don't need anyone who doesn't treat you well. I hope you are okay now. Take care and God bless you.
2007-12-10 13:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by Herb W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds quite normal for today's standards>You were used shame you were properly sincere and he was a jerk>Sorry better luck on your next encounter>Been there>>Single and very careful>
2007-12-10 13:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a cool dude. No that actually sucks. As a dude, I must say, never trust one of us.
2007-12-10 13:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Andy U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell into his trap.
2007-12-10 13:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by radio80flyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋