Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

What type of food would you serve? Caribbean, Chinese, seafood, Mexican, turkey and dressing (it is in fall), stations of each of the above, something else?

It will be held on Halloween if that helps any.

Also, would tropical drinks be good to serve? Most of the guest list doesn't drink alcohol for various reasons but there are a few who do.

2007-12-10 04:45:14 · 16 answers · asked by *Miss_Autumn* 7 in Weddings

I met a man online through dating site. I have met several people through the years but he is the first that I really like enough for him to visit. He seems very smart normal carring
We been talking for about 3 months he made plans to come visit me in about 6 weeks we booked flight ect... I did not here from him for about 3 days I was so worried found out when he finally called he was in the hospitol he had a panic attack. Kind of freaked me out but I thought ok I have had thoughs and I am a normal person. In the mean time I was so concerned when he did not call that I searched everywhere for him including the dating site we met on. To my surprise his profile is still up and he had last logged on about the same time he ended up in the hospitol. So I shrugged it off. So this morning I went to the site and it showed that he logged on again a day ago? the plan was I pay for the ticket and he come work for me he is suppose to work unitl he comes and save money and he is not doing that?

2007-12-10 04:38:36 · 22 answers · asked by lisalisa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

As some of you know, im having two, one for where i live now with my fiance's family , and one for my hometown (my family)

my maid of honor and my future mother in law keep calling me with details and asking me questions and stuff..they have each others numbers but keep calling me.

I told my maid of honor if money was an issue didn't have to do it as i don't really have to have one...well money is an issue and im afraid i have to shell out money for this and im worried about far more important things than gifts lol

i have to get my birth certificate, my passport (which will probably have to be expidited at this point, some money for my other vendors)
I have tiny little anxiety attacks at work, no one knows but me because I can feel it and im going insane :(

someone help me with some calming words

2007-12-10 04:38:29 · 18 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

2007-12-10 04:38:04 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK so I got Married Right before I turned 17. We had a little courthouse wedding and the only people who were there was the two witnesses. I am now 19 still with him and happily married. After 2 years ok so my thing now is I wish i could have a beautiful wedding to look back at with a big ceremony. Is it stupid to do a secound wedding after 3 years of marriage? How common is it?

2007-12-10 04:37:53 · 33 answers · asked by mommy_stephanie 2 in Weddings

only thing ive ever did to him was cheat on him once in the begining and didnt tell him then left him then 3 months later i cheated on him again and left him then 5 months later i cheated on him the very first day we kissed with his ex bestfriend i took a picture with his friend with me in his arms and a video of me and him kissing i never showed him the video i dont think he knows and i lied to him about me being raped i only said that so i wouldnt have to tell him who i was haveing sex with i had sex with this guy for 6 months while i was dateing him i then continued to cheat on him with his friend and didnt tell him he found out and left me i then said something to blackmail him into takeing me back i said i was gona tell everyone that he raped me if he didnt take me back he left me 2 months ago because i said that if this guy would like me id cheat on u just like that hes with this other girl and its killing me i threatened him yesterday that id go to his house and make him see me

2007-12-10 04:36:51 · 25 answers · asked by tashy 1 in Singles & Dating

After I caught him, I dumped him and then he got back together with his ex.

So why does he still look at my private myspace page every night? Its been almost two months.... and he is still looking at it every single night.

If he is with her and cheated and lied with her, why even care about me?

Again, its private (i track who looks at my page), he has no access to the info... just my log on date and picture and quote.

Why would someone do that?

2007-12-10 04:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by L 2 in Singles & Dating

Details: I mistakingly made a longer-than-normal eye contact with I guy I've never spoken to (he's in one of my classes). I was thinking of this bio problem and didn't realize 'til 3/4 seconds later that I was actually looking at him (and he at me). Anyway, I turned my head away when I realized how awkward and now, a couple of days later, I've been noticing he's been taking frequent looks at me. The other day, he actually sat one seat away from me and throughout the entire class, he was turning his head and looking.

I'm thinking he thought I was interested. My question is, if this happened to one of you guys, why would you pursue? Thought she was easy? Genuinely wanted to get to know this person? ...What?

2007-12-10 04:34:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husband is behind almost $12,000 in child support for a 4 year old and a 3 year old. I live in Ohio. My case worker said that they are going to suspend his drivers licence for the 2nd time this year. Is there anything I can do?

2007-12-10 04:32:03 · 10 answers · asked by takentothelimits 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For me, early on in my marriage, my wife and I didn't have alot of money to buy presents, and for Christmas, she made the Christmas card she gave me, and had saved some money for a new wedding band. I had lost my first wedding band and she bought me a new one. It really meant alot to me.

Also that Christmas, just wanting to spend quality time with me really meant alot to me.

2007-12-10 04:31:19 · 11 answers · asked by Bryan M 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I normally communicate fine, but the other day a friend whom he does not think that great of because she sleeps around called and aksed if I wanted to go out to Dinner, well being that I have a 6 month old and Work full time, I said yes, but first I asked his permission and he said it was fine. After he allowed me to go he changed meaning his whole character got kind of cold and he was real quiet. He stayed home with the baby and I was gone for no more than 4 hours. He did not say one word to me and during the night I tried putting my arms around him and he made a movement like trying to tell me to get off of him. I allow him to go out and come back when he wants when he wants to go to the bar and chill out with his friends. I also think it has something to do with the fact that he started going to church and he does not go out anymore. I asked him why he was mad at me and he said he was fine and for me to stop asking him that. Why would he be upset? Thanks!

2007-12-10 04:31:12 · 13 answers · asked by ilovecats 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15, my mom is 48 and my dad is 51. About 3 days ago I found out that my mom has cancer. She didn't want to tell me but it slipped out while we were in an argument. She wont tell me what kind but I think it is either live, lung, or breast cancer. I was listening in on the other phone while she was talking to her doctor, and it is pretty far along. I know I shouldnt have listened in and now I wish i haden't but I was really worried. Even though me and my mom havent had a good past and we argue, I still love her and I don't want to lose her. And then 2 days ago we found out that my that has diabetes. He is losing his eye sight and having pancreas trouble. I love him so much too. I don't want my parents to feel bad so I am trying to stay strong. But ive been crying everynight before I go to sleep and at school too.

2007-12-10 04:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by Ohhemmgee_its_Angie 2 in Family

I have been married to a fabulous man who happens who I helped 'go after his dreams' and finally landed his dream job, my 10 year old loves him to death, and his family's never seen him happier. He'd actually tried to kill himself over his ex two years ago...she'll come up later, she gave me the phone records and texts that proved he'd cheated...
While I was working on my master's degree and on and off bed rest this summer (I'm a high risk pregnancy and a teacher) my husband began a 'mind game' relationship with his ex to "get back at her for hurting him". This even included sleeping with her. This man was everything I thought didn't exist. At 29 I met him on a girl's night out, we clicked, two weeks later I was pregnant. He and I went to Vegas and got married--he even took my 10 year old daughter who he's mentioned adopting, he loves, etc. with us because he was "marrying us both". I've looked allover the Web for advice, am physically ill over it, it hurts so bad. Help.

2007-12-10 04:24:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So this past friday things where abruptly broken up between us because she said she just lost feelings, and was very confused, and didnt know who she was, I was in shock, now on saturday she calls me and we talk and at the end of the call she says "I love you". Sunday in the morning, same thing as saturday we talk and everything seems like it might be ok, she doesnt call me later but I see her online and shes deleting all of are pics off photobucket/myspace, and says her "friends" are what she needs, these are the same friends who caused her to drink and hate life before. So I call her and shes says its over get it through your head and also says some very hurtful things. Later that night she calls me and says shes sorry for saying those hurtful things and that shes just very cofused, and says she loves me. Now this is killing me inside, because i love her more then anything so everytime she calls it gives me hope. but i think thats hurting more then just cutting it right now, help????

2007-12-10 04:24:01 · 24 answers · asked by Mars 1 in Singles & Dating

and it had unintended consequences. Say... you had a complicated marriage and separated from your husband/wife, had been separated over a year. During that separation you met a friend who was much younger so you felt it would be safe to just be FWB. Ten months later sex is still fantastic and almost nightly but somehow it changed from being a friendship/casual relationship into something much more. You weren't looking for anything complicated to begin with but you found yourself faced with another complicated situation.

2007-12-10 04:22:37 · 14 answers · asked by ♪ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

if you could, would you let your guy wear pantyhose , skirts and heels in and around the house,,bedroom,,in public places??

2007-12-10 04:20:38 · 19 answers · asked by blythkd 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks>getting married in a day.probably my last day at Yahoo Answers.
My photo:Just tell me how i look,please
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please leave your comments in the comments box.
Love u all :)bye! take care

2007-12-10 04:18:35 · 10 answers · asked by Catherine J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 04:16:41 · 14 answers · asked by c2_army 1 in Family

I'm a house-husband - my wife is the main breadwinner. I work some around my kids school, doctor, sports, sickness & etc. We agreed on this arrangement - back when my kids were still in diapers. I am very handy...in all aspects of running a house. Yes I can cook too!
The problem is her anger over the subject of division of labor...she has twice now, in the last few months, hit me with her fists and a stick, in the head, as hard as she can, in front of the kids...all the while cussing up a storm! (she attends church...)
She is not petite. I am 5'11" 165 pds., she out weighs me by 30 pds and is 5'7" , she can hit like a trained boxer.
If I call the cops...she'll lose her job.
I am baffled by this extreme reaction on the subject of household division of labor. I don't want my kids to be witness to this evil crap anymore. She kicked me out of our bedroom years ago claiming I snore...so I sleep on the couch. What more?

2007-12-10 04:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by Water 2 in Marriage & Divorce

First of all this man is my uncle, my deceased dad's brother. Before he even moved in with my mom he overnighted me a very nasty letter and then expects me to like the situation. Next he moved in with my mom, who is on a limited income due to disability, and chose not to work for a whole year allowing her to support him! In the end he decided to attempt suicide and he was forcably moved out after that. I reccenlty found out they are seeing each other again and sneaking around! I have already told my mom if she were to ever see him again I and my family would not be a part of her life anymore. It is not because I do not want her happy but how uncomfortable we are when he is around. I want her to be happy but I hate the secrecy. What do you think about me distancing my family from this man? (I do not think he is mentally or emotionally stable)

2007-12-10 04:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by Mellisa J 2 in Family

well im only 15 yrs. old and stayed home because i was sick but as i was laying down just a few minutes ago a thought went through my head and i was like when i get older and propose to my future wife im going to do it around christmas time and when she gets stuff out of her stocking christmas morning she will pull out her ring. I think that im goin to do this for my future wife

Now is that sweet or what. if any guy has done anything like that let me kno what your wife said...
and girls let me kno how you would respond


Thanks

2007-12-10 04:14:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or a hot guy with a small one?

2007-12-10 04:10:53 · 10 answers · asked by ROCO 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 04:09:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you found your soulmate why shouldn't you be with him? He just met his wife first. Then comes along his soulmate. He can't get a divorce becuse of money, kids etc. Why should that hold back true love

2007-12-10 04:09:07 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Dad's wife is trying to find her Fathers Will, the thing is Her father passed away but her sister hid the Will from the family. This took place in Delaware aprrox 5 to 6 years back. Is there a site that you can goto to find the Will? Or a "Person" That could help her on the phone?

2007-12-10 04:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by embracedb4 3 in Family

When my fiance and I first moved in his sister really didn't like me. Me and him were fighting all the time and she didn't like how I was treating him. At first I understood why she was being the way she was, but then my fiance and I worked things out and our relationship became stronger than ever. After that she and I became very close, until after a road trip we all together which my fiance and I paid for. She started being rude to me again and started spreading lies about me to friends and his family. Well last month we found out she didnt pay her half of the rent so we were going to get kicked out, so my fiance and I moved out. The day we moved out she paid her half of the rent. Now my fiance and I are not speaken with her, but she is still spreading rumors about me and saying very hurtful things. My fiance has confronted her, also so have I and told her to stop but she continues. I don't want her to ruin my relationship with the rest of our family.

2007-12-10 04:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by stellar23_45 1 in Family

2007-12-10 04:06:24 · 19 answers · asked by elpackage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am not sure where to go to meet new friends out side of recovery clubs

2007-12-10 04:03:05 · 10 answers · asked by irish_matt 7 in Singles & Dating

what do u look for in a guy? and what do u want in a relationship?
tell me in detail.
thanks.

2007-12-10 04:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've heard that many women prefer their men to groom the hair around their privates. What exactly does that mean? How much? How much is too much? Should I shave?

2007-12-10 04:02:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating