He lied and cheated, so why does he even care?

Question

After I caught him, I dumped him and then he got back together with his ex.

So why does he still look at my private myspace page every night? Its been almost two months.... and he is still looking at it every single night.

If he is with her and cheated and lied with her, why even care about me?

Again, its private (i track who looks at my page), he has no access to the info... just my log on date and picture and quote.

Why would someone do that?

Answer 1

Oh oh, don't do this to yourself. You actually like that he is doing this because you still like him. And if he is checking your page you are thinking that he might still like you too. Well, you're probably right because men never miss their water until their well runs dry. See, right now he is finding out that the grass is NOT greener on the other side and he's thinking about how he's going to get his foot back in the door. Soon, he will try to contact you "Just to see how you are doing" hoping that you will give him an opening. But you have already seen what kind of man he is so I advise you to say "I'm fine thanks, gotta go now." Visit this link
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Answer 2

You shouldn't care about what he does....If he lied and cheated, and then still looking at your page...then obviously he is not a very balanced person..doesn't know what he wants....and what you should make a firm decision on..is you do not WANT HIM period....at any time in the future. Find yourself a trust worthy person.....they are still out there.....be good to yourself...I am sure you are a wonderful person.

Answer 3

he is realzing that what he did was wrong and that he probley lost the best thing that ever happened to him. but you have to be careful b/c they say once a cheater always a cheater. he might be making you think that he still cares but once he gets you back and thinks you trust him he will turn around and do it again. idk how old u r but i am 20 and i know how it feels but there are plenty of good men out there and you just have to be patient live your life to the fullist and realize that love is just around the corner. but stop looking. it just might smack you in the face. i m here if you ever need to talk or need somone to listen

Answer 4

hard to say it could be a game but it could be that he could have realized what a mistake he made and maybe hoping that you'll contact him and maybe try to work it out

I'll never understand this but it seems to be a guy thing that they don't know what they have till it's gone

they tend to sometimes sabotoge things thinking like the grass is always greener type deal and when they've messed it up

They realize oh crap what have i done

Answer 5

Im sure he still somewhat cares, and he's probably going back and forth with you and his ex. He sounds like he just can't make up his mind like every other guy out there. Just keep strong, you don't need that!

Answer 6

Looking at a MySpace page means absolutely nothing. If he lied and cheated, then he obviously doesn't care.

The real question is why do you?

Answer 7

I'd get your stuff off myspace and other sites like that - they attract too many pervs (like your ex, for example)

Answer 8

To torture you. Does he know you track that stuff... Yes he does, so now he's using that little piece of info to drive you nuts.

Ignore it and move on.

Answer 9

Who knows... I wouldn't even bother wasting my time thinking about it. He cheats and he lies... don't give him the time of day.

Answer 10

he's cruel and he shld get a taste of his medicine!! what goes around must come around!