only thing ive ever did to him was cheat on him once in the begining and didnt tell him then left him then 3 months later i cheated on him again and left him then 5 months later i cheated on him the very first day we kissed with his ex bestfriend i took a picture with his friend with me in his arms and a video of me and him kissing i never showed him the video i dont think he knows and i lied to him about me being raped i only said that so i wouldnt have to tell him who i was haveing sex with i had sex with this guy for 6 months while i was dateing him i then continued to cheat on him with his friend and didnt tell him he found out and left me i then said something to blackmail him into takeing me back i said i was gona tell everyone that he raped me if he didnt take me back he left me 2 months ago because i said that if this guy would like me id cheat on u just like that hes with this other girl and its killing me i threatened him yesterday that id go to his house and make him see me
2007-12-10 04:36:51 · 25 answers · asked by tashy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so am i doing something wrong with trying to force him back with me when he doesnt even want to talk to me.
2007-12-10 04:37:24 · update #1
but i love him alot now that he is gone.
2007-12-10 04:42:34 · update #2
by the way im 14.
2007-12-10 04:43:26 · update #3
i dont feel i did anything wrong
2007-12-10 04:45:03 · update #4
HOW CAN I GET HIM BACK PLEASE TELL ME PLEASE
2007-12-10 04:50:11 · update #5
sounds like you continually cheat on him... why would he want you back? why would anyone want a person that cheats so much in their world?
grow up and get on with your life.
2007-12-10 04:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by bilko_ca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay I am not gonna sit here and say a bunch of things about what your doing because it is all your choice you know what your doing when you do it so you dont need to here it from me. However I agree with your ex he was right in every way to leave you. And even though you say you love him you cant hurt him like that and expect him t be okay with it. Nobody wants to be hurt like that and sit there through it all. If you want him because you say you love him than tell him the truth ALL OF THE TIME. And dont cheat on him. If you love him you wont want anyone else. so yes your wrong!
2007-12-10 04:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by girl in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you are doing wrong is threatening him. Leave the boy alone... if I knew you I would have a restraining order against you. You could yell rape all you wanted I would tell everyone you're crazy and after reading all that.. I dont think they'd disagree... Next time you talk to him.. tell him I recommend pepper spray or a can of mace
2007-12-10 04:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by lilbunnywabbitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you have some issues! why do you care about being with this guy in the first place, you must have cheated on him all those times for a reason!!.... if you need to cheat on the man obviously you're not satisfied with being with him, so why bother to keep trying to be with him?? girl, you need help. leave this poor man alone and find a man that you won't have to cheat on!! and don't lie to the next one. or threaten, that's just as bad. the lies will come back to you. i'm not trying to be harsh, but you need some help! do some self-reflection...obviously this man isn't good enough for you if you have to cheat on him! move on.
2007-12-10 04:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by cranberrycastles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I want to say something without attacking you the problems is your really don't love him.
Something bad happen to you in your life that you feel the need to have drama all the time. I think you should stay away from men completely and go to your doc and get on some kind of meds.
This behaivor is not normal. You dont love yourself this is the problem and until you do you will never be faithful to another man.
Show your self respect and let your boyfriend have happyness in his life he deserves it everything you put him through is so bad I feel bad for him.
Most importantly for you you need help
2007-12-10 04:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by lisalisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun one thing you dont want to do is threaten him!!!!! trust me! yea it may hurt but have u ever heard the saying if you love some one let them go and if they come back it was meant to be but if they dont it was not meant to be and in this case i dont think it was meant to be! and u should give him some time!!! it sounds like u need to just back off a bit and talk to him and ask if u 2 can still be friends! as for cheating hun u need to not do that its wrong and it hurts alot!!!!
2007-12-10 04:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by seeing_stars@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing something wrong? You need to reread your question. Cheating? Lying? Kissing? Blackmail? Rape? Threats? You need some serious serious help. Yes, you're doing something wrong. You treated him like crap. No wonder he doesn't want to talk to you. Sounds like you need some therapy.
2007-12-10 04:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by ***~*** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this actually the ex asking this question because you can't possibly think you are innocent here? are you mental? of course you did something wrong, you did everything wrong. if you kept cheating on him, why do you want to be with him? i don't think you should be in a monogamous relationship. and you need to leave the man alone.
2007-12-10 04:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by TwilightTwin2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nightmare of a girlfriend. He absoluteyly needed to get as far away from you as possible & I hope he finds someone trustworthy who's worth his time! You obviously want to sleep with every guy you come across & don't want to be in any type of relationship so LEAVE HIM ALONE!!
2007-12-10 04:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kristin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not ready 4 a steady long relation's full of love end over all that energy ur giving to others rightfully belonged to ur beau
_ _ _ when ur ready is not always going to be the right time for him u've had to be not ready when he was at some point honestly think about it keep the faith not with this guy to him ur just a lay
2007-12-10 04:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Susan V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋