Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

There is this guy I am really interested in. He reminds me of a really good friend that I lost 2 years ago. Even though I like this guy I also have someone else I am interested in. I also have a friend who is also my roommate. This friend of mine I really like, but she is forceful, bossy and controlling. She is always trying to tell me what to do, blames me for everything, and acts as if I should always do what makes her happy. Though she will say its not that.

These two people do not get along he feels she is spoiled. She came in with a really bad attitude, he retaliated and they arguing. She blames me because he was my choice of a friend, and that I should have told him off for disrespecting her. I feel like it was between them, and I have no control over it.

I know she really wants me to stop being around him at all, but I am sick of catering to her wishes. I have no idea what to do at this point, and I need a little help.

2007-12-10 02:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by zinistir 3 in Friends

I have left him alone to figure things out. now he calls me everyday and what to come over. I told him no sex until he moves back into the house. I sticking by my word. He loves sex would like it 2-3times a day. The reason why he left was we were not taking care of your marrige. we got to comfortable no passion anymore. Now i show him what he could be having, Ive read alot and changes my ways im ready to be a new lover. etc...I think he is excited by this. do you think he might be thinking about coming home and trying again at some point?

2007-12-10 02:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband spent all his money on his duaghter's Christmas because her mom was getting her mainly clothes and he said she "deserved" to have toys for Chirstmas. h and he had to pay for half of the clothes the child's mom got. Well I had to buy all of the stuff for our two kids. He didn't help a bit. He even picked buying his daughter a ton of gifts over paying his share of our bills. It's like he's trying to impress her mom and buy her love and I'm pissed because it leaves me to pay for everything for our kids and out bills. What to do? I tried telling him I was upset and he just thought I was being unfair by asking him to tone it down a bit and help me out some. Do you think I'm being fair?

2007-12-10 02:20:28 · 22 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My neighbors in the upstairs apartment are having a terrible screaming, shouting, pounding, throwing things fight. It's 12am and my roomates and I were woken up by the terrible noise of their children screaming in fear.

What do we do? We're three girls living together and afraid to go up there.

2007-12-10 02:18:18 · 13 answers · asked by kk1977 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible to carry a torch for an ex for the rest of your life?

2007-12-10 02:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you look like somebody famous?

If so, who to you resemble.

2007-12-10 02:13:18 · 19 answers · asked by Kathie 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister tried 2 get with my man. He told me all about what she was trin to do. He even showed me how she always called his cell #. The last call she made to him he let me listen to her.

2007-12-10 02:11:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and myself have been dating for a year and a half and we just recently moved to a new town. Well, theres this guy at work she tells me about almost every other day about either stuff happening at work or her interactions with him. Just recently she was chewing on ice and she told me it reminded her of him and she told me a story of him. I'm trying to put this behind me but stuff similar to the ice chewing story it just gets to me for some reason (I haven't reacted or said anything to her yet...).

I mean, if the story was about a female friend, I would be perfectly fine with it. I'm not a very jealous individual but I was wondering if this is something I should be worrying about it or is a it a typical thing females do in relationships, especially of fellow male colleagues you just met?

2007-12-10 02:11:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi
I am getting married in March and I have the perfect dress but its white......this is my second marriage....I have 2 kids.....I know the tradition is white means pure but this is my dream dress...help me!!...........

2007-12-10 02:10:02 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i've been semi-dating this guy for a few months. i want to get him something he'll actually like for christmas but i don't even know where to start. what kind of gift can i get for a guy that i'm not in a serious relationship with, yet still shows that i care?

2007-12-10 02:05:57 · 16 answers · asked by rawsonofchoice 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok. How do I tell my boyfriend of 4 years that I'm not in love with him and just have been with him because he is a good guy? I also found someone else that I have the world in common with and want to be with him! This will be our 4th break up (All done by me) and I dont want him to hate me. I feel horrible about the situation, HELP!!!!!!

2007-12-10 02:05:04 · 3 answers · asked by Erica S 2 in Singles & Dating

It may be very petty a joy for y'all but if i find out, it makes my day lol!!!

What bout y'all guys???

2007-12-10 02:04:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't know what to do. He cheated once I know he is really sorry for it. I forgave him. But it keeps eating me up inside, just the fact that he did it and I never expected it. I want this to work. How can it work?

2007-12-10 02:02:32 · 17 answers · asked by ♥вєαυтι♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 02:00:29 · 24 answers · asked by contessa w 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey girls! I have a question to ask you. If you were dating a man and you were both in your mid-20s and you said that you love him everyday, would you cheat on him?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months and she is currently away on her vacation for 3 weeks

2007-12-10 01:59:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm currently 18, with a girlfriend who is 16. We've been going out for a year (in 2 more days.) Now before her there was nobody, so i was 17, with no girlfriend;and never even kissed a girl or anything like it.That's not the only reason i'm with her though, and i try to do everything for her.

However, although we're both young, some physical stuff does happen[no actual intercourse].But last night I found out that her old boyfriend who she had when she was 14-15, and in her freshman year already did stuff

Although nobody likes to think of their girlfriend doing stuff with other guys, i found out that every day after school they'd go to this one room, and make out for 5mins. She was never given a sex talk, ever, and has always been clueless about this stuff, and thought thats what a boyfriend was. The biggest shock was finding out that he actually 'fingered' her a bit, but apparantly she cried afterwards and it never happened again.I dont know what i was, all i can say is dissapoin

2007-12-10 01:59:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his 9 year old wrote to her mom, saying that her brother,dad and me are ALL very stupid. Apparently she loves us, and is always hugging us,but she calls us stupid,because her dad doesn't take her to the mall anymore,because he just want to be home with ME. Should i tell him? but i don't want to break his heart,he's always so proud of her, THAT she loves me. What should i do ??? please help me ? his kids are always saying that their mom (the ex) is always saying that their dad,just want to be with me. What's the correct thing to do ?

2007-12-10 01:56:12 · 8 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my hubby just recently got a new job, its a night shift. he leaves every day at 4:00 and comes back around 1 am, now i know he HAS to go to work, but why is that every time he leaves i feel so sad? I don't want him to leave and most of the time i cry! Am i getting TOO attached or too clingy with him??

2007-12-10 01:55:35 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ღ♥Babygirl♥ღ♥ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I am in a marriage that has had it's problems but we get along enough to run the house without fighting other than a few words here and there. I've not wanted to leave because the kids...you know.
The thing is, I disagree with how my husband parents about 85% of the time. Of the other 15%, I am ok with 10% of it and the other 5% of the time he is golden - just great.
It is extreeeeemely hard to watch him reduce my kids to tears and fighting when all he is trying to get them to do is their chores. I am tired of being in the middle, tired of being accused and reprimanded because he thinks I am interfering when my kids come to me saying he is unresonable or crying or frustrated with him. I agree with the kids, but have to tow the unified front line.
Is this a deal breaker for this marriage?

2007-12-10 01:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by xxxxxxxxx 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok its dis boy dat i lyk and he lyked me, he moved to a different state. B4 we would talk on da phone n on da computer. He told me dat he wuz moving away but i thot he wuz talking about sumwhere in dis state, but i found out dat he wuz movin out of state. Now dat he iz gone, I can't stop thinkin about him, i dont know why. And i can't talk 2 him because his old phone number is disconnected, and he hasn't been on da computer in a while. I'm tryin to get over it, but i can't. what do i do?

2007-12-10 01:54:37 · 14 answers · asked by skyisthelimit 1 in Singles & Dating

Married for 3 1/2 years and throughout our marriage I felt there was never something right. The first years should have been full of love and intimacy which we never had, my wife has been traveling overseas and meeting her cousin at the airport by chance but travelling on a same itinary in Thailand for two weeks at the time she also never called me as she said she lost my mobile number. A year ago a close friend of her told me that my wife has be telling her was having an affair with her cousin, my wife denied saying she just told her an imagination story and believed my wife. Last night she has gone overseas for two months to visit her mother and her friends, her cousin also lives there. She shave her p...y a week ago which she never does and told me a couple of days ago that she had two birth control Nova rings she gave away to her friend. Altough I do not have physical proof but all these signs just don't add up. I love her but perhaps she feels totally different towards me.

2007-12-10 01:53:27 · 31 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 months since we separated and all the suddenly she decided that she wants to go to MC with me. About 3 months ago we had an argument just like any normal marriage couple, but it got heated and she went to stay at her sisters house. A week later she told me that she wants a divorce because she's fed up with me. Note: we didn't cheat on each other or beat her. She just wanted a divorce because she was "fed-up". Anyhow, initially I suggested that we go to MC, but she refused and wanted to go thru the divorce. I tried to talk to her out of the divorce but she was too angry n refused. Fast forward 3 months later, she found out that I have be going to therapy on my own and now she wants to go with me. The catch is she is willing to go to MC to help me, but she still wants a divorce. I told her if it's only to help me and not both of us then don't go, but she still wants to go? Also she has been dragging her feet with filing the divorce papers. Is she giving false hope? help!

2007-12-10 01:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by DMa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every time I've been with a girl who claims they want a friends with beneeits relationship, they end up wanting to get friggin married. Are any girls able to follow through with no committment issues?

2007-12-10 01:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by Lancaid 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a woman who likes some form of phsical contact when me & my sig other are arguing.I was wondering (honestly) if a guy doesn't hit or oush you when you've done the ultimate like break his things & take his things does this mean he doesn't care for you

2007-12-10 01:49:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I athought that in the Guidelines somewhere it stated that the Non-Custiodial Parent had to provide the children with a bedroom and a bed to sleep in. We have a 12 year old boy, an 8 year old daughter and a 5 year old boy together. He lives in a two bdrm apt and the 2nd bdrm was for our children. He got a roommate and gave that 2nd bdrm to the roommate so now our children have to sleep on the floor. Am I legally bound to still make them go over there every other weekend because of this?

2007-12-10 01:49:49 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend says he wants to go to a strip club, but he says he is just joking around. I think he actually wants to go and i told him if he ever did that i would break up with him. Is this really over exaggerating??

2007-12-10 01:49:47 · 8 answers · asked by Binky :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 01:49:24 · 14 answers · asked by yankee hater 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have had a brutal year to say the least, unfortunately we've only been married for one year. She has been very controlling and hot headed and very conniving. Day after day of non-stop fighting ended in a blow out when she tried to get between my best friend and I. I told her immediately I wanted out and was ready for a divorce, it's been far too long of a year.

Problem is, she disregards the fact that I want out and keeps telling me to give it one more chance (I've heard that before). She keeps telling me It'll get better, when in my mind its over and I'm ready to move on.

I have no idea how to let her know its really over this time, without pushing her over the edge. Short of serving her with papers or bringing another woman around I have no idea how to let her know. She is very emotionally frail and I'm afraid she'll do something rash. Any ideas or suggestions welcome!

2007-12-10 01:44:52 · 18 answers · asked by ace r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Listen I dont know what else to do. My husband watches porn all the time and it is tearing our family apart. It hurts me so bad to catch him lookin at it specially since we have a daughter. I need a porn blocker or a nudity blocker that is extremely strong. I mean one that you cannot get into. I cant get one that u have to have a password when u get on the comp cause it is his computer. Anyways, I got on here and asked this question a couple of months ago and no one had a good answer or a blocker that worked. If someone could please tell me one I would appreciate it cause I dont want our marriage ruined. Thank you so much

2007-12-10 01:44:37 · 16 answers · asked by -Brooklynn and Kaylee's Mommy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

It all started a long time ago in April this year. Me and my friend started going out with him and his friend (her now current boyfriend) to get drunk! ..We would end up kissing and stuff but now we have kinda got more intimate doing sexual things..(yes we have even gone all the way but we aren’t going out!) I really like him enough to go out with him.. he makes me laugh as well as being gorgeous :P ..but he’s the one that wont go out with me because in September he joined the army and he said that boys cant trust girls while they’re in the army because most of them end up cheating. I wouldn’t cheat but I respect his wishes.. I treat him kindly and with respect yet he makes me look stupid all the time. He sees other girls, he knows I know he sees other girls but I can’t say anything to him because hes not my boyfriend. All I could do is stop seeing him but I can’t! I really like him and staying away makes me want to see him more =( He also boasts to my friend’s boyfriend about what he

2007-12-10 01:40:10 · 12 answers · asked by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating