Married for 3 1/2 years and throughout our marriage I felt there was never something right. The first years should have been full of love and intimacy which we never had, my wife has been traveling overseas and meeting her cousin at the airport by chance but travelling on a same itinary in Thailand for two weeks at the time she also never called me as she said she lost my mobile number. A year ago a close friend of her told me that my wife has be telling her was having an affair with her cousin, my wife denied saying she just told her an imagination story and believed my wife. Last night she has gone overseas for two months to visit her mother and her friends, her cousin also lives there. She shave her p...y a week ago which she never does and told me a couple of days ago that she had two birth control Nova rings she gave away to her friend. Altough I do not have physical proof but all these signs just don't add up. I love her but perhaps she feels totally different towards me.
2007-12-10 01:53:27 · 31 answers · asked by maleinaus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WELL U SEEMS LIKE A NICE GUY,BUT UR WIFE IS CHEATING. i DON'T KNOW WITH WHO,BUT SHE IS
2007-12-10 01:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by latoya r 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should higher a private investigator , I wouldn't suggest coming out in the open to ask her because if she is not then you will appear stupid.And if you find out she is then you can confront her about it if you find out she isn't then no one will ever have to know. But I also agree with you too much that doesn't add up and you guys haven't been married for long you would think she would want to spend more time with you than that . Another thing that kind of puzzled me how can your wife of three years loose your cell phone number. Would you have been a priority to her to have stored this in her cell phone.
2007-12-10 02:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
all that definately sounds very suspicious in my eyes --- but maybe it's not, maybe it's a horribly bad luck coincidences that look really bad on her -- you can't say for sure, but it is definately questionable.
I would just flat out ask her, and have a serious talk with her about everything that is going on. That seems like the only option you have.....and if you cannot believe her fully, then maybe some marriage counseling to get to the bottom of everything.
2007-12-10 01:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mordi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Something is very wrong in your marriage, it's not about the gossip or even if she is having an affair. NO woman would want to be away from her husband that long. I am sorry but you need to tell her it is over. This is not a way to live. Marriage is wonderful, it consists of honesty, trust, love and happiness. It seems like this is missing in your life. You deserve everything life has to offer. Respect yourself and move on. Good Luck.
2007-12-10 02:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by clever girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds suspicious.
get a nice keyboard logger program installed on the home computer.
Lost mobile number??? please, she can't call you at home??? also, if she is so close with her family, I am sure that she knew he was going to thailand also.
Like I said.
I keep trying to add one and one together and it comes up 3. something is wrong.
Get proof and confront her.
Heck, tell her you are comming for a visit to thailand too, her reaction should tell you exactly what you need to know.
I feel for ya dude.
I am in the end stages of a 9 year marriage myself.
2007-12-10 02:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said you never thought something was right, so trust youre gut instinct. It is never usually wrong.Why is she travelling so much and why cant you go with her this time.She is going to be away for Christmas, she should want to be with you not them for 2 months. I hate to say this but something is not right, I would fly out there and surprise her.Just turn up and see what the reaction is, even if you can only stay for a couple of weeks.
Lost your mobile number my ass, you are her husband she should know it, even if she didn't you have a home phone surely she didn't forget that to.
2007-12-10 02:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are being played for a FOOL !!! I Can tell You NO Woman "gives away her birth control ring to a friend". What a BS story!!! My advice, File for Divorce,and let your Crazy wife, continue living this crazy life she has choosen. Maybe she needs to MOVE to Thailand !! It would Save A LOT of Money on plane tickets !!!! Good Luck !!!
2007-12-10 02:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she travelling so much? Ask her how she felt if you might "surprise" her overseas...her reaction should say it all.
I think living apart is very unhealthy in any relationship.
If you have the $ I'd get a private investigator and know once and for all. You deserve better and you should know one way or another what the heck is going on.
Good Luck!
2007-12-10 01:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by laura 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's a clue: She's CHEATING!!!!!!! Do the math! 2 +2 = 4
always has and always will..... Everything says she's cheating, the most important thing that tells u that, is that gut feeling ... coupled along with the change in her behavior spells CHEATER! The math never lies.... but I bet she does!
2007-12-10 02:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by pokvet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you file for divorce while she's gone for 2 months, cause she's cheating on you big time.
2007-12-10 01:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by loonatic72 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get her a*** here and go to couples counseling if your heart tells you to save this marriage other wise get a lawyer.I'm very sorry that you are going tru this,but I'm sure you'll come out of it smarter.
2007-12-10 01:59:22 · answer #11 · answered by brownsugarbr02 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋