Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

Okay for New Year's Eve I was planning on hanging out with my crush cuz I thought it would be the perfect time to try something since New Year's is New Year's you know how couples always kiss at midnight and s**t like that. But ya like how do I go about letting him know that I want him to kiss me or something cuz I don't want to do it in front of his aunt and uncle, or my friends, or his dad. (He lives with his dad and aunt and uncle even tho he's 21 and I'm 17 {Both our b-days are soon} he lives in the basement) But ya it's awkward cuz we're both shy but i'm more shy then he is...he knows I like him becuz at my friends Halloween party we played Truth or Dare and I picked truth and they asked me if i liked him and I said yes...and then it was weird...I've been hanging out with him for about 3 months already or pretty close anyways and I want to kiss him so bad but don't know how to go about doing so cuz all we do is flirt with each other...I want more than flirting i think he does 2.

2007-12-10 04:01:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That's what I read in Wiki. That Holly on "The Girls Next Door" is always hinting at marriage and he acts like he could care less. And do you think he actually fools around with Bridget and Kendra, or sleeps with just Holly?

2007-12-10 04:01:20 · 17 answers · asked by Kate J 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have my ex. bf i'll call him Vinny who was my first bf and everything in HS.We had a very dramatic relationship becacause i was a good girl and he was a bad boy from another not as nice town.He broke up with me and broke my heart twice. The last time i was unknowingly pregnant i became depressed went from being 110 pounds(5ft 6) down to 90 pounds and lost the baby.I went on to college became even more shy than in HS and Vinny came back to hound me for a fling while he had a gf.I stupidly agreed and that went on for a little over a year.I met a really sweet guy(Danny) who brought me back to myself we started being friend then dating and i ended the fling with my ex.Well when Danny died suddenly(cancer)Vinny came by again for a fling (still with the gf) 3 months after our daughter was concieved.Well now my daughter is 4 yrs old; Vinny her dad asked me to allow him to pay CS of the books and i agreed. But he has stopped paying for the last 6 months?I believe he may have married...

2007-12-10 04:00:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just inspired to post this question after reading that Scott Baio is now married. As many of you probably know, he was recently on a reality show called "Scott Baio is 45 and Single", in which he discussed his commitment phobia with a therapist. Why do people even use a term like "commitment phobia", anyway? Why does society pressure us to enter marriage and other committed relationships to begin with? Is it inconceivable to some people that there are some of us out there who are perfectly happy being single and are better off not being married?

2007-12-10 03:57:29 · 3 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating

Now before you answer and just say "ring", folks....

Know that i do love her.

Madly.

But the ring thing, should i wait for another occasion/time to do that?

Instead of making it like a christmas gift? Know what i mean?

She did say she'd love some diamond earrings, but i'd like to get a ring and finally ask her to marry me. And jesus knows she's put up with a ton of my crap and has been there for me.

Help me out folks.

Oh and any reco's for jewelry places would help as well. I was thinking about the shane company, seems like that guy would know his business, i mean christ - you hear their commercials enough.

help me decide!

2007-12-10 03:56:03 · 39 answers · asked by Slevin Kelevra 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my partner for two and a half years now and i love him with all my heart. He is a truly wonderful man, i honestly couldnt ask for more in a man. He respects me, he cares what i think and he never stops thnking of me. We have a great relationship, he's my best friend aswell as a great lover but just lately i have gone completely off sex. He does not complain and respects me enough not to push for it but i can see it is affecting him. Just the other night he asked me if i still find him attractive (which i do), he really is worried that i've gone off him. I dont know whats wrong with me, i just dont feel like having sex, please help im worried about losing him.

2007-12-10 03:55:03 · 54 answers · asked by gemba253 4 in Singles & Dating

would you talk about them to anyone, or that one particular person that you really liked?

2007-12-10 03:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

nothing but work, pay my bills, and live normally, but my sister, brothers, and mother, all still think I am the same, if I switch jobs, they say "oh did you get fired from drinking? or don't eat that cake, it has alcohol in it, or like recently, I had a hernia operation, and at the family barbecue they all thought I was in the hospital for alcohol treatment, it makes me mad, they don't visit me because they think I am wild, if they were to stop in they would see me sewing or cooking a nice meal. anyone been labeled for life, like me?

2007-12-10 03:52:32 · 5 answers · asked by kathleenhorn55 1 in Family

a baller in my school always hearts people and gets in fights
i saw him making fun of a poor student in school for a three days (if i were in that student position i would choose suicide than going back to school)
later he came to that student and ask him to forgive him for wht he done , he did his homeworks and projects , he helps him outside and inside .
the baller isn't dating or even talking to girls , he is very agrssive very dangerous ( student affraid of him) and he is very good in math physics chimics and languages . sometimes he is very nice guy and sometmes he is ????
when it comes to emotionel stuff he is so cold
what is wrong with this guy?

2007-12-10 03:49:41 · 2 answers · asked by media23 1 in Singles & Dating

When my wife and I get into a heated argument she calls my mother and says the worst things about me. She tells my mother in front of my face that I need psychological counseling etc. She never tells how she contributes to the argument. Now, She has her own mother that she can talk to, and friends and she has absolutely no relationship with my mother. I asked her why and she says because she needed someone to talk to.

2007-12-10 03:49:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-12-10 03:48:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He is one of the most important things to me and he sometimes hurts me. i have been with him for 9 months but have loved him for over a year. and there is times that we get into a fight and he says alot of stuff to hurt me and i still put up with it. is that what i should be doing?

2007-12-10 03:46:03 · 10 answers · asked by Me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My nephew is coming up from Alabama to sepend the holiday w/ his father, my brother-in-law. In the 10 years that I have been dating/married to my husband, I have probably only met his nephew 2 or 3 times & the last time I saw him was like 4 or 5 years ago. Well he's coming up & I have no idea what do get him. I don't know him at all. All I know if that his mother & her family are loaded, so I'm pretty sure he already has everything. I don't want to spend alot of money (more b/c I don't have any, rather then b/c I don't know him) but I don't want to look cheap.

Also, should I send him back home w/ a gift for his 12yo, princess sister who I have never met in person? I've never gotten these children a present before. They have no relationship w/ my husband at all....infact, they refuse to even call him Uncle.

What do you think?

2007-12-10 03:43:57 · 20 answers · asked by autumn 5 in Family

My bf has a couple of friends that use his cell all the time calling different women, and then the girls end up calling my bf back and asking him where they are. I don't like it at all. Why would you do that?

2007-12-10 03:43:14 · 1 answers · asked by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 in Singles & Dating

why would a wife say she should be able to go hang with guy friends and leave her husband home? at age 29 and married under a year? like go to the mall or out to lunch or this and that? make a comment that her other boyfriends didnt mind if she did those things--when she was 20, not 29 and a wife. i would never leave my wife home to go be with another woman, friend or not. who would do that? and why would she want to spend time with some other man than her husband.

2007-12-10 03:41:17 · 14 answers · asked by amayseng 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Intimacy question for the ladies.

Is it ok for a man to scream and moan and call dirty names during bedroom activities in the heat of the moment?

2007-12-10 03:39:06 · 23 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

There's way too much to tell about the trials our relationship has experienced (as far as I know, cheating was one of the only issues we didn't face). I am younger than he is (I'm 25, he's 38) I have always been willing to look at any issues that may be mine & work to try to fix them, he on the other hand just CAN'T see his (major) flaws. When we met he was a skinny pot smoking angry overworked chef, I saw him transform into a 30 pound heavier non- pothead healthy looking semi-happier still overworked chef. We had a rocky relationship, can I blame ALL the problems on him? No Can I say that MOST were him? Yes, without a doubt. The past couple months I've felt he was smoking (pot) again, (his behavior was a little different, he began frequent gum chewing, etc) I would confront him, he used to be upfront & admit if he did. Also, I found out he purchased 2 spy camerasfor his condo, when I confronted him he said he wanted to make sure I wasn't cheating (I don't even LIVE with him!) -Contiue

2007-12-10 03:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If you where talking to a guy......(only online) and he tells you that he loves you,and you think you love him to,he asks you to come and visit him in another state......would you go or make him come to you?

2007-12-10 03:38:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what happens to the girlfriend if her boyfriend (drugdealer/distributor) is caught
a) she knows he is one but is not with him at the time of the trade
b) she is with him at the time of the trade but does not handle it herself
c) her fingerprints are on the drugs
d)she knows he is a drugdealer but pretends that she doesnt
???

2007-12-10 03:38:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl but my friend said saying hello and starting a conversation with her everyday on msn to much

I rarely see her in college but I really like her, whats my best bet and how often should I be talking to her?

2007-12-10 03:37:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 03:36:56 · 10 answers · asked by MSMajor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had 7 kids in bolivia. in 1993 we came to the united states to see if we could do better. we lived in Pittbergh for 3 years before moving to va. My oldest daughter got pergent when she was 17;. when we moved to va i told my told my oldest son to drop out of school so we can meet hands meet, because i was only working in mcddys which paid me $5.80 an hour. my other daughter also got pergent when she was 18;. my son had 2 duis and spend some days in jail for that. my son jose is doing good he works in a auto shop. My younger son Jack got arrested in july for stealing a car. that was not the only time he got in trouble with the law he was also in trouble with the law when he was younger. My youngest daughter mary hates me because i gave out a baby for adoation because he was M.R. was i a bad parent. when i was working they taked home taking care of each other and sometimes my sister took care of them but not so much. what could i be done so i wasnt a bad parent

2007-12-10 03:36:50 · 15 answers · asked by gloria.ortea 1 in Family

my husband seems to have no sex drive... every once in a wile he will say he is horny but thats it.i always seem to be the aggressor wich kinda sucks because it almost makes you feel unwanted ive talked to him about it before but it never gets us anywhere.what should i do we have been married a couple months.i know its not the way i look or anything im an attractive woman (no i am not conceited im just giving you all the facts).i am 23 and he is 25...whats the deal?i dont know what i should do...

2007-12-10 03:35:13 · 12 answers · asked by lisa l 2 in Singles & Dating

for someone your head over heels for but dont know them that well yet. like love at first sight kind of song

2007-12-10 03:34:59 · 20 answers · asked by variety07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 03:34:58 · 27 answers · asked by ify 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so for starters let me tell u some things that I find important...ok so on Saturday I went to the bars with 3 buddy's and its the first time that I went out there that I was feeling my self ( me n the ex broke up 6 months ago and she was my only g/f since I was 14 and we dated for a long time, so I guess u could say my meeting of girls was a little rusty) so we were chillin and dancing with some girls but I went out side to have a smoke. I sat on a pick nick table and across form me there was a girl who was by her self as well...I caught her looking right at me so I looked at her and she looked away first, the she moved to another spot and did the same thing again...so I was a little hesitant to go talk to her but I was about to when she came over and sat next to me. we had an awesome talk ( she wasn’t to happy, sad looking in fact so I talked to her for about 5 minutes making her laugh at least 4-5 times and she pretty much had a smile on her face the whole time. well I told her I was going inside b/c it was cold ( oh and she was with a friend and she was waiting for some guy she meet that day) she said bye and that it was really nice talking to me and as I was about to walk away and this guy ( not the one she was waiting for) introduced him self and she said hi...so I got up and walked about 5 steps away the turned around and asked her if she had email ( at this point the new guy she was talking to was trying to tell her a story and she told him to hold on and she was smiling at me the whole time and I got her email and walked away...now I’m new at this whole thing and really don’t have much experience b/c of my previous relationship...so would u say she wants me to email her and do u think I played it cool and had her interested? cuz I really don’t want to b one of those wussy guys that don’t get company from the girls... well thanks for ur time and I would really like ur comments

2007-12-10 03:34:52 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 03:33:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got over this guy. and i like a new one. but the guy i got over is now talking to me again. why is he talking to me now?

2007-12-10 03:32:26 · 23 answers · asked by variety07 1 in Singles & Dating

im scared to tell my man, and im also scared if i do have an orgasm now he'll know, and he will realize that iv never had an orgasm before and we will fight because iv been faking it for so long, im scared if i do something diffrent he will know, and ill be the bad person, i dont have confidence in my body after i had my son, even with my sons father i never had an orgasm after 4 years, but im with my new man now and i dont want to mess things up with us, iv never really liked myself so i feel like i dont deserve to have an orgasm and to be pleased, and another thing is i always get trun on afther sex never druing, i dont know what to do, i can have an orgasm by myself and with oral, i just need some help on what to do

thank you

2007-12-10 03:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Woman in her 40's, married to a good guy but lonely, she is very attractive and active her husband is quite boring but handsome. She told me she has become attracted to a 26 year old guy. He told her he would go out with her if she wasn't married, but still notices everything about her. Innocent little immature things. But it only tells me he is watching her. She really loves the thrill and challenge of this whole thing, and as the days go on thats all she talks about. I try to discourage her because of her husband but she boldly told me that she wants to sleep with him.. Needless to say this younger guy is very cute and I can tell he is a good guy because he is trying to fight his attraction, Bottom line I believe he wants her as much as she wants him. How could she just hop into bed with him, how could that even begin to work?

2007-12-10 03:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Marriage & Divorce