If you where talking to a guy......(only online) and he tells you that he loves you,and you think you love him to,he asks you to come and visit him in another state......would you go or make him come to you?
2007-12-10 03:38:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here the thing im not a kid.....actually im older than he is im 23 hes 19.
2007-12-10 05:48:22 · update #1
yeah if he really loves u he will come 2 u
2007-12-10 03:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by katy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really be in love with someone you haven't even met. Do not go to see him. Tell him to come to see you. Meet him in a public place and have an adult with you, at least not too far away, so they can see you. But it would be much better if you never met him at all. It sounds to me like he's a pedophile. A normal person would not tell someone they love her without really knowing her. He's just playing on your naive nature and your young age. Sorry if it hurts, but it's true and better be safe than sorry or dead.
2007-12-10 12:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh what a situation! Firstly for safety i wouldn't want him to come to my house if id never met him before just incase he is some wierdo and then knows where i live. I also wouldnt go to his house alone for the same reason. If you do want to meet him id say somewhere public with other people. Good luck.
2007-12-10 11:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would get to know possibly as much as possible about him then i would make him come to me to be more on the safe side but don't meet him at your house meet him in a public place just to be on the safe side, because you honestly don't know if he is telling the truth or not.
2007-12-10 11:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by shingstar_13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whichever you choose, please take someone with you, preferably an adult. You don't really know who you are meeting. Just in case they aren't who they say they are, I wouldn't advise him coming to the girls house because then they would always be watching out for you if they are a child molester or a stalker! Be careful!
2007-12-10 11:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me.. neither one... as they say.." there are more single guys than you can shake a stick at" within 50 miles of my house... why would I want to bother with someone in another state?
2007-12-10 11:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither he could be a pervert or like a really old sick man, but whatever you decide to do just be careful!!
2007-12-10 13:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Joel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋