He is one of the most important things to me and he sometimes hurts me. i have been with him for 9 months but have loved him for over a year. and there is times that we get into a fight and he says alot of stuff to hurt me and i still put up with it. is that what i should be doing?
2007-12-10 03:46:03 · 10 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course not.....noone deserves to be treated that way. If he hurts you he doesn't love you....PERIOD!!
2007-12-10 03:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info. Sould we say your not to smart. Fighting is no way to have a relationship. this is not going to get better. One of you need to lean to be shut ones mouth untill things comdown and talk about what the proble is. Yelling gets you know where.
2007-12-10 11:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by tadm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very mean what's he is doing to you. I think you should sit him down and let him know how important he is to you. Let him know that what he say to you, you can forgive but you can't forget.My Advice is that commucation is # 1 and you should let him know that, what he say's is not right.He should respect you as his wife and not some hoe or the streets.
2007-12-10 13:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by nancy w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard work when you start it off on a "good" foot.
Think about it long and hard.
Is it easier to get out now or later?
I want to tell you to leave him, but you have to come to that decision on your own.
Good luck!
2007-12-10 13:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by kjay_39 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"been with him" do you live together ? moved in after 3 months ? If these are YES, I guess he has it made, second income, clothes washer, house cleaner, cook, sex without any commitment. He lost respect for you when you moved in without wanting to get married.
2007-12-10 12:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should be vocal to him about how he makes you feel, because certainly nothing is going to change when you are married otherwise.
2007-12-10 11:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People that love you, don't repeatedly hurt you.
2007-12-10 11:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Brightside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you enjoying being verbally abused....I would reconsider marrying someone who already shows signs of abuse....It could escalate to physical abuse....
2007-12-10 11:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want things to be different when you are married, things have to be different now.
Good luck.
2007-12-10 11:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he really dont love you but resent you instead
2007-12-10 11:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by LivingMyLife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋