Okay for New Year's Eve I was planning on hanging out with my crush cuz I thought it would be the perfect time to try something since New Year's is New Year's you know how couples always kiss at midnight and s**t like that. But ya like how do I go about letting him know that I want him to kiss me or something cuz I don't want to do it in front of his aunt and uncle, or my friends, or his dad. (He lives with his dad and aunt and uncle even tho he's 21 and I'm 17 {Both our b-days are soon} he lives in the basement) But ya it's awkward cuz we're both shy but i'm more shy then he is...he knows I like him becuz at my friends Halloween party we played Truth or Dare and I picked truth and they asked me if i liked him and I said yes...and then it was weird...I've been hanging out with him for about 3 months already or pretty close anyways and I want to kiss him so bad but don't know how to go about doing so cuz all we do is flirt with each other...I want more than flirting i think he does 2.
2007-12-10 04:01:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And when I was hanging out with him this weekend he told me I was sexii.
2007-12-10 04:02:23 · update #1
Yeah but no but yeah but...
When it gets close to midnight, drag him outside and snog him. Job done!
There's no need to complicate these things!
2007-12-10 04:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there you go sexii. He said it himself. Just grab him and plant one on his mouth, and get all the awakerdness and weirdness out of the way one and for all, and get to the reall stuff. I MEAN JUST KISSING AND TALKING, KIND OF A THING OK. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO COPE WITH SCHOOL, ADULTS AND THIS. IT MAY SCREW YOU HEAD, AND YOU MIGHT MAKE A MISTAKE THAT YOU WILL REGRET FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. ITS DIFFERENT FOR A GUY. FOR A GUY IT COULD BE JUST BE A BODY, WITH A GIRL IT IS ALWAYS THE HEART.
I hope your family and his have no problem about this. Cause if they do, it's better to split now!
2007-12-10 12:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by mx. know it all 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy says your attractive, he means it. Also, if he knows you like him, if he liked you at all, that feeling would've increased ten fold... On New Year's, just keep close with him. Maybe when the count down to the ball drop is nearing, look at him with a little smile (preferably looking up a little, it makes a girl irresistable, as the eys look adorable like that...) He should get a little close to you. Just about when the ball drops make sure that his attention is towards you, and when it drops just feel it out... The point for a shy guy (I myself being one of them) is to make it clear that you weren't just being nice or anything in the past, it was genuine and would like to kiss him. He might need that extra push in you simply teling him to kiss you, or partially moving in a bit for it.
Good luck, and don't get too over excited just incase it doesn't work out exactly as you envision it, things should work out by the sound of it.
2007-12-10 12:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the age is a bit different because he can go to the clubs and meet more women while you can't. anyway i think it would be cool to sneak around on new years and not only flirt with one another in front of family members but try kissing each other while they are their. what i mean is kiss one another while you two have a minute alone then go from there
2007-12-10 12:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, there's a lot of flirting here... lol
You still have 20 days to New Years.... and I think a first kiss should be something special, why dont you kiss him before?
Then, when you kiss in New Years it wont be weird in front of all the relatives and stuff....
Maybe you can do it when you guys are spending some nice time together.
Good luck! =)
2007-12-10 12:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by ahmoce1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is so obviously into you! New year is a good time i think. at 12 just hug him close and then look at his lips and if he looks at yours it will sort off happen naturally if not just try telling him you like him and want to be more than just friends! Good Luck Hun, Hope You Have a Really Good New Year..
Lauz....<3*
2007-12-10 12:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kiss him before New Years girl! Just DO IT. Catch him off guard. I know you're shy but you'll feel 1000 times better afterwards, trust me. Then you'll know for sure if he likes you or not.
2007-12-10 12:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by daitheflu99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on your 18th birthday when everyone's gone to bed. Tell him his breath stinks, get under the covers and undressed before he gets back. Uh! you'll figure out the rest from there.
2007-12-10 12:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by trev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up.....stop playing games and ask him where he thinks he would like it to go...or if he would be your date for new years...they ya get your kiss and go from there
2007-12-10 12:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually 21 17 isn't legal so you might want to think about the problems this could lead to
2007-12-10 12:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by christine dakotainky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋