Is divorce or separation the solution to marital crisses?

Answer 1

Apparently 52% of those married think so! LOL

Answer 2

I think separation and marriage counseling should be tried first - especially if children are involved. If that doesn't work, then divorce. The separation is an important part of this - sometimes you have to get away from each other in order to see the problems in the correct perspective and marriage counseling is important because you need a disinterested third party to help you sort things out.

Just remember that bad behavior is generally a sign that there's something else wrong in the marriage and the bad behavior is just reflecting this. The bad behavior will go away if you fix what's wrong in the marriage.

Answer 3

No, not always. Try counselling if you think there is something there worth saving or working on. Marriage counselling does work for some people who are willing to listen with an open mind and work toward a better relationship. If there is abuse going on then separation or divorce might be the only answer. Only you would know. Good luck.

Answer 4

It depends on what the crisis is....
Is there abuse?? Then there most likely needs to be a separation to determine if things can be mended with counseling.
Is there just stress, such as financial or boredom?? Then, no, separation should not be an option. Marriage is about sticking it out in the good and the bad. In the bad, it is just a lot more work. Counseling is suggested!
Again, it all depends on what the crisis is...but Christian counseling is always my advice no matter what is going on.

Best wishes and God Bless you and your family!

Answer 5

No.....If you love each other then you will find a way to work it out without going to drastic measures.....That's why divorce rates are up so high now....INstead of people really taking there vows to heart and sticking with their spouse through thick and thin, the first chance you get, you hit the door running.....Not taking into consideration that you married this person because you love them, nor the children(if chidren are involved)....Remember that even though things maybe going wrong, you can ALWAYS make things RIGHT again..

Answer 6

No, it's not the solution. That would be too easy.

When a couple has a marital crisis that cannot be resolved by open & honest communication, the solution is to seek marital counseling or couples therapy.

Answer 7

It depends on the situation.

Divorce should be an absolute last option. Unless there is abuse involved, there is counseling, the clergy, and just plain being adults and talking things out.

The best way to go about it is to know your intended as well as you can before getting married and not rush into it.

Answer 8

No cause the problem will never get solved- Do everything you can to get to the root of the situation - if someone or both cant change or refuse to change then - maybe divorce- but try and fix it- you come out stronger in the end

Answer 9

indeed it is the right solution for marital crises coz even history proves that nothing survives after a crises...ever imagined that if u continued the marital crises accepting all the facts and loses tommorrow wen u beget children they wud be facing similar consequences of seeing their parents fight, lacking love at home and these children end up havind a depressed future....wen a relationship cant work its better to end it rather than slogging it and execting things to get fine...

Answer 10

It depends what the problem is. If you really love your spouse you should try and work things out. Seek counseling. You are supposed to be forgiving when your married. Everyone makes mistakes even you.

Answer 11

Have you tried marriage counseling or are you just done trying to work it out?
You could have a trial separation and see how that goes.