Woman in her 40's, married to a good guy but lonely, she is very attractive and active her husband is quite boring but handsome. She told me she has become attracted to a 26 year old guy. He told her he would go out with her if she wasn't married, but still notices everything about her. Innocent little immature things. But it only tells me he is watching her. She really loves the thrill and challenge of this whole thing, and as the days go on thats all she talks about. I try to discourage her because of her husband but she boldly told me that she wants to sleep with him.. Needless to say this younger guy is very cute and I can tell he is a good guy because he is trying to fight his attraction, Bottom line I believe he wants her as much as she wants him. How could she just hop into bed with him, how could that even begin to work?
2007-12-10 03:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It won't work as a relationship. If they go for it they will have great sex, based on the fact that it is so taboo.... she will become infactuated with him and wan't him all the time...she will wan't to leave her husband for him and he will say do it... if she does then the 26 year old will grow bored of her once she is all his... he will leave her broken hearted and feeling all alone. Tell her to stop talking to this guy it will ruin her life. If she wan'ts to leave her husband then tell her to do it with dignity, then if the guy still wan'ts her when she is sinlge then go for it.
2007-12-10 04:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This woman is fixated by looks. What comes forth in your question is the element of looks. This woman is loosing her youth and wants to capture it through an affair. NEVER WORKS. Everyday we are getting older. CANT FIGHT IT. She should acknowledge that she has had a nice and fruitful life, a fulfilled marrage and continue from there. She should tell her husband that she finds everything routine and they should try something different - Sky-diving, going to Africa to feed the lions - who cares? but NEVER, EVER indulge in the temptations of the flesh. It leads to death (of the soul, of the relationship, of trust, of self esteem - you name it). The "Kid" will eventually tire and go for another conquest - possibly younger than he. It's the natural order of things. Men go for younger women. I am not saying that you are not sexy or beautiful or anything, but a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. (get it ?)
2007-12-10 11:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by steven a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she doesn't straighten up and be true to her husband or divorce him, that you will tell him what she is doing. She is a horrible person for even thinking of what she is doing, at least while she is still married.
2007-12-10 11:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling the woman you are talking about is...you... if not.... This "woman" is married. Thats it. Nothing should ever happen. You or the "woman" will regret it.
2007-12-10 11:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by jennyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her not to do it. she will be throwing her marriage down the drain. it may help, but then again, it may not. she will end up doing exactly what she wants to do either way.
2007-12-10 12:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business and worry about your own problems.
Good luck.
2007-12-10 11:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋