Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

2007-12-10 03:30:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey My Best Boy Mate Has Just Told Me That He Is In Love With Me And That He Has Been For Many Years. Jay Is So Fit And I Do Love Him To Bits But He Went Out With My Best Mate. I Cant Imagine My Life Without Jay He Is My Everything Please Help Me What Should I Do
Help Needed Ergently
Lv Shakiraxxxx

2007-12-10 03:30:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are getting divorced now because i just couldn't take the way he treated me anymore. he was abusive and controlling and one of the last straws for me was when i caught him trying to photograph me during sex. it made me so mad! so, so , so mad.....(i'm a mother, a teacher, and a very moral person) anyone have any thoughts?

2007-12-10 03:29:33 · 17 answers · asked by philly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls, how do you feel when your boyfriend does this? Do you confront him about it?
Guys, do you get jealous, sad, mad, whatever, when your girlfriend looks at other guys? How do you handle it?
For guys and girls...do you mean anything by it when you do this? Or does it just come naturally and its something you cant help? Do you think this its wrong?

2007-12-10 03:26:48 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...so that i'll get puffy dark eye circles...with the hope that the young cute bears won't be attracted to me anymore???

2007-12-10 03:26:41 · 16 answers · asked by Dark Dickinsonian 4 in Weddings

This girl has sexually harassed me and she knows im not bi or lez. i wish i could tell her but im afraid that she might try to beat me up or something. she also likes my best friend who has a boyfrend and is as straight as a line so can anyones help me. i need 2 know what to do!!

2007-12-10 03:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by Pamela L 1 in Singles & Dating

My bestfreind who is also friends with my ex ...was hanging out with her and i asked him who they were with and he said no one they were just goin to hang out and watch a movie i said okay...but then came to find out that this kid i hate that she is talking to was there with them...and all i wanted was the truth from my best freind. waht do i do

2007-12-10 03:22:27 · 3 answers · asked by newstart7885 1 in Friends

I just met a guy online and had sex with him...he is the cutest guy I ever met...he has this great smile and can kill any gals...problem is I dont think he will like to see me again....
Should I just wait for him to sms me again...or I should make the move or take the chance...will this seems desperate?

2007-12-10 03:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by DoubtInLove 1 in Singles & Dating

If she don't know by now shouldn't that say something about their marriage

2007-12-10 03:21:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

now what my young friend found out i was wrighting about her now she dosent want any thing to do with me .... she was younger than me and i was quite older ... do i just start over ???? help....

2007-12-10 03:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since it's the school hols now, i hv resisted all contact with him. When we are both online, i won't initiate conversation with him. I will think of him from time to time. how??? i want to get him out of my mind.

2007-12-10 03:20:11 · 3 answers · asked by Pearl 3 in Singles & Dating

What are you hoping the New Year will bring to you....

I am looking for a step up my carear path and to move in with my partner.....

2007-12-10 03:19:26 · 14 answers · asked by little kitty 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I came across a word document on my hubby's computer and it was a letter he wrote to his exwife when they were seperated. (We have been married for 5 months now.) It was a beautiful desperate letter with him voicing his undying love for her and how desperately he wanted their marriage to last. It did end in divorce after he confirmed her infidelity and he started dating me a year later. I cannot seem to get past the beautiful words in this letter and feel as though he does not have that same kind of love for me. He says that he loves me more than he has ever loved any woman and that letter was written in desperation and means nothing now. How do I get over these feelings of inadequacy and insecurity?

2007-12-10 03:18:24 · 29 answers · asked by LLC72267 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 03:16:53 · 8 answers · asked by foot_crampmassage 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been told that when a man truly loves a woman...his attitude toward sex changes.

Do you think thats true?

Do you think the best sex comes from being deeply in love?

2007-12-10 03:16:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So this past friday things where abruptly broken up between us because she said she just lost feelings, and was very confused, and didnt know who she was, I was in shock, now on saturday she calls me and we talk and at the end of the call she says "I love you". Sunday in the morning, same thing as saturday we talk and everything seems like it might be ok, she doesnt call me later but I see her online and shes deleting all of are pics off photobucket/myspace, and says her "friends" are what she needs, these are the same friends who caused her to drink and hate life before. So I call her and shes says its over get it through your head and also says some very hurtful things. Later that night she calls me and says shes sorry for saying those hurtful things and that shes just very cofused, and says she loves me. Now this is killing me inside, because i love her more then anything so everytime she calls it gives me hope. but i think thats hurting more then just cutting it right now, help????

2007-12-10 03:15:32 · 16 answers · asked by Mars 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex goes mean when he sees me with someone else he always calls me and tell me im his only and that i cant be with no other guy.WHY DOES HE DO DAT?????

2007-12-10 03:14:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime i close my eyes
I can feel you i feel you by my side
Never seen in you in my life
Yet your love i can feel inside
Everytime i see your smile
My black heart is filled light
I never felt anything like this
At that moment everything feels just right
Everytime i need you with me
You are always there in my mind
I barely even know you
But i promise you that you i will find
Evertime i hear you laughing
I feel like i've gone to heaven and back
The sound of your voice reassures me
And I know there is nothing i lack
Everytime i look into your eyes
My heart knows not to lie
I cannot bear to see your cry
My love for you will never die
I don't know why i love you so much
I don't know why i pine for you
I don't know why i always seek you
But i do know the you feel it too
All i want is to finally meet you
So i can share with you all of my life
In my arms i want to hold you and kiss you
I wish and pray that you and only you will always be my wife

2007-12-10 03:14:42 · 4 answers · asked by blackwingedangel9 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 03:14:28 · 15 answers · asked by Jamakineornay R 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate my mom .Why? Because it's a never ending battle of aguments ..Nothing I do is right. It;s never good enough for her and she goes to the extreme with punishments and (becuase we have help from our "case workers") when she tell stories I swear she makes it sound 10 times worse then it really is... and my brother could get away with murder..yes I know he younger so i knwo that ordeal but its ridiculious..If i forget to undload the dishwasher I get my phoen taken away.... but GOD FORBID that brother even do chores..he never gets chores..and when he gets a very small easy task he whines about until I end up doing it any way..she won't listen to me about it being fair and she complains that we never do chores unless its a punishment or were brided but its not like I can go out and hangout with my friends ever. They always have to come over to my house because I am obvious gonna do something wrong..my mom has serious issues with trusting me..if I screw up even a little bit. Help plz!

2007-12-10 03:14:09 · 11 answers · asked by scarred_soul_princess 2 in Family

i mean, if you loved her and she was a wonderful person, would you look past her appearance?

2007-12-10 03:12:19 · 6 answers · asked by JJ191 1 in Singles & Dating

i love him so much but caught him cheating so many times i am sad and depresserd

2007-12-10 03:11:06 · 14 answers · asked by Brandie W 1 in Singles & Dating

Last Christmas I gave my sister in law some very nice things from Bath and Body Works. It was until just recently I saw the same items that I gave her in my other sister in laws house when I went to visit one day. Turns out she regifted my gift and gave it to her sister (my other sister in law). I'm extremely hurt and am offended she didn't tell me she didn't like the gift. I'm hesistant about getting her a gift this year and would really like to know how to handle the situation. Do I confront her or not? Please help! Thanks.

2007-12-10 03:10:45 · 15 answers · asked by Shortie Cake 2 in Family

I like this guy who is so attractive. I mean I really like him. He is everything I want in a man. an actor, singer, drum major, instrumental, and he is just all around talented. The only problem is that I am lack and he is white. He lives in an all white town. When I went to his play this weekend I was the only ethnic person there. I really like him and I think he likes me too. what should I do? Should I confront him or not?

2007-12-10 03:09:04 · 42 answers · asked by She can't love you! 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends got involved in a fight sat night and i was trying 2 stop the in the end i got involved in the fight and my boyfriend aswell because he tried 2 stop me, so now wwe are all going 2 court and its my fault my boyfriend is to, not only that his friend died the next day and he is in bits, i dont know what to do or say? and i feel so quilty.... what should i do?

2007-12-10 03:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by J 1 in Friends

nice, friendly likable, all that good stuff, then has a history of stealing cars, stealing from friends, cheating on his ex, left his ex with a 500 dollar hotel bill, lies to girls to get sex, can be very violent if necessary. does it make him even more dangerous if he is handsome?

2007-12-10 03:06:16 · 22 answers · asked by Tim M 1 in Singles & Dating

He had the affair after we were married over 23 yrs. With my youngest sons wife.I want to do the right thing.both my sons miss trust him .Its been 2 yrs and im still having nightmares, that hes cheating on me.My son got divorced right away.the affair went on for 2 yrs.my husband always told them to work at thier marrages and to be faithful. I find it hard to trust him, the dreams keep upsetting me.hes a hard man to live with ,I love him, But hes changed alot .I know he would never have told me. My sons ex told me .The 3 of us got together, it was then my husband admitted to it.he still says he dont know why he did it.and that im choosing to have the dreams.he says hes glad she didnt get pregnant. I believe in better for worse but I may lose my sanity. ANY ADVISE HELP PLEASE.

2007-12-10 03:04:39 · 26 answers · asked by undercover angel 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfreind and I have a joint account, we are planning on getting married. His ex called and asked for money to buy Dylon christmas gifts, She has been remarried and divorced she has another son with anonther man and this boy is physcally handycapped my boyfreind told me that she can't get a job because this boy is handycapped. But I have come to find out that the boy is always at her freinds house, which is my boyfreinds sister. While she goes out and does whatever and not working. My boyfreinds son doen't even live with her he lives with her mother in another city. So she is getting Child support for both boys and disabilty for the one boy and doesn't work. I myself can say No or Yes to this Question, So what do I do? The thing that upset me the most is we were out the other night and we ran into his ex, so it is hard to say yes when she was out partying. But I can't say no because Dustin owes he a little of back child support. So what do I Do?

2007-12-10 03:02:54 · 14 answers · asked by Gillian F 1 in Family

the crazy, silly, partying type, tall/short hott girl with blonde hair?

or the short, petite, laid-back, caring beautiful girl with brunette hair?

2007-12-10 03:02:03 · 25 answers · asked by rosey. 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a relationship with this GREAT woman thats younger than me by 5+ years for almost 2 years. Shes smart, she attend Northwestern University Grad school. shes funny and more importantly shes CHRISTIAN. I'm currently in the army reserves stationed in Iraq for most of our relationship. I'm coming home for 2 weeks for vacation then I go back. My family HATES her and send her emails and phone calls threaten her to stay away because they think she's a golddigger. personally I dont think she is but I have been paying her bills like rent and utilty bills which isnt cheap in Evanston IL. I'm very close to my family I have 5 sisters and 4 brothers all older then me. I love my family and I respect their opinion about things. She tells me I should check them about what they are doing to her. I have in small ways but how do you tell your bros- sisters. thats old enough to be your mom and dad to back off? or are they right to be concerned?

2007-12-10 03:01:15 · 4 answers · asked by CONFUSSED 2 in Family