i love him so much but caught him cheating so many times i am sad and depresserd
2007-12-10 03:11:06 · 14 answers · asked by Brandie W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him and take your baby with you. One day when he's at work, pack up all your stuff and be gone before he gets home.
2007-12-10 03:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 years is a lot of investment plus you have a kid. i will not make any drastic move. i will sit down and rethink the whole thing you are the only one that can determine if he deserves a second chance or not, do you think this has anything to do with the state of your relationship? i.e do you think he has any reason to cheat?.
he made a mistake, i think. which could happen to any one. i would sit down and have serious one on one with him, based on the out come of your talk then choose your next move.
good luck
2007-12-10 03:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by out of control 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't have any trust in your relationship. If he is a good father to his kid as I hope he is, I suggest a spit. you go your way and he go his. Ask for an agreed parenting order so that you both can do what's best for you child. I hate to see things like this happen, the kids are always the one's to suffer the most.
2007-12-10 03:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by w_woody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him why would you love someone that hurts you all the time. There are better guys out there that would treat you and your child like gold. Hunny empower yourself and get some self confidence and esteem that is no way to live.
2007-12-10 03:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by tonice248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly depress then you need to realise that the relationship is not healthy.
You say you have caught him so many times, ya know he only does it because he knows he can get away with it. Get away with it in the sense you will forgive him.
Sorry sweety I know easier said than done but you need to walk away.
2007-12-10 03:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a sad state of affairs, but he doesn't love you, and even though you love him, one-way love just isn't enough. Make a clean break, and do something positive for yourself and your child. Self respect is a very worthwhile pursuit.
2007-12-10 03:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!
You're child can still see him if you want that is up to you and a different matter, but don't let this have to happen again so leave him! I can not stress enough for you to let him go darling
2007-12-10 03:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its easier said than done, but you need to talk with him, and then let him know that you are fed up with his behaviour and you want out, explain that you both have a child to consider and he/she must come first. you deserve so much better than this, and if you give yourself the chance you will be able to have it. good luck
2007-12-10 03:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Loli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Apparently he doesn't love you as much as you love him. Find someone who loves both you and your child.
2007-12-10 03:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him totally!!!!! He obviously doesnt care for you as much as you do for him...Leave him and things will be better.
I know you love him and it will be hard for you...but it is for the best for you and your child.
2007-12-10 03:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by smiliechicka22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋