I've been told that when a man truly loves a woman...his attitude toward sex changes.
Do you think thats true?
Do you think the best sex comes from being deeply in love?
2007-12-10 03:16:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it might come from being deep but i am not sure about the love thing
2007-12-10 03:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Yes it does in that he gets more emotionally involved
The best way i know how to explain it is that when he's not in love with someone it's more of a conquest knotch in the belt gratification type thing
But when he's truly in love with the person there's more involved he gets more emotionally involved than he would be if it was a one night stand or just a casual fling type deal
It's hard to explain but it's just different when the sex is with someone you truly love as opposed to someone you really have no feelings towards
Hope this helps
2007-12-10 03:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by rebel_angel031 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the best sex definitely comes from being deeply in love.
2007-12-10 03:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by God is Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are alot of people in love, and their sex is bad. I believe if a man actually knows what he is doing, sex can be a wonderful thing. Alot of men think they are the best, when they usually finish before the woman gets her motor going. And don't tell him because his feelings will be crushed. You need to tell him how you want it or he will not "Get it" Love has nothing to do with it.
2007-12-10 03:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it goes for both genders. Best sex from deep love, YES. I think part of it is cause when we (peeps in general) have sex it’s because we are just physically attracted to that person, men think dang that girl has a*s & t*ts and nice legs and women do the same about men so sex with that person is just sex, it’s like “ok that was good sex” But when you LOVE that person, and I mean love EVERYTHING about this woman or man, not just his/her pretty face & body sex is just different. It’s so hard to explain but I guess peeps know when it’s sex with LOVE.
2007-12-10 03:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by littlebotas17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the best sex comes from unbridled lust.
Time and familiarity change a mans attitude toward sex.
that doesn't mean that sex gets bad it just gets different with deep love and time.
2007-12-10 03:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on people. Actually some guys and women have more fun when they have sex with someone they don't love. Probably because they don't do the things they enjoy with the person they love (of emberassment) and get more excited with a stranger. I think it's stupid, but that's what some people think and do.
Best sex I think comes when you seperate your emotions and bedroom. Soft romantic sex is great but sex is actually about animal instincts. (why do you think most of us LOVE having sex after a fight?)
2007-12-10 03:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the connection that's really important, not the orgasm. You can have those on your own. Sex is never so good as when two people truely love each other. It becomes 99% emotion, and that far surpasses merely physical.
Guys like to plant their flag on many new continents, but that is very shallow, and the greatest explorer will never stray when he finds the girl of his dreams...
2007-12-10 03:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Bramst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex without love. Some men just want to show their prowess as males. Some just want to,'hit it' because they are horny. Women too. But, the best sex is when you are in love and you have a Master Teacher to share the heights and depth of your love for each other.
2007-12-10 03:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes having sex when truly in love is way better and it isn't all about the feeling of sex it is about the intmacy that just you two get to share it is truly a beautiful thing when you are in love.
KW
2007-12-10 03:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when two people are deepy in love, they take more care, I think obviously they know about the consequences, but they dont want anything to happen to their partner..
So Yes, but to your answer I think the best sex does come from being deep in love, due to you already thinking about the person at the time, it can only get better
xx
2007-12-10 03:20:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋