If she don't know by now shouldn't that say something about their marriage
2007-12-10 03:21:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
More than likely she has a feeling. As women we all have some feeling of what's going on. But you shouldn't be wondering what it says about their marriage. You should be wondering what sleeping with a married man says about you.
2007-12-10 03:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
What a ridiculous question!
I'm sorry to be blunt, but why do you even care? If you're that concerned, you should go to their house and tell her you're sleeping with her husband to her face.
I'm sure that at some level she does know. If she does or doesn't, you're still having sex with her husband and it doesn't seem like you're going to change it.
It may not say something about their marriage, but it says volumes about the character of the man you're having sex with.
Take a moment or two to think about how you'd feel if you were his wife and not his mistress.
2007-12-10 03:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It says that he's gone over and beyond in keeping her from knowing because he has no intentions of ever leaving her for you so that means all you are is a booty call.
if she does know it can mean she's willing to look the other way so she can continue to be his wife, and he's content with it cause he can have both his mistress and his wife, whether he still sleeping with the wife or not, which means you're still a booty call.
if she knows it means he's done this before and she's willing to look the other way because you're just one of many....he may have more than just you on the side...which means all you are is still a booty call.
and it also means you are seriously lacking in both self-repect and morals. So is the hubby. Not the wife because she is not cheating and has all the legal/moral rights to his bed/assets because they are married.
It means you are a big Fool. Wise up.
2007-12-10 03:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, she probably knows. It's hard to cheat for 3 years and not leave some kind of signals. What should be said about their marriage is: She is living in a beautiful home with a full checkbook and driving a new car. You are sneaking around and staying as sleazy hotels with her husband. Who has the best deal here? Ask him what he is buying her for Christmas?
2007-12-10 03:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking if you think their marriage is bad and he might leave her ... odds are probably not.
She may have an idea but has not been able to find the proof yet. Women know when something is wrong but it depends on the person on how they handle it.
Honestly I think you should try to find someone who will be only yours ... you deserve to be with someone who can care for you and be there for you and only you!! This man does not respect you and he will never be with just you ... sorry to be so harsh but it's the truth. Three years of cheating on his wife with you does not speak very highly of him. He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too and please please please try to see that! I know you probably fell for him and I am willing to bet he tells you he loves you but he just can not leave his family right now ... but he will but when the time is right!!
Put a little faith in yourself and leave him while you still can ... and remember that if he cheated on his wife ... he will cheat on you!
2007-12-10 03:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you sleep with this man when you know that he is married? Stop ruining a marriage! Oh and tell that guy that he needs marriage counceling cause he's ******* up his marriage up!!!
2007-12-10 03:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by shy girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nobody but her knows if she knows. Speculations and hypothesis are not valid.
This question should not be important for you at all unless you think that the wife can come after you and kill you.
You should ask yourself instead if being no. 2 is a good thing for you and if you don't want a better life than that.
2007-12-10 03:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by marazul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even care?!
An old saying "What goes around comes around" .. meaning you are doing something mean to his wife .. meaning something bad will come around to you (and him) but not talking with him at the moment...
Get your self esteem and class back and go for someone worthy of you .. clean your act up and dump that man with pride .. don't lower your standards ..
I know everyone is judging you here, but ignore that and get yourself happy and with a many worthy of you!
Good Luck!
2007-12-10 03:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she knows. She's either planning a decisive retaliatory action, is too forlorn to address this issue, or is cheating on him. One thing is certain, she knows. She's probably been informed from others who also know about this. People who are in a secret sexual relationship always slip up which allows others to witness their betrayal. This leaves room for others to advise his wife who either dislike him or just think what he's doing is wrong.
2007-12-10 03:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by namedr0ps 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care whether or not she knows!!
You are deliberately out to hurt this woman more than you already have?? Please, get some self-respect and end it with this guy and vow never to get involved with a married man again. You are fooling around with something sacred...not a good thing!!
2007-12-10 03:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by judithia 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋