Family & Relationships - 10 December 2007

My step-brother is being really mean.. I put "Audrey Hepburn" on my myspace an he started saying i didnt know she was and said i needed to be original..... Im so feed up with his ****!! I dont know what to do? And its not just that we have had some other conflicts in the past and iv had conflicts with his girlfriend...... I love him and i dont want to stop talking to him but thats what he is causing me to do.... Please HELP!!!!!

2007-12-10 05:14:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-10 05:13:45 · 12 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 05:13:37 · 8 answers · asked by mitymite73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
my gf is 24 years old and well the way she acts is like a baby. For example, her parents always cook her food and when they finish they call her to eat. And if she doesn't like the food she'll be like pissed at them for not cooking the right food.
What are the ways that I can do to make her do influence to realized that she's an adult now. by the way. Her parents have been treating her like a baby and well I don't want to feel like i have a baby girlfriend. How would I help her to grow up ? Thanks

2007-12-10 05:13:16 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty open about wanting to please my wife in the sack, and never had complaints from any LTR prior to being married. We have no kids, share housework, etc. We do have frequent sex, but its always like this on her part.....

5 mins or less of foreplay
no kissing
turns head to the side
lays there until its over with

She doesn't let me do anything to turn her on, and won't tell me what she wants me to do to please her. But she'll have sex 5x a week, but its like I'm with a blow up doll. No excitement or anything.

Is this whacked out or what? I know compared to some guys around here who get no sex I have it good, but how long can someone go on with what feels like a loveless situation?

Any advice would be great.

2007-12-10 05:11:22 · 60 answers · asked by Robert H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hear from people all the time telling me im wrong for living with my guy before we are married.

We have a lot of friends that lived together first and then got married. I think it is pretty common now.

Who the negativity and judgment?

2007-12-10 05:11:10 · 16 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been seriously dating this guy for 8 years and we have been thru some very rough times. We are both addicts and I'm also an alcoholic and just when I start doing well, I screw up. I've been very depressed and bored lately and I haven't been able to see my bf much 'cause he moved back home to TRY to stay clean. We both got very drunk last night at his friend's house. I remember him being physically and verbally abusive. I have black and blue marks all over my body and a huge open gash on my back. I do remember hitting him hard but I know it was because he hurt me. He claims I hit him first but he is way stronger than me. That's not even the worst. I was dancing and he pulled down my bra and showed his friend's my breasts. He informed this morning because I blacked out that I had sex with him and his friend at the same time and the "threesome" was all my idea. I know I can get kinda horny when I drink and HE KNOWS THIS! Shouldn't he have stopped me? (Continued)

2007-12-10 05:10:17 · 9 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex. is “giving” his visitation rights to his parents. He says is living with his parents. But he hardly sees my son. Grandpa is picking the kid up at the airport and taking him back. Now Grandpa is suing for custody… they don’t have any grounds. They just try to make me expend the little money I have. Is there any legal way to avoid the grandparent’s visitation?
If anybody had a similar experience and knows how to stop it. Before I let them visit every weekend. But know that they are suing me for custody I don’t want them to see my kid if his father is not present. They are making my life very difficult.
I would like ideas how to present the case to a judge.

2007-12-10 05:10:17 · 6 answers · asked by redpatton 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 28 and have been divorced for almost 3 years now, and he really likes my boyfriend. As explained in one of my previous questions, I am terrified to marry right away because I am afraid of repeating what happened last time. I just don't think I am ready. My Dad thinks if I wait too long that we are going to have illegitimate children (we practice safe sex, so not too likely). How do I calm his fears about me getting stuck raising another kid by myself (I already have an 8 yr old from my previous marriage and his father helps me to raise him, and is in his life)?

2007-12-10 05:10:16 · 8 answers · asked by bonstermonster20 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and no im talking about his private..

im 5'7 and about 155 lbs.... i weigh considerably less than i use to considering im preparing for examination and taking adderall.. (side effect is weight loss) as a result i dont work out nemore because the medication doesnt realli seem allow my body to gain weight...

obviously i cant do nething about my height.... however since my weight loss ive noticed much less attention from females...

i figure it is natural for a woman to want a guy decently taller and bigger than her... now that i am considerbly smaller weight wise and i am short... i personally think it as double negative now....
i still get dates and women... but i notice that taller women seem to never be interested?

do u think it matters that much? or do u think its cuz i lack confidence in trying to tlk to taller women? like its some kind of mental thing...
anyway how big of deal is height and weight to you personally?
and how big of deal is it to MOST women?

2007-12-10 05:07:56 · 7 answers · asked by Derek 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife have been separated for about 9 months now and we have a 2 year old child together. As soon as she found out about a new girlfriend of mine, she layed down ground rules in regards to introducing her to our daughter. Basically she said that unless we are married of I've given her some kida of commitment/engagment promise, introducing her to our daughter was forbidden. A few months later she met a guy at a club. He is 22 (she is 27) and she started officially dating him about a month or so ago and since then, she has already introduced him and she emphazises to me how they go out and do things together with our daughter.

I just want to hear someones opinion/expericence in regards to this. Am I justified in feeling uneasy and jealous about this? Should I even bother expressing to her my feelings? I feel she is very hypocritical (my new GF still hasn't met her) and I don't like the thought of some young guy being used as a 'fill-in' father when I'm not there.

2007-12-10 05:07:10 · 17 answers · asked by Josh 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 in March and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year. I am madly in love and we have wonderful times together. He is 22 years old. We both share the same beliefs on Jesus Christ and God. He is a hard working man and has his own house, car, and plenty of money. I'm starting college in January but would like to know if I should get engaged on my 18th birthday and get married a year or two later? Or should I just wait and get engaged after college?

2007-12-10 05:05:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are not very close. I would like to get them a gift card from Target. How much would be an appropriate amount? I prefer to err on the side of generous.... but I'd rather know what the standard is? Thanks!

2007-12-10 05:05:22 · 11 answers · asked by Meesh 2 in Weddings

2007-12-10 05:05:09 · 19 answers · asked by Pisces1970 1 in Weddings

2007-12-10 05:04:05 · 10 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

2007-12-10 05:02:58 · 13 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Marriage & Divorce

because i have no ideas what to say on the x mas cards even iam going make one for my sweetness neighbors whom been so kinds to us past two years . they are both young married couples who doesnt have children yet. so i need some ideas what to write .

2007-12-10 05:02:18 · 9 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Friends

my husband's daughter is 24 years old, out of the house for almost 4 years, and living with her boyfriend for 2 years. Been planning a wedding that has been postponed a couple times.....and still planning a wedding in 2008. She's asking for money......what should a parent do

2007-12-10 04:59:22 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do you like curvy girls or do you prefer thin

2007-12-10 04:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hang in there honey, I promise it will be OK whatever it is.... Talk to you in just a couple of hours sweet girl..

SIDE NOTE: TFP Alert.

Retahds, stay away from this one please. I will post some other question where you can exercise your "people skills" (and I use the term very loosely)

2007-12-10 04:57:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all, I work the Night Shift. And sometimes it gets slow, boring and drowsy. A coffee is just not enough sometimes to stay awake, so I had this discussion with a Female co worker of mine on whats a good trick to stay awake? She jokingly suggested that she would sometimes relieve herself sexually in the Ladies Room and that would do it for her! I work in the Nursing Field so nothing is sacred to us. I never thought that there are women out there who would actually do it in their work place. I would just like to know how many women actually relieve themselves sexually outside the privacy of their own homes? On top of it she's a Married woman too.

2007-12-10 04:54:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my step dad is talking to this 24 year old girl who lives in UK.. he bought that girl a bottle of perfume... she got him mad so he didnt send it to her... so he gave it to my mom... anyways he calls my mom a ***** and he tells her that everything is her fault... i can tell she wants to leave him but she has a kid with him.... she crys evernight... i wanna take her to cali with me.. well anyways.. last night we were watching REAL HOUSEWIVES OF OC and he comes in and started yelling at her cuz she was spending time with me and he wanted to get a christmas tree... so my mom got up and told him lets go to get ther christmas tree.. he said its too late.. then he told her why dont you go to california and spend it with your stupid *** family with your stupid *** daughter... i got up off of the couch to jump his *** but my mom pushed me back... then when he turned around i walked behind him and pushed him then he punched me in the face... my mom doesnt know what to do please help....
thank u

2007-12-10 04:53:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She is okay with the friends thing, keep communication but doesn't want to meet up with me right now, we just broke up one week ago, her decision.

She wants be friends, start from the beginning, and takes things slow.. i guess she wants space, but the sign tells me that she doesn't want to do anything with me anymore.

how can i get her back?
what should i do?
is this the end?

2007-12-10 04:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you had a choice, would you kill yourself so that your family could live ?

2007-12-10 04:52:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Being in a long time commite relationship, or being married?

If you believe that marriage is important, explain why and don't preach the Christian BS, because I don't buy it.

If you believe just being in a commited relationship, explain why?

2007-12-10 04:50:47 · 14 answers · asked by anarchy0029 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-10 04:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by me myself & i.... 4 in Marriage & Divorce

lately our relationship has been hard to cope with. I cry almost every day, we argue constantly over pointless things,we have almost completely lost our love life, we lash out at eachother in anger and sometimes it becomes physical.But I feel like after 5 years of being toghether,having an 18 month old son, and currently planning our wedding.Splitting isn't an option. Im always depressed. I want love. I need love.but i can't get it from him.I have a friend whom i've known just as long, but lately i haven't been as social with him because im always upset and i dont want him to see me like this. but ive been talking to him and thinking about how much i really care about him and i know he feels the same for me.but hes moved on and is dating someone and has been for a while. he knew i would stay with who im with no matter what.but im realizing my feelings for him more and more each day. i see him with her and it tears my heart out to see how happy they are.I want him, but should I.

2007-12-10 04:48:15 · 85 answers · asked by Brittany W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-10 04:48:12 · 12 answers · asked by Incognito 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe that living together prior to marriage "living in SIN" ruins your marriage and this is one of the underlying reasons there's so many divorces, confusion, and abuse in relationships???? I recently separated from hubby. We lived together prior to marriage and our church constantly told us NOT to do it because it was mocking GOD.

2007-12-10 04:47:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This girl at work keeps inviting us to go places or do things with her. She's a nice girl but has some SERIOUS hygiene issues. I find that keep getting pressued into saying Yes. Eventually I come up with a plausible excuse and cancel.

Yet again I've found myself in the same situation. She wants us to come to her house & have dinner w/ her folks. What do I do? I'm running out of excuses. It's not that I can't go, it's that I don't want to b/c I know that her house is filthy and that she has horrible hygiene.

1. How do I get out of this situation?
2. How can I stop agreeing to things I dont want to do?
3. Is there a way to get her to stop asking me to do things in the future?

Please note that I want to keep on friendly terms...at work.

2007-12-10 04:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by Corn_Flake 6 in Friends