and no im talking about his private..
im 5'7 and about 155 lbs.... i weigh considerably less than i use to considering im preparing for examination and taking adderall.. (side effect is weight loss) as a result i dont work out nemore because the medication doesnt realli seem allow my body to gain weight...
obviously i cant do nething about my height.... however since my weight loss ive noticed much less attention from females...
i figure it is natural for a woman to want a guy decently taller and bigger than her... now that i am considerbly smaller weight wise and i am short... i personally think it as double negative now....
i still get dates and women... but i notice that taller women seem to never be interested?
do u think it matters that much? or do u think its cuz i lack confidence in trying to tlk to taller women? like its some kind of mental thing...
anyway how big of deal is height and weight to you personally?
and how big of deal is it to MOST women?
2007-12-10 05:07:56 · 7 answers · asked by Derek 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so far all of u have good answers..even the 1st answer at least shes being honest... as for my weight... im 155 right now..when i dont take it... im about 175... which on me looks pretty buff cuz my body frame is somewut small if u get what im saying.....
2007-12-10 06:37:05 · update #1
Well, I don't think height matters much. I think taller guys are cool, and shorter guys can be cute. It shouldn't matter, if I like their personality. Weight...I don't think you are THAT smaller. I think you are normal. Don't worry so much. Anyhow, I think 5'7 is a tall height, even if it doesn't seem like it for you.
How big of a deal is it to most woman? That depends on how shallow they are. If they aren't, they wouldn't make much of a deal on it. If they were, then you'd have to be muscular, tall, and handsome. Which, these days, I don't think that much woman think like that anymore.
2007-12-10 05:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Nina is here! :D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude.. i know where ur comming from but i believe that the reason y ur getting less attention from females now is b/c ur being insecure about it and ur body language will tell them that...if u know how to create attrcation with a women then ur hight honestly wont even matter...even the girl who answere first u have a chance with if u create " attrcation" there are things that ppl prefure but attrcation is not a choice and if ur short ( even though i think ur not that short for it to be an issue) and create that attraction it wont matter...i think this is more so something that u are maming a big deal out of and that is what turns them off...women are honestly 10 times better at reading body language then men so think about it...just go have fun and dont worry about meeting chicks cuz i noticed the more that that becomes ur objective me more u are likely to fail...but this is just my advice...good luck and i hope u find ur innesr self and forget the rest...PEACE
2007-12-10 13:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Height is not that big of a deal; I'm 5'6 so you're still taller than me. Weight, however, is another issue. I'm an oddball in that I want a heavy guy - skinny men need not apply. I wouldn't dismiss a skinny guy just because my preference is to have one who is larger, but I wouldn't look twice because it's not something I find attractive. (I don't like skinny people in general, lol.) I'm sorry that it's a result of your medication; it's certainly not fair to you.
Your issue probably has to do with you lacking confidence more than anything. Women just want to be adored; it doesn't really matter what he looks like, as long as he's attractive to her.
2007-12-10 13:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think 5'7 is a good height for guys. and i would prefer someone who is in shape (as it sounds like you are) to someone who is overweight. but then you still outweigh me by a LOT so maybe how much less you weigh now is off-putting to larger women.
2007-12-10 14:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the guy's confident with his height and weight, that's all that matters to me.
2007-12-10 13:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by plentyofmoxie84 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a lot...... I will not date anyone who is not at least a couple inches taller than me....
security is my issue....and I just feel more secure with a taller guy.
2007-12-10 13:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by My Sharona 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i like a guy to be a LITTLE bit taller and thicker. it makes me feel like he could protect me and i feel safe when he holds me
2007-12-10 13:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by dimples1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋