2007-12-10 04:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by me myself & i.... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey you here is my opinion
1) You cannot be open about your insecurities to them and often replied by insensitiveness the first time you tell them
2) You feel your life is a burden and you are doing things for him because its a must instead of something you have to do
3) You cannot connect in an emotional level,
4) every couple goes thru fights to find their place in the relationships but if the fights about small things and the other partner is not willing to let go then it will be a problem
5) You begin to wonder about what you could have been without him or her, you begin to wonder about past love and how life would have been if you are married with that person
6) You both will start to do things on your own, such as things that you both enjoyed together seems not fun anymore
7) You will argue over responsibilty over kids or bills frequantly, every couple`s have this but its not frequant as once in a week
8) You start to fancy other ppl during sex, or even in your fantasies
9) Meeting the family of your spouse becomes more and more like a stage show and sometimes you become to hate them a little
10) You feel akward being with your spouse and wonder a lot of what he is thinking or she is thinking, or you will start to think what will he or she will think if i do this
Ok this is all my opinion, i wish you will get better, and i really hope the relationship works out for you, please dont take my opinion as black and white, remember you are the solely responsible for your life and happiness, i really wish i told you the right thing, good luck
Not bad for a notty guy eh ?
2007-12-10 06:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritual Player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you don't have any loving feelings left for them.
When the relationship becomes abusive.
When you become afraid of them.
When they start taking advantage of you or exploiting you.
When they only bring out the worst in you or the bad and make you sad. You feel trapped and helpless.
When the bonds are broken and there just isn't anything left but emptiness.
2007-12-10 12:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it gets to a point where one of you is unhappy and you don't want to put forth the effort to try and make it work. You have reached the end of the road.
2007-12-10 12:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by b4isayyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you wonder what the signs of coming to the end of the road is.
2007-12-10 12:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by KJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When one person needs to make efforts to be with the other and the other keeps distance like not answering the phone. When one needs more and more time alone than before. When one person needs "space", and one that basically doesn't give error margins and is basically the most clear message when one needs to "find herself" / "find himself".
2007-12-10 12:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the trust is gone and the communication went with it. You've tried countless times to keep it together and it's just no use. If it can't be salvageable then there's nothing left.
2007-12-10 13:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is supposed to be for life, for better or for worse.
2007-12-10 12:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by bornagainbrat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can't look them in the eye.
2007-12-10 13:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by cooter726 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will better not being with them then you do when you are with them. like they say you can be miserable all by your self.. you dont need some one to help you
2007-12-10 12:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by me_myself 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you discover that you are telling yourself lies.
Good luck.
2007-12-10 12:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋