2007-12-10 05:13:45 · 12 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is okay with the friends thing, keep communication but doesn't want to meet up with me right now, we just broke up one week ago.
She wants be friends, start from the beginning, and takes things slow.. i guess she wants space, but the sign tells me that she doesn't want to do anything with me anymore.
how can i get her back?
what should i do?
is this the end?
2007-12-10 05:14:26 · update #1
To keep your sanity I would reccomend that you treat it like it is the end. Then, if things progress back towards a relationship you will be happy. You must let go, or crazy you will go.
Yoda out
2007-12-10 05:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she wants is to have her cake and eat it too.
That means she wants her devoted slave (you) and to play the field (sleep around) as she sees fit.
That's immature, cruel and selfish of her.
Why on earth do you want such a person in your life is beyond me. You deserve better.
I know it's only been a week - and you're more than generous for allowing the "friends" thing - but sooner or later (preferably sooner) you will have to come to the conclusion that it's over and should stay that way. The sooner you do this - the healthier it will be for you.
So don't answer her calls, emails or texts. Just move on - hopefully to a nice girl who deserves a great guy like you.
That's how you get back at your ex - live a happy life filled with love - for someone else.
2007-12-10 05:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her come back she either will or she won't. But you can choose to whether you'll be there if and when she does.
Things obviously got bad enough for her to want to end things so give her space and let her decide what she wants. If you really care you'll give that to her. Maybe try to fix what was broken between you two.
2007-12-10 05:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by CrazyH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have her space. If you push for more before she is ready then you are only going to push her away.Give it time, if you still want to be in her life then be friends with her. Also don't call her all the time and try not to get involved in her personal life in less she ask you for your opinion.
2007-12-10 05:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol time table dates! i'm completely intense. like set up dates with each and each guy that asks you out and come to a decision later in case you enjoyed any of them. it will save issues under administration, and not finished chaos
2016-10-02 08:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by te 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, give her time. it must have been a bad break up. if she wants to remain friends, then just be friends for now. time will tell if it is meant for you guys to get back together.
2007-12-10 05:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by ==cj== 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your own signs and let her know it's over. Don't allow yourself to even be dragged through this.
2007-12-10 05:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do now is just wait and see what happens...cuz if you keep insistinq that you want her...then its qonna push her away further and further...you know what i mean???...qirls dont like when you insist or persist..just hold on a little while lonqer..
2007-12-10 06:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by "LiL.ROCkY" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me
just dont even talk to her
if she doesnt want you, than ur saving urself the embarrassment
and if she does want u back
she'll realize that she misses you
2007-12-10 05:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by dashznt1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Yoda is incredibly intelligent and you should pay attention to what he wrote to you.
2007-12-10 05:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋