Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

My stepson is 22 years old and he is using "cat" and heroin & he is influencing my own youngest son of 17 years old. We tried to put the eldest into rehab but he won't go at all!!

2007-12-06 23:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Family

What does it mean when they say a girl isn't hot?

2007-12-06 23:54:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will you please say a prayer for a friend of mine.He has anger problems, and is difficult to deal with most of the time. Help him to find peace with himself and others.This question is listed in the religious category, but he needs all the prayers he can get.

2007-12-06 23:53:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Not much to say really, we organised to meet and bus into town, I went to the stop and waited there for close to half hour and went home. Turns out they left without me because 'the mobile was dead and they didn't know whether I was still coming'.
In short I was ditched, it's not the first time something like this has happened, and I've had it up to the eyeballs. is it time to get new friends?

2007-12-06 23:45:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Shortly. I met the one. May still be best frends with her brother. She was living with him when she started dating all other frends. While she was with another I slept with her frend.
They broke up. Then It was just me. I never realized I love her, till I started reading into her background (birthdays you no?). She tried making the leo that had broke up with her ,over her hair, jelous by playing with me. Not sexually. He started dating another. I wouldnt have told her if I thought she didnt need to know. I made her cry when I told her. It hurt so bad seeing that, that I started yelling about how when she was trying to make him jellous it was the best night of my life. I was selfish. But I wanted her.
I appologised and we passed that. After visiting her at her job for many days of many weeks. I finaly told her I wanted to be more than frends. She Hugged me. Then it was silance. I never brought it back up til she said she was leaving many states away, and "I'l be bak"

2007-12-06 23:35:13 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 23:27:29 · 17 answers · asked by amfe1983 2 in Family

girls what 1 thing about women do you think men misunderstand. and please help us understand you.

2007-12-06 23:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

I've worked with this girl a year ago, worked with her for 2 years. Now we both go to the same college and I see her in between classes, and sometimes in the parking lot driving her car. I'm a shy guys as she is somewhat shy so its hard to approach her, I did once but conversation didn't last long since I was going to be late for class, we've only really been co-workers not really friends.

So anyway I was wondering if it would be creepy if I had a note on her car door telling her I would like to talk to her, which my car would be parked not too far away, since I wait in my car in between classes anyway, then I would proceed to tell her I'd like to get to know her better and all that jazz.

Just wondering if that would be creepy, I'm not trying to be a creep its just I'm a shy guy and getting her to talk to me is difficult since we both are shy.

2007-12-06 23:14:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend asking what is the difference between true friends from best friends

2007-12-06 23:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by cathy 2 in Friends

My mum and dad broke up when i was only 6 sence then he has remarried anyway i don't know why but his new wife does not like me at all and she won't even talk to me. The last time i went to see dad at his place i heard his wife talking about me behind my back and she told dad i only come over for money and i don't care about him and thats is not true.
I still love dad but i don't wanna go over a listen to lies about me.
I also asked dad to come over my house sometime and he told me his wife said his not allowed to come and see me at my place.

What should i do

2007-12-06 23:02:37 · 11 answers · asked by cripplercar 3 in Family

2007-12-06 22:51:49 · 18 answers · asked by SCOTT P 1 in Singles & Dating

A) What are some that you have used ?

B) What are some that you have heard ?
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2007-12-06 22:46:45 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend garrett of almost a year has really changed..
like he was my first love, first kiss and everything. he used to be in love with me so much, he used to care about me ALOT.
and we were in the middle of going out and he was the best
boyfriend ive ever had. he was perfect and yeah hes definately
hot and he didnt even bother to flirt with any other girls except
me when we were together.. but one day he just started doing
drugs and i really dont know why but it messed everything up
he just started hating me out of nowhere when i was still
completely in love with him. i was so happy with where we were i thought we were getting somewhere. and so obviously that is what ended our relationship because he broke up with me and had no reason after that night. but he still just went along with it like i did something so wrong. and he hated me.. all because of the drugs. and we were perfect. i just dont see
how im supposed to let go of him when i loved him so much.

2007-12-06 22:41:20 · 6 answers · asked by i love him. 1 in Singles & Dating

some times my parents is so rude to me i dont like they allways angry with me some time i thinks i should die i dont know why plz tell me what shoul i do i should die or not tell me guys plzzzzzzzzzzzz....................!

2007-12-06 22:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by roupalivashisht 1 in Singles & Dating

Married, attached, any children.

Why would you say you have no children but not comment on whether you are attached or not? I asked a lady this question and she replied saying no children but did not comment on whether she was attached.

2007-12-06 22:34:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Far too strong...
I befriended her when she had marriage problems, that is it. but i think she took my goodwill as interest. it really isnt.
we work together, but i am sooooo in love with my girlfriend - and have told her this.
yet she tells me that i could have a future with her.
she doesnt seem to acknowledge my rejections... no matter how many times i tell her.
She called my mobile phone late last night causing my girlfriend to start asking questions. i have no idea why she rang - i dont ever speak to her on the phone.
but now my girlfriend is wondering why this woman is ringing me in the middle of the night.
URRGH!
How can i tell her to f*** off?!! She doesnt seem to understand!!
HELP!!

2007-12-06 22:22:29 · 18 answers · asked by WhyTuesday 2 in Singles & Dating

Is anyone else? I feel so lonely its not fair. How do i cheer up?

2007-12-06 22:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is confusing but here it goes


my x-gf we broke cause she was moving to ejrsey she is moving back i was like yay but i got a new girl and this new girl she gave her virginity as a birthday present i luv her but i luv my x-gf more i dont want my gf to think i use her cause im not like that HELP!!!!!!!!1

im18,x gf 16,gf 15(when i ahve sexualrelations iw as still 17 one day before my b-day)

2007-12-06 22:19:21 · 13 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

AND BE SLEEZZES

2007-12-06 22:13:17 · 37 answers · asked by SCOTT P 1 in Singles & Dating

this happened a few years ago, and u may think i'm being silly. They got on well, a little too well and did the dirt on me. i trusted her more than i trusted anyone in the world. i forgave her at the time and we still get on really well. the problem is that ever since i'm so paranoid now that everyone i go out with have the same motive and i'm very ucomfortable with my boyfriends being around her, and getting on well. i don't tell any of my boyfriends this because it'll be me looking insecure, but i am insecure about it. i just want to be able to let go of what happened and not be haunted by it all the time. Help.

2007-12-06 22:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy you rejected sent you this message a month later,
'hey lady luck, wake up and set your sights, the weekends here, time to let loose, thats if you want to'.

2007-12-06 22:12:34 · 8 answers · asked by joe 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy in my class he use to use to have a crush on me but i had a crush on some else. But now he likes some one else and i like him can u please help i'm so lost.

2007-12-06 22:08:51 · 11 answers · asked by la di da 1 in Singles & Dating

i saw one of my guy friends for the first time in weeks 2day and he hugged me and while he was hugging me i told him i miss having him around and he started being a smarta**

what does that mean does it mean he dont care or that he dont wanna show that he cares

2007-12-06 22:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say you meet a guy and you are both really feelin each other... the attraction is off the hook and the sexual tension is crazy. Right away he tells you he wants to take you back to his place and have sex all night. Does he really think you're an easy s l u t or is he attracted to you, and hoping you want the same thing? How long should you wait to do it so that he doesn't think you are easy?

2007-12-06 21:47:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They've been divorced for over 20 years. I think she was the one he never got over. He eventually remarried, had a child, and divorced again about 10 years ago. He and I have been together for a year and a half. It has always been a challenge for him to open up to me, and I knew he'd been hurt in the past, but we had finally come to a place in our relationship where I thought we both felt safe and trusted and moving forward. And now this. She contacted him because she needs an annulment from him in order to join the Catholic church. His conversation with her threw him into such a tailspin that he missed a day of work because of it. I know they are continuing to talk and it is driving me crazy. He says he just needs to work through his emotions so that he can finally move forward, and intellectually I understand this and know that he and I have no future until he can let go of his past. But knowing that he is having ongoing communication with her is making me nuts. Help???

2007-12-06 21:44:16 · 10 answers · asked by Deb120962 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-06 21:40:55 · 1 answers · asked by truth 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to know if you think I was justified in throwing my x's stuff out after he started sleeping w/my friend 2 days after we broke up? Would you store your x's stuff if they started sleeping w/your friend? If not, how much time would you give them to come pick it up?

2007-12-06 21:39:35 · 3 answers · asked by aperfectpeach 2 in Singles & Dating

Thank you.

2007-12-06 21:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by sdn90036 6 in Singles & Dating

My boy friend cheated on me and got someone pregnant I love alot the reason for that is because we've been together for past sixteen years. So far his been making it up to me so should i let him stick around or let him go?

2007-12-06 21:34:06 · 33 answers · asked by patty5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should I wait until after christmas, I cant' stand it at home anymore, I love my husband but he is not the man I married one min he is nice to me then next he can be so mean, he won't talk to me and tell me why he will go for days without talking to me then he lies and gives pathetic reasons why he has not spoke to me or slept in our bed, when we are good everything is perfect but it never lasts, he insults me infront of our friends, but then can completely change and make me breckfast in bed cups of tea when I want them tell me i'm beautiful etc etc, we have more bad times than up times but I dont' think I can take much more, I have no where to go either no family close by and I don't want to leave my job that is all I have, I can't sit down and talk this through with him as we will just tell me to f off when he is ready to talk to me he will just act like nothing has happened and start being nice again,

But I need answers,, any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks.

2007-12-06 21:32:12 · 18 answers · asked by shala 2 in Marriage & Divorce