my ex boyfriend garrett of almost a year has really changed..
like he was my first love, first kiss and everything. he used to be in love with me so much, he used to care about me ALOT.
and we were in the middle of going out and he was the best
boyfriend ive ever had. he was perfect and yeah hes definately
hot and he didnt even bother to flirt with any other girls except
me when we were together.. but one day he just started doing
drugs and i really dont know why but it messed everything up
he just started hating me out of nowhere when i was still
completely in love with him. i was so happy with where we were i thought we were getting somewhere. and so obviously that is what ended our relationship because he broke up with me and had no reason after that night. but he still just went along with it like i did something so wrong. and he hated me.. all because of the drugs. and we were perfect. i just dont see
how im supposed to let go of him when i loved him so much.
2007-12-06 22:41:20 · 6 answers · asked by i love him. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm guessing you are about 15. I'd suggest you do your homework, grow up, and forget this guy. He's not good for you.
2007-12-06 22:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are these "drugs?" smoking weed? Or something far more serious? Depending on what the drugs are, perhaps you should consult his friends/family for help, perhaps not. In any event...
He may have realized that he wasn't being true to himself at some point, and he was playing this "perfect boyfriend" image because he wanted to make you happy and love you. But he may have realized that this wasn't truly who he was. Is it messed up how he approached the situation? Yes, entirely. But I know that I've been through a situation where I was disregarding who I was to make my girlfriend happy and I ended up breaking up with her because I couldn't stay being fake anymore. I've grown up so much since then.
2007-12-06 22:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tim G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should def just let him ago. I cant stress this;Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. ditch his sorry, disgrace to the male population *** and find someone who will treat you with utter respect
2007-12-06 22:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell his parents that he's on drugs. This way you'll help him and he'll realize what a good friend you are after he's stopped taking drugs.
2007-12-06 22:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually it may work out, but for now you have two options.
1. let him go
2. be dragged down with him
2007-12-06 22:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs will do that to you....its a mood swing...get away...move on...get another guy
2007-12-06 22:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋