Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

my ex is jealous of guys i talk too or just giving a hug too my guy friends. my guys friend weren't afriad of him until he almost beat up one of my guy friend cus i was talking too him alone, just me and him. my guy friends and every guy in school is afraid of him?
i can't talk to him cus he would ignore me, hes like mad and jealous at the same time. he said he wants me back and if he can't no one can have me?! help!!!!

2007-12-06 17:16:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is a classy wedding

2007-12-06 17:16:00 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

how would you feel about posting nude photos of you wife ( or if you are somebodys wife/gf, your photos ) tasteful ones at that, on the web ? how can I get her to agree?

2007-12-06 17:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by DI 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I told my Taiwanese BF I loved him and he turned all weird on me he got quiet but still lets me know that he loves me too...I can't understand him. He stopped talking and just gives me clues. Of course I felt he cared first so I told. Otherwise I wouldn't have told him.

2007-12-06 17:14:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are definitely doing a silly dance. it will start out slow and sweet and then abruptly transition into a silly dance to an upbeat song.

what is the general reaction of people to this? have you ever been to a wedding where something like this has been done?

2007-12-06 17:13:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she doesnt really wanna tell anyone yet...its been almost a week....i dont think its healty to keep it a secret that long...especially since he treated her so bad and she still wants him....i told my best friend and she got very upset...what should i do?

2007-12-06 17:12:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi so my boyfriend is so sweet and I cant say I love him but REALLY like him. But he always jokes saying "you was talking to your other bf on the other line" when i get a beep and im like no and stuff hes like im just playing calm down. We live like 20 mins away and im always bussy and i dont get to see him cept on weekend and hes like "i never get to see u" and my guy friend emailed him saying "she has guys waiting inline for her" BEFORE we were dating and he told me and he was like yeah that gives you a more of a chance to cheat. Now im real pretty and he is handsome to me but i guess not to others (ghetto and teeth are messed up) but hes sweet ya know. And sorry to say but im the mose beautiful girl hes ever been with so idk if that is why he always thinks im cheating or what. And he calls me so i dont call him and he says "you dont really like me cause u never call me" but I do like him ugh, i just dont know what to do or whats his problem what do u think? Thanks

2007-12-06 17:12:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm 6 months pregnant and I've gained like 20 more pounds since my last couple doctor visits. Of course I am Extremely sensitive about my weight and this jerk I call my husband poked at it. This is how...okay I was like I went to the doctor and he said I gained 20 pounds, so now I'm 225, fat I know, but anyway. His response was "DAMN, so you were 200 pounds before you even got pregnant." What an asshole thing to say. and the funny part is he didn't even bother to do the damn math first. I only gained these 20 pounds in like 3 months.. I am so Freakin mad at him right now, doesn't he know not to comment on a women's weight ESPECIALLY a pregnant woman. Damn, he's a jerk. am I overreacting or has any of your significant others said something about you that made you wanna slap them?

2007-12-06 17:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with / in a relationship with a guy for 3 years now and i love him but hes not very caring and is kind of rude to me sometimes, not to mention alot of other things. Things are declining quickly, i am really unhappy at times, im begining to question weather or not i actually love him anymore, i am unsure. I just found out a few days ago that last year when we were broken up he created a child with his ex girlfriend. This is an even bigger turn off. He doesnt want to be a father and support it at all. Anyways in the mean time i have met a guy whom i adore. He is great, and he can give me everything, respect, love, kindness, and everything my boyfriend cannot. I can really see a future with this guy. Do you think i should break up and move out of the house, and be with the guy who treats me a lot better? Or stay? It will be the hardest thing ive ever had to do, but sometimes you just have to let go right?

2007-12-06 17:11:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A couple of days ago the guy I like was talking to my friend asking her if she and I where going the the Winter Ball and my friend she that she didn't know and he told her to make me go the the Winter Ball. Now she doesn't even know if he is going. Why would he want me to go if he isn't going? What is he "planning"? He wont even talk to me and every time I do he doesn't reply. Should I not go the the dance or should I? I do want to have fun and two of my friends are going. Why is he sending me mixed messaged? Some one help me please.

2007-12-06 17:11:17 · 12 answers · asked by Emery G 2 in Singles & Dating

How was the meeting? Did it really change your opinoin of the person? Would you do it again?

2007-12-06 17:10:07 · 4 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6 in Friends

Well I better let You know that I'm a hypochondriac! And my parents and little brother are going to a historical Monument the weekend before Christmas for his Christmas Present. And I'm staying with my other brother who's 8 years older than me and who is almost always on the computer in his room,and my parents don't want me to have any friends over to spend the night(s) while their gone,and so I'm just wondering if y'all have any idea's what to do with and with out my brother????(My brother who is going is only 2 years younger and I'm closer to him)Also It's really only the night time that I'm scared about and what to do to keep me from freaking out!!!But I also want tip's for the daytime too!!!!! Thanks a Lot,God Bless, and Merry Christmas!!!!!!

2007-12-06 17:09:28 · 15 answers · asked by George 3 in Family

I have been living with / in a relationship with a guy for 3 years now and i love him but hes not very caring and is kind of rude to me sometimes, not to mention alot of other things. Things are declining quickly, i am really unhappy at times, im begining to question weather or not i actually love him anymore, i am unsure. I just found out a few days ago that last year when we were broken up he created a child with his ex girlfriend. This is an even bigger turn off. He doesnt want to be a father and support it at all. Anyways in the mean time i have met a guy whom i adore. He is great, and he can give me everything, respect, love, kindness, and everything my boyfriend cannot. I can really see a future with this guy. Do you think i should break up and move out of the house, and be with the guy who treats me a lot better? Or stay? It will be the hardest thing ive ever had to do, but sometimes you just have to let go right?

2007-12-06 17:08:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the difference between knowing what you want in a girl and being so narrow minded over choosing girls that you pass up someone who doesn't fit exactly everything that is on your list of requirements?

2007-12-06 17:08:30 · 4 answers · asked by Domino25 3 in Singles & Dating

im in dilemma right now...i want some views in this problem...thanks in advance...

2007-12-06 17:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by ^a.hermit^ 3 in Weddings

There's this girl I know at work that used to be really bitter, moody and quiet, but I opened her up by joking around with her and being friendly. She's just not a person I would get along with, or am attracted to, but she has mistaken it for flirting. She wants to date me, but I don't like her. What do I do?

She had this really pathetic conversation with me today. I feel bad, but she's just not my type.

2007-12-06 17:07:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Long story short my BFF said she is going to do a fake dare so that I have to kiss my crush. And I want to, but isn't it possible he might think I am just doing it because she dared me to? My other friend was also talking about how long it should be and if I had to kiss him on the lips or the cheek or whatever. I don't want to scare him off or anything though. What do other people think? Oh, and if I am the one being dared do I move in and kiss him or is he suppose to move in and kiss me?

2007-12-06 17:07:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why?

Peace.

2007-12-06 17:05:48 · 20 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6 in Friends

In 2004 I lost my first love to suicide. We weren't together at the time but we had been together for 8 years off and on and had the most amazing connection. When he commited suicide I was living 200 miles away. I left as soon as I could and was their through everything. His best friends, or as he called them his brothers are my best friends too and we all stuck together to help eachother through. 3 1/2 years later I still miss him like crazy...Why can't I let go and believe he's in a better place? Why do I want just one last hug, or one last kiss? Shouldn't I have faith that I will see him on the other side?

2007-12-06 17:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by tattoodangel 2 in Singles & Dating

Nothing like dating, just a Sunday brunch or something like that...Who would it be?

2007-12-06 17:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 17:03:47 · 6 answers · asked by nica 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Someone who got married too young for the wrong reasons, and now both persons are not happy in their marriage. They are both still young, and dont have any kids together. They love each other still, but cant seem to work through their problems to make it work because one [or both] parties dont want to be married, or arent motivated to care if it works out or not. Im not sure if it makes sense, but if this is what you got out of it, what would you say? They dont want to do therapy...but they also dont want things to stay the way they are.
Should they just work on their communication a little more? And because of the fact that they do in fact still love each other, does that mean that they still have hope?
Is separation a safe alternative or will that make things worse?
ideas and thoughts please. thanks.

2007-12-06 17:03:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend hates when i look at his text messages. He has been texting a friend of mine that is a girl. it makes me uncomfotable that hes talking to her at all and i dont know if it is normal for me to feel this way. one day when he was with me i picked his phone up and then he grabbed it out of my hands and yelled at me not to look at his phone then he deleted all his text messages. He says that it makes him mad because its like i dont trust him. I wasnt even looking at it to "spy" on him, i was just bored and i mean he looks at mine and i dont care. so my question, is it wrong for me to look at his text messages, i would think if he has nothing to hide why would he care?

2007-12-06 17:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I know all the business about strip clubs, all the stuff thats not allowed and everything, but my question is for when the strippers come to you.
If it is a bachelor party where say, 4 strippers are at the hotel, is there usually sex involved? From what I have heard some head is the norm. Is this true? Does this occur always, sometimes or rarely?

2007-12-06 17:01:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i didnt even tell my best friend...her best friend is the town know it all..pretty much shes a nosy gossiper...she knows things thatll b4 u do...anyway i asked my mom not to tell her yet and she did...what should i do?

2007-12-06 16:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really dislike the person I am (and I'm not bad or evil in anyway). I have a good heart and I try but I know I'm not a likeable person. I never have friends (at least not for long term and this is the way it's always been).

Because of that, I dislike myself. Please advise.

2007-12-06 16:59:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well there is this boy in my class and we used to be really really good friends.Well we grew up and grew apart we got lost in the social groups.Well he ended up in a way different group than me so we hate eachother but the truth is I dont hate him I still like him But we r still mean to eachother but I try not to be because I really want things to be like how they used to.But he is always saying that I am like so inlove with this boy in our class names michael and i actually get kinda mad at him because he knows that Michael broke my heart.Well then today we were fighting and Jeniffer said he was only fighting with me because he likes me and he said "heck no I would never" and it really upset me. do you think he knew how much it upset me? or if he didnt mean to upset me that much because I really really like him and I had ever since we were really really good friends a while ago

2007-12-06 16:58:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He grew up with her family since he was born. They haven't seen each other in a long time, and she has lived in Alaska. When I first met him, he chatted with her sometimes, and I was not worried, but suddenly, out of nowhere, they are in contact again, and now he has her number and her daughter's number in his cell phone, and he is chatting with her on Yahoo Messenger. We are having issues maritally, related to his sister disliking me (without any real reason), and it has strained our marriage. Do you think I should worry? I think she called Leann and asked her to get hold of Steven or something. Suddenly, his friend Brian (who is a horrible man who hates me terribly for marrying his friend and taking him away ...which is very childish), came out of nowhere to visit also, after a long time no see. I am afraid his sister is calling these people to run me off. I am really worried about our marriage at this point. There are problems from every angle.

2007-12-06 16:57:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many guys out there like medium or dark skinned girls with brown eyes and dark hair? Just asking cuz im mixed and in my highschool mostly light skinned girls with blonde hair get attention.

2007-12-06 16:55:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 16:52:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating