my ex is jealous of guys i talk too or just giving a hug too my guy friends. my guys friend weren't afriad of him until he almost beat up one of my guy friend cus i was talking too him alone, just me and him. my guy friends and every guy in school is afraid of him?
i can't talk to him cus he would ignore me, hes like mad and jealous at the same time. he said he wants me back and if he can't no one can have me?! help!!!!
2007-12-06 17:16:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how old are you,if your a teen then please tell your parents or school counselor. you need to get restraining order.
2007-12-06 17:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by hi there! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would be very, very, careful about this guy. Whatever you do don't get back with him. Sounds like you may need a restraining order or something. If it's not as dangerous as that I would deffinately talk to some type of authority figure like the school counselor or a teacher. That kind of attitude is unacceptable and someone needs to know whats going on in case it gets further at school and he does hurt someone then the principal or whoever knows the situation and will understand that he started it and he is the one in the wrong. Can you talk to his mom? Moms are good tools if they like you. Hard to find moms that like girls who date their sons but........ one can hope. Anyway don't let things get out of hand without getting real help. If he is violent he may hurt you or someone else. Keep your phone handy just in case. Sounds like a real jerk. Tell your guy friends to grow up and stand together against him. He may be able to beat up one guy but if the others take each others backs then hes not gonna beat up a bunch of guys.
2007-12-06 17:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by DianaMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This guy sounds very dangerous! He also seems unstable and violent..not a good combination! I always get chills when a man says, "If I can't have her, nobody can!".
Report these incidents to the police, school authorities, your parents...as many people as possible. They need to be watching out for you. A restraining order would not be a bad idea either.
Ignore him and have no contact with him. Try not to go anywhere alone. Just be careful!!
Good luck!
2007-12-06 17:23:35 · answer #3 · answered by Nonny0928 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a lunatic. If he resorts to violence just because of jealousy, leave him and have several of you guy "friends" look out for you. if he is really crazy about you, tell him to leave your friends alone if they are really just friends. Unfortunately, people sometimes forget that flirting with people when they are dating someone else is their fault for angering their "special" other because they are playing with people hearts and that is not right. If you are afraid of him, leave him, but don;t give him the opportunity to get angry with you either. Give him no reason to be mad or jealous for a while and see what happens.
2007-12-06 17:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by sethsaab93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... your in a pickel aren't you... you must still be in high school so... if everyone is scared of him... you need a group to take this mighty bull down... Tell him this, "that this is the last time your going to warn him whether hes listening to you or not" "he may be able to kick any and all of your new boy friends butts at any one time, but that you have enough guy friends to insure that he gets his butt kicked" "Your not his property, You are not going to be controlled, or live in fear of him or what he might do, you don't care if hes mad, you don't care if he wants you back, its not his decision anymore" If you want to get smart about it "tell him to think about it, cry himself a river, build a bridge, and get over himself because s hit happens" after that if hes still there flip your hair over your shoulder, turn around quick and strut away. after 5 or 10 feet turn your head look over your shoulder and say, "you better take this to heart, get over yourself" turn back and leave... like the bad as s you are... if you don't have enough male friends to do this then i'm sure you tell a few large guys your sad story and they will do the rest... guys love to play the hero... Just remember to thank them like you have never thanked anyone in your life... just in case he starts that crap again, they will definitly help you again...
2007-12-06 17:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Robert D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where ever you work/go to school or something, wait till theres alot of people around. make sure he's there, and a bunch of good, close friends, guys and/or girls. go talk to him. start talking as loud akeep going till he backs downs you can. tell him evreything you hate really loud, exagerating things, tell him what a **** he is, all that stuff. tell him some mean stuff, threatin him, keep going till he backs down or someone like a teacher/ boss tells you to stop. if he doesn't quit, carry out some threats, then do it again. get someont involved if he doesn't stop. rem ember, ur a girl, and girls are WAY better then guys. YAY!!!! (okay, i was jk bout that, noone come beat me or somthing, kay? good)
2007-12-06 17:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report this. To many young woman don't report this and get help and are trapped with this guy, or they break away and he goes after them and hurts them. If they know that you reported him to the authoritys, then he might leave you alone. This is nothing to let go.
2007-12-06 17:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he is your ex boyfriend. He has no right to be doing anything as far as you are concerned. You might have to get a restraining order to keep him away from you if he doesn't stop.
2007-12-06 17:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the Police. Too many women let jerks get away with this and it gives all of us a bad name.
2007-12-06 17:19:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sid B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the 1st element you may desire to do its communicate on your present day bf. You under no circumstances comprehend what Brandon can tell your BF. additionally tell Brandon you moved on and don’t refer to him that plenty so he gets the element.
2016-11-13 22:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deff be careful of this psycho. Steer clear from him for good and if he still acts like this...tell ur parents...friends and deff the police!
2007-12-06 17:20:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋