Okay I'm 6 months pregnant and I've gained like 20 more pounds since my last couple doctor visits. Of course I am Extremely sensitive about my weight and this jerk I call my husband poked at it. This is how...okay I was like I went to the doctor and he said I gained 20 pounds, so now I'm 225, fat I know, but anyway. His response was "DAMN, so you were 200 pounds before you even got pregnant." What an asshole thing to say. and the funny part is he didn't even bother to do the damn math first. I only gained these 20 pounds in like 3 months.. I am so Freakin mad at him right now, doesn't he know not to comment on a women's weight ESPECIALLY a pregnant woman. Damn, he's a jerk. am I overreacting or has any of your significant others said something about you that made you wanna slap them?
2007-12-06 17:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aw hell no. You are carrying his freakin child! I'd be pissed too. He sounds like a major a$s!
My boyfriend hasn't said anything like that, but HIS friend told his girlfriend "uhh maybe you shouldn't eat those fries..." What is wrong with men? Seriously! And the girl was like 5'5 and weighed 120 lbs. Idiots...
2007-12-06 17:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 01:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by hannula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you called him the right hting... a jerk and an asshole....
you are pregnant.... might want to consider leaving this jerk before bringing a baby into this household.....
and no sweetie you are not fat!!! you first of all are pregnant!!!!! and fat is me... I am not pregnant,, never have been and I am 260.. jus got on th scale tonight.... so you want to talk about a fattie.... just say my name and that is a fattie for you... but you are not.. you are pregnant and it is normal to be a heavier when you are pregnant...
you need to be around love... and soemoen making fun of something that is very sensitive in nature like a person's weight.... that person is not someone to put your engery towards....
if you were to be mean and spiteful... tell him his IQ is getting lower, since he can't do the math!!! Weight can change, mental ability to do simple math.... well can that really change,. at his age???
2007-12-06 17:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Artist Wanna Be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and the first answerer is a moron. It's 100% NOT acceptable and very jerk-y. My husband would never say something like that, because he's sensitive to my feelings. My ex, though, used to poke at my weight all the time. It's abuse! People don't think of it that way, but it's verbal abuse and it's damaging.
2007-12-06 17:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by BG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gaining weight during pregnancy is so normal. Your husband should be a lot more considerate towards this. For goodness sakes you're pregnant and you need to gain the weight. You'll lose it when your baby is born. If I had a chance to speak to your husband I'd *************** and ********* and then ******** **** well, you get what I trying to say. Jerk for sure!!!..... All the best to you and your baby!!!!
2007-12-06 17:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty Lucy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congradulations on the baby! im sorry your feeling upset. your not overreacting if it hurt your feelings. and dont let him tell you that your just too sensitive right now because of being pregnant. he probably it stressed out about work or himself and just took it out on you. unless he says stuff like this all the time i would worry to much about it. it isnt okay for him to make you feel bad about gaining weight when your pregnant. you should tell him (without yelling) that it really hurt your feelings and hopefully he will appologize. gainging weight is good when your pregnant. dont feel bad about yourself! if your unhappy with your weight set a goal for yourself after the baby is born. start eating healthy and excersising. you will feel so good about yourself. then you can tell your husband to work out with you. you should tell him that he upset you and that you feel like that was mean. and that your not perfect and you need his support. maybe after the baby is born yall can start excercising together. good luck!
2007-12-06 17:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by amtech33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently he loved you at that weight, because he got you pregnant. I would let it slide, unless he continues to make mention of it. Guys do not realize the way some of the things that they say sound. To you, it sounded like he was saying that you are fat. To him, he may have been in shock because you look good, and he never realized that you weighed that much.
2007-12-06 17:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're overreacting... That was a mean thing of him to say whether you were pregnant or not. But it only makes it worse since you're pregnant, all the extra hormones don't make things like that any easier to take.
2007-12-06 17:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to get along with your hubby..after all you have a new Baby on the way......You should try to stop gaining to much and sit down and explain to him you can find lots of faults with him...but you don't because you love him.....So tell him knock it off....
2007-12-06 17:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by _t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOO YOU ARE NOT OVERREACTING! i hate it when guys comment girls about weight!! but he is your husband and maybe he was trying to put in some truth there. after the pregnancy you can try exercising not only to please him but yourself. you can have a new smokin hot body and a newborn child. i also heard you lose alot of calories through breastfeeding.
2007-12-06 17:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋