Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

When I get home, my fiance and his daughter are yelling at each other, which i can't stand. So i get involved in their fighting to calm them down. Should I stay out of it or get in middle. My fiance's daughter is 12 and she tells me to shut up and mind my own business, Do I listen to her or do i get in middle? I have known both of them for five years, and her mom sees her two times a week and every other weekend. My fiance, his daughter and I live in same household and have lived together for three years, any advice is helpful
Thank you

2007-12-06 17:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by chiefs fan 4 in Family

If you got the one of your dreams, what dreams did he meet? If you settled, what did you settle on and why (in other words, what did you either overlook or do without and why)? What advice would you give others as to the settling issue? What did you find most important/least important and why?

2007-12-06 17:47:00 · 9 answers · asked by lmspencr 4 in Marriage & Divorce

yea im just wondering for reasearch but is marriage a binding contract???im pretty sure it is but i need to make sure...thans you guys

2007-12-06 17:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If after I make love to my wife her vagina makes a farting sound does that mean she's cheating? She also seems to act distant. And I practically have to beg her for sex. I also have other hints, but I don't want to tip you ladies off. So can you please explain how you all would act if you were cheating on your spouse? Don't forget to answer about the farting thing. Just curious.

2007-12-06 17:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by lifelongskinsfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Some background about my family I (21) live with my mom (45) and my sister (going on 16). My moms a single mom so of course raising two girls money is tight

ok I found out back in about 2000 that my mom has this alter ego on the internet. she pretends to be in her late twenties, uses pictures of other people, and ends up on the phone with them for hours at a time either telling stupid stories, fighting and crying and threatening to kill herself.

Recently with her discovery of myspace its only gotten worse, she is " dating" this guy. I've heard her talking to him and to someone else about how she bought a good bottle of scotch and spent over 200 dollars on it, paid 250 towards his cell phone bill since he was calling her, and bought him this engraved necklace for about 200. I was hoping that she was lying to whoever she was talking to but had proof when a billing statement arrived at our house in her other name for a necklace that was engraved. I'm sorry thats way too much money to spend on a lie. My mom has my sisters money for her bands florida trip this spring and we suspect thats where she's getting this extra money

My mom has no idea I've know all of this and that I've actually found her myspace as well as his (unfortunately hers is private)

I'm out of ideas and I'm afraid to confront her about it.This is a long shot but has anyone dealt with anything like this... what should I do?

Thank you in advance

2007-12-06 17:44:17 · 4 answers · asked by Morgan 2 in Family

like theres this guy who i like and i kind of stopped liking him but since i did it seems like he likes me now cause hes always flirting with me but at the same time he's already with someone so i was wondering is this true that if you love/like someone you should kind of let it go easy or stop and they might like u back or something like that or make it seem like you dont like them that much anymore cause like if u really like someone you shouldn't go crazy on them?? and thanks =)

2007-12-06 17:44:01 · 7 answers · asked by ohsofresh! 2 in Singles & Dating

so imberasing, I hope he never reads this. He just moved in to my place, we been together for almost 4 months, and now that he is here, he bin gettin real casual, wich is a really good thing....so, the other night in the middle of the night, passed 3 in the morning, I open the bathroom door, caus the light was on, and there he is in a pink robe, and frilly underwear and the worst is high heels that arnt mine. At first I acused him of cheeting and he said that no he just likes to dress up. DO MEN DO THIS?????????????? I never bin with a guy that does this and I am really freaked about this, it happend last night and ever sinse then....I just kind of ignore it. He said that he likes this, and he's not embarassed, but I havent left my doughter with him ever sinse....cous does this make him weird????????????? What do i do????

2007-12-06 17:43:17 · 40 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

/ disrespectfull. and after they break up why do they wanna go back to their relationship and cry over it

2007-12-06 17:43:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime I ask is we just friends.

2007-12-06 17:43:05 · 6 answers · asked by Lorretta B 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i really love eachother. we are in high school, but that doesnt mean anything. we really have a very strong relationship. We are extremly different yet insanly the same. We fight probably at least once every 2 days. and we dont even know what we fight about but they are meaningful fights.

the thing that bothers me is that hes so stubborn. hes so stubborn tht he does things, feels bad and tell me how bad he feels, and then does them again. they dont involve me but it makes me mad that he treates people certain ways or does certain things. he knows it makes me mad too.

i told him everything i thot today and he didnt talk for a half an hour. i told him he hes so stubborn he cant even answer me when i say things like this to him. bc he knows hes wrong and its like he refuses to change.

15 minutes later all he said was. i know it sounds like im mad, but im not. im just thinking. i have to go. bye. i love you. im just not the person i want to be. goodbye.

please help!!!

2007-12-06 17:33:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend just called me and told me that she just kissed a man. Just kissing and nothing else. But of course french kissing that is!
She is married. She said that it was just the excitement that push her to kiss another man. The fact that he was new and stuff. IS this cheating?? I told her YES. But she insisist that it's NOT!!

2007-12-06 17:33:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

still be single, never been kissed or on a date and still a virgin?

2007-12-06 17:30:56 · 30 answers · asked by Christina K 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me that he hinted at being gay during a party when he had 2 shots. It wasnt that much at all. we are in high school, from what i know of he hasn't been interested nor went out with any girl through high school. THough he has liked 2 very attractive girls in middle school.

My friend tells me he and I are like the opposite, he's like the little kiddy type of class clown while im like the aspiring young professional girl all mature and everything

but i love his stupid jokes. and yes he does talk to everyone given the chance. but he talks to me too. and in class he sits in the front and i dont know if he turns back to look at me or that he just likes turning back we bump into each othere, there is eye contact. but it may mean nothing

he speaks to me of nothing but schoolwork. A good intellectualy conversation always can take place. once online i tried changing the topic and he stopped talking.

what should i do?

2007-12-06 17:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never kissed before and have only a few times with him - I can't stand saliva. How could I ever do the french kiss? So I tell him to keep his mouth closed, but it doesn't work... it puts me off, but I really want to change this because I like him.

2007-12-06 17:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by Beletje_vos AM + VT 7 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl alot she has 2 kids, and we have been spending time together, she told me she didn't have a boyfriend, tonight she sent me a message saying she was being evicted from her apartment, and has to be out by the 19th, she never said anything to me before, even though she was given a 60 day notice.

She asked me if I would give her money for christmas presents for her boys, which I would do, but then she asked me if I would find a place for her to move too, I told her I would and she asked me if I would pay the security deposit and first month's rent, I told her I would then she told me it would be her, and her boys and some other guy that will be living with her, should I go ahead and do it, or should I tell her I changed my mind?
I really like her a lot and adore her kids, but this guy she says is living with her won't get a job and won't help her pay the bills and I know she will come running to me for money every month.

what should I do?

2007-12-06 17:29:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What 12 rules would you give that every marriage should look to obtain to be happy together?

2007-12-06 17:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by midget 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i love him and want to marrry him only for that i have to wait till the time wil come wen he can talk to his parents.but he is not sure that his parents will agree and if they dint agree then what will happen? i will wait for him only for 2-3 years and after that if he will say no to me it will be tough for me what should i do?i love him a lot and he also has is problems he cant talk to his parents now as he has two sisters unmairraide..what should we do.?

2007-12-06 17:26:44 · 34 answers · asked by #### 1 in Weddings

I'm thinking about a cream pie to eat!

2007-12-06 17:24:50 · 15 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Singles & Dating

one of my close guy friends started dating this girl last year (him and i are juniors in highschool and she is a senior). they were together for 8 months (and she was his first...) until she suddenly broke up with him one day... he was absolutely crushed.

ok so the VERY NEXT DAY after their breakup she hooked up with a senior guy. then about a week later she told my friend all this stuff about how she was wrong, and now they're back together.

but okay so then i find out that for the week she wasn't with him, she hooked up with that senior guy every single day... apparently this other guy didnt want to be anything more than hookup buddies and she couldnt accept that. and now that shes back with my friend, she told the other guy that when they break up she will hookup with him. she is so messed up!! and my guy friend knows abolutely none of this... i feel horrible, idk if i have the heart to tell him. he thinks they're in love! should i just ignore it or what?

2007-12-06 17:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my mother, but I know that there is something wrong.. First off she's never happy, and she's always putting someone or something down. She left my father when I was seven, after having an affair on him for about two years and married the man that she cheated on my father with. He is a very good step dad to me, and always has been. I know my mom hasn't had the easiest life, her parents were alcoholics (but never beat or neglected her) and they were 100% illiterate as well as poor. I know before I was born she did a number of different drugs, but now she is in a great relationship. My step dad does a lot for her, she has a lot of material things, and I'm always calling her, trying to make time for us to do things together when I come back home and more. But she is always putting down myself, my brother and my real dad.And putting herself before us. She puts down anything I do well at, and when I fail, throws it in my face. The same with my brother.

2007-12-06 17:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im not sure whats goin on, but my bf never really calls me back when he says he will. And there are times when i dont hear from him in like 2 days. is he trying to tell me sumthin or what. i usually call him once or twice a day because hes either at work or school. im jus confused. I need some opinions.

2007-12-06 17:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by stars_086 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to give him everything he wants from me, but we are atleast 2000 miles apart. I dont want to be apart from him. I think I'm losing him. I dont want too. He's the best thing that has come into my life. He says his past relations always wanted something of him, or was intimidated by his profession.

I dont want anything from this man but to love me, nothing else matters. He has a beautiful heart and thats all that matters!

So, how can I convince him that we are meant to be?????
And to not give up on me????

2007-12-06 17:22:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are women so insecure? Why do they feel like they need a man in their lives constantly to feel better about themselves? I am not saying all girls, but generally speaking we settle for scum when there are billions of guys who would treat us well?

2007-12-06 17:20:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I won't get to see him again for awhile....and something besides sex.

2007-12-06 17:20:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he really doesn't now how to talk me .. he yells and acts like a freak as camunication ... and how he acts like he is the only thing that matter !! and he is suck a rasist person !!
This year my own dad forgot my birthday!! .. and yesterday he was tryin to make a point he sayed i was 10 !! i'm not ******* 10 .. i was a little shocked but not really .. he was never good at anything to do with me

And with my mother she is ver rasit!!! and all she does when she comes home is ***** !! about EVERYTHING!!! when she stars talkin in the tone i walk out of the room .. even though that makes her ever more mad ,, and she only thinks about her self .. when she gives gifts .. she doesn't think tht person will like unless she likes it ..

i know it doesn't seem like much to hate about them .. but if u come here and seen wat there like .. u would really understaind

i'm just wondering is it normal to hate ur parents like .. truely hate them?

2007-12-06 17:20:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a man takes days to move out after he says its over is he not sure that thats what he wants?

2007-12-06 17:19:32 · 13 answers · asked by chitown1120 1 in Singles & Dating

What does this mean, practically-speaking? I really like this guy and he knows it, yet nothing's happening. Someone advised that I be more of a challenge... does this mean be more aloof? Or... just not communicate with him for a while? (We email frequently and seem to have good chemistry, and he seems happy to see me in person, but it's not moving beyond the "friend" thing-- in 3 months, and I'm about to give up.)

2007-12-06 17:18:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

two men love a girl
what should they do

2007-12-06 17:18:39 · 4 answers · asked by arash a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Regarding our wedding, my fiance stated that she must invite old friends because they invited her to their wedding. I see her point but at the same time, I really dislike them for a very good reason. It is true that they invited her to thier functions and were pals at one time, but also they were a horrible influence on her. They caused serious problems for her a few years ago and we, as a couple, are just getting through them now. It was very hard on both of us, to get through it, and everytime something reminds me of it I want to smash my head into a wall. Even my fiance's family hates those girls because thier role in what happened.
Also, they werent real friends, when my fiance was unable to keep in touch, they didnt even bother to check up on her; When we ran into them a few months ago they were so cold to her.
I understand my fiance feels obligated to invite them, but how do I deal with the fact that these vultures are going to be at the most special day of our lives?

2007-12-06 17:17:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i do a great job at work my boss doesn't seem to notice and i do a lot of work...we have the papers to prove it and the cameras! i never lied cheated or stole...i always did what he asked without blinking an eye and he treats me like i do nothing and he keeps saying "u think ur perfect" and i never even act like it i just happen to do my job and do it well i thought thats what bosses wanted!!!! for example i work when im not supposed to more than the norm i wanted off on my bday(my scheduled day off to begin with) and for months i asked if i can take off (yes i asked off on my day off) and it came to the day and i had plans and hes like u have to work and was telling me these things like to make me feel bad..why couldn't he say for once shes always working on her day off why not give her a break but instead he gave me the worst bday!!!! and then i was stuck working the next day alone and i was told i was workin alone on purpose bc i never came in my bday! they are crazy!

2007-12-06 17:16:32 · 2 answers · asked by Madison 3:16 Anderson Rhodes 6 in Other - Family & Relationships