relationships?

Question

If a man takes days to move out after he says its over is he not sure that thats what he wants?

Answer 1

I'm so sorry I did not answer sooner but things have been very busy- as a matter of fact I can very much relate to that. Well if it was in a heat f anger it's possibly because he wants you to say oh baby don't go, it is a form of control, if you have not communicated much the last 3 days then either he has no where to go, or he is just stalling. He may be using it as a scare tactic. If you are communicating and things are going well because you are serving all his needs. ie you not complianing, being generous, attentive, etc. then it is so he can get what he wants. But you needs are important to. As, a matter of fact I just filed for divorce but, if I could get his mental health under control then perhaps, it could change. I love him deeply but he has bipolar so I am dealing with a bunch of personalities in one person, no he lis not pchytzo. He is very much in love with me, so he says, but with the ramifications of his disorders, it is more words than actions. He is trying, but it seems that I am more lenient than him with regards to applying oneself and I have climbed more obstacles in life that I care to think of but I feel that if we stay married it coulld be the worst decision of my life and if we divorce that could be the worst because I don't want to be without my soul mate. But, the man I love is showing himself less and less and the other bevaiors of mental health are takeing place, somethings have gotten bett- he's workd for a whole three weeks at new job, I am proud of him, but the self, centered, ego..., arragant, inconsiderate, undependable, etc issues in somene in crisis are not as sever but more often than perviously. I can except good times and bad but not disregard for what I have done, what I do, and disregard for my situations. I do not expect a pitty party I just expect him to not sweat hte small stuff, and stop feeling like the world owes him something. WE ALL OWE THE WORLD, that's why where here. sorry so long but you opened the door and I am a babler when I have the time. Hope this helps, call on me any time. If I don't respond right away I will but remember your not alone and this pain may not go away but it will subside. GB

Answer 2

It all depends on many factors. Is the guy's name on the rent, or mortgage? Does he have another place lined up for himself? He may truly want to break-up with you, but he's method is immature. He should have indicated that he not want to move out immediately, but would need some time.

As far as you are concern, close the door and move on. Holding a candle at the window, hoping that he'll return, is unfair to yourself. Whatever the reason(s), take care of yourself and look forward to someone else, who'll show you respect.

Answer 3

That is a possibility, or he could be wondering where to go. If he's going to move on his own, in with someone else, parents, etc. could be a lot. job issues, etc

Answer 4

No. He's waiting on you to leave for the day so his new girlfriend can help him move.

Answer 5

Yes because he probably wants to get back with you

Answer 6

maybe he is still wondering whether or not, he still likes u, or maybe he just wanna stick around, for no reason, u know no where else to live

Answer 7

Basically, He's not sure if he's making the right choice or not.

Answer 8

That may be the case, either that or he is a procrastinator.

Answer 9

maybe. Or maybe he has no where else to go. Or maybe he's waiting for you to beg him to stay.

Answer 10

well, he doesn't have another place to live or is just economically plain inconvenient