still be single, never been kissed or on a date and still a virgin?
2007-12-06 17:30:56 · 30 answers · asked by Christina K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm social I've been out there for a long time
2007-12-06 17:38:03 · update #1
to make matters worse I'm a size 17/18 and guys are shallow!!
2007-12-06 18:01:08 · update #2
Yes. Why are you home on the computer? Go out! :)
2007-12-06 17:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by ChocolateCoveredGoodness 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lt is not weird, it is just rare!
lf you asked this question in the 1920s then it would be the usual and 'normal' thing.
l think people give there virginity away too easily! l do know a few people that waited until they were around 21!
When l hear of people in there 30s+ that are still virgins l find that hard to get my head round but hey we are all different and obviously the law of averages will say that you will get people that are not interested in sex!
l suppose you could go on a date, then have a kiss and then end up loosing your virginity, get it all over with in one night?
2007-12-07 01:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, if it is then I'm a member of that club then too. But personally I don't care too much at times. I do get a bit envious of others at times that have that freedom to do so. Not only that I live in a rather dead end sort of town. And my mom has been warned to not let me get involved with any of the young people around here anyway. Not that they were really looking at me too much from the get go, lol. And not only that but my folks are kind of racist too. Not really for interracial anything and so as I live at home with them while I get my bachelor's degree I'm respecting their wishes. But when I move out I'm doing as I please. And if I find someone, I will experience my firsts. Just how it will be. Don't feel bad for not having done anything. I mean there is no doubt may people in the same boat. I think its better to become more accomplished and get to know yourself and what you want before getting too involved with someone else and the stress of dating and pressure gets you to do things you don't normally do. So relax and live your life. Guys are out there, and you will find them when the time is right.
2007-12-07 01:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i was still a virgin! thats good that u still r but there's nuthing wrong with goin out and having fun and going on dates and if u think, know, or feel ur not ready 4 the next level (sex) make sure u and the other person know your limits. don't want nuthing 2 go wrong or something happening 2 u or any one else 4 that matter.
2007-12-07 02:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by savannah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It’s not weird, I tell you with conviction. Just wait for the right time. It’s more interesting if you will lose your virginity to the one you love and done after marriage. It sounds old fashioned but still there is a lot who treasure chastity above anything else.
Modern thinking of sexual promiscuity will have other ideas to it but there is no substitute for pureness of mind and body. The bible has that teaching which prohibits fornication which if you notice it is about sexual encounters between unmarried persons.
Been on dating and you stay unkissed and virgin shows your restraint and self control on things you do not want to do. It’s a rare quality of a woman in this modern and perverse society.
2007-12-07 02:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by genestrek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive flirted with women my whole life.... Im handsome nice guy yet was real shy. My first Gf was at 19, and I lost my virginity at 23. Im 24 now and I dont consider it weird because if you look around in the yahoo! answers theres worse.
2007-12-07 01:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um yes.
its not weird if youre 21 and still a virgin...
but to be 21, single, and never been kissed OR on a date? sad... you're missing out on life.
2007-12-07 01:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been on dates and i have been kissed, but i am still a virgin and i am 24 yrs old. i am very proud to be a virgin. its not crazy that your single either. go out and have some fun!!!! you dont have to lose your virginity, but you can go out on dates.
2007-12-07 01:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by texaslady24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is so awesome. it is not weird. really!!! you should still be a virgin till ya marry. dosent matter what people think or say. go for what you want. not what others say you should do. I am not old fashion but it's been a long time since i've heard of this. keep it as long as ya can. it will be worth it in the end. you'll see.
2007-12-07 01:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by booboobearus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not weird for you to be single or a virgin, but it is weird for you to never have been kissed.
2007-12-07 01:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Candy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all!!! wat's wrong being single and virgin? sometimes things are so unpredictable. so, jus continue ur life! when u got ur true love, n giving ur 1st kiss n virginity, u'll think how great it is.
2007-12-07 01:40:58 · answer #11 · answered by superhero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋