What 12 rules would you give that every marriage should look to obtain to be happy together?
2007-12-06 17:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by midget 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. When you have done something wrong, admit it and ask for forgiveness.
2. Keep up with each other's development and changes.
3. Develop shared interests, hobbies and friends.
4. Appreciate each other's differences.
5. Learn to deal with conflicts.
6. Never both be angry at the same time.
7. Remember it takes two to make a quarrel
8. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
9. Never bring up mistakes of the past.
10. Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
11. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
12. At least once every day say a kind or complimentary word to your life partner.
2007-12-06 18:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't EVER go to bed mad
2. Always say you love them when you leave or go to sleep
3. DO NOT yell... talk things out- yelling makes things worse
4. Give lots of kisses
5. Go out of your way to do things they won't expect
6. Give in during a fight that is going in circles
7. Set up rules before you even get married
8. Talk about money before you get married (Who is handling bills and the checkbook, how much you can each spend, etc.)
9. Give them their space when they need it
10. Take time for yourself- don't spend every waking minute together
11. Make decisions together- let the man make the ultimate decision
12. Be faithful
2007-12-07 02:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sherri 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Communicate respectfully.
2. Handle anger appropriately, never attack.
3. Keep the romance alive in little ways and big ways.
4. Treat the other person as you wish to be treated.
5. Ask for what you need. Don't expect the other person to read your mind.
6. Feed each others' souls with positive energy.
7. Laugh!
8. Be responsible, take care of business.
9. Forgive.
10. Trust.
11. Give each other appropriate time and space for friends and activities they need to be happy.
12. Keep yourself clean, healthy and attractive.
2007-12-06 17:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by ViSaja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.be in love
2.be happy in your marriage
3.have trust
4. always say i love you
5. never go to bed mad
6.always act like newlyweds
7. have fun together
8.kiss
9.hug
10.be best friends
11.always do little things that says i love you
12.don't just love your spouse but like your spouse also
and the list goes on and not in that order
2007-12-06 17:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by yak4the8car 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to love each other. Respect each other. When I say love I mean the kind of love where the other persons happiness is more important than your own. You have to be able to talk because what if something happens and that is all you have. Then what.
You have to love the person enough that you would still love them if they became disabled or chronicly ill and you had to care for them physically.
Marraige is about much more than sex. It is about companionship.
2007-12-06 17:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Love and be loved,
2. Have respect and never criticize.
3. Be understanding and do not be selfish,
4. Be thoughtful and always give present,
5. Have often communication, do not sleep the night without exchanging of views,
6. Be honest and never cheat,
7. Always appreciate your mate, and always say "I love you, or I miss you".
8. Give your attention to your mate, never neglect her.
9. Depend your mate either he/she is on wrong stand. To support her is to show how you loved her.
10. Date her not only because of special anniversaries or birthdays. Share with her your happy moments through watching Movies or opera/orchestra,
11. Go with her to attend social parties to refresh her mind from hectic houworks,
12. Play with her, tease her, and make love to her as often as possible at home, always give her surprised out of town sex, be with her at social affairs to be acquianted with friends and others in the community.
2007-12-07 20:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one that really counts is being able to talk openly about what is going on.
2007-12-10 06:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one - Treat your wife the way you want to be treated and never wait for for her to be the first one to do it.
2007-12-06 17:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have twelve.
"He who sees it, seize it!"
My wife doesn't follow that one though.
2007-12-06 17:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need 12......only 1....................
"Happy Wife Happy Life!"............lol......
2007-12-06 17:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by krissy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋