Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

And he also happens to be a cop on our local police department

2007-12-06 18:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by ronnie_24_48 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 18:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by rascaltownangel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need space for a while and i need to clear my mind . I'm preparing for my future and all those stuff are distracting me . Anyways we both are apart by distance and it been years we haven't seen each other . Or should i just leave it like that . He was never interesting whenever we used to talk on the before , it was al;ways about him . Honestly we had a dead , not healthy and boring relationship , so why waste my precious time on him .

What do you think i should do ?

2007-12-06 18:37:29 · 15 answers · asked by Mar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy goes to a different school and and his school is like close to mine so i can walk his school. i was mean around him in elementary so it wouldn't seem that i like him. but i do and i don't know if he does. and it's sort of weird for being mean to him then asking him plus his friends are like in the "popular" group who would say don't go out with me


P.s. don't make fun of me by saying that why did you act mean and all that and i wanted to apologize to him before it was to late and well i got chickend out.

2007-12-06 18:36:47 · 1 answers · asked by tobeyy 2 in Singles & Dating

I was recently married in august and the day after the wedding when we were leaving for our honey moon my husband's mom told him that she was very disappointed that he was going on our honeymoon than a family trip with her becuase there will be other times for me. now she says things like "oh honey i forget your married" or she will invite him places and make it a point not to ever include me. she tells him that he has lost a lot of weight and invites him over for meals because "someone needs to feed him" she asks us to please not have children and i have heard her tell my brother-in-law that i took her baby. I don't know what to do, how should i handle this? will it go away on its own?

2007-12-06 18:34:05 · 14 answers · asked by Shelby L 6 in Family

i really cannot understand why they do. what is in that kind of movie why men love watching it?

2007-12-06 18:32:12 · 32 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im keeping in mind that this is a person's new lease on life and i should take it all like, "we're just dating and enjoying eachothers company". im fine with that, but i also dont want to waste MY time. even though i understand that the person is still fresh out of a marriage, ultimately im investing emotions regardless. even though i say i will be fine, there is a possibility i may get too involved and hurt...OUCH!

2007-12-06 18:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by mylilgemini21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 36 years with a good income, about $75k. The dissolution says I have to give my ex $1300/month. I now have the chance to go overseas and make twice that. My attorney says if I do, my attorney says she'll get a big bump, up to something like $4600. WHY is she entitled to a better level of living *after* the divorce? Where's the equity in that?

Yes, this is a rhetorical question. I'd also appreciate a citation in California law. This just seems wrong- if I do better, she gets to do better, even though the "better" is years after the divorce? Thanks ....

2007-12-06 18:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by going_for_baroque 7 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my sister was in the bathroom one day and i really had to pee i knew she wasnt going to the bathroom so i bardged right in adn she was standing with her leg on the sink shaving her butt!!!!t freaked me out and now i feel really weird around her should i confront her er forget about it or wat????

2007-12-06 18:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean a relationship you'd say was your favorite mistake. Yes, just like that song by Sheryl Crow. Really! I'm sure many have had at least one. Were you love somebody but they are so wrong for you, for whatever the reason. But you still love them anyway. Care to share with me.
Ah what the heck got to do this too...... I just reached level 4. Give it up for me too. Wooo hoo!

2007-12-06 18:22:33 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 18:18:27 · 22 answers · asked by sanshrerosy 1 in Singles & Dating

I will be the first to admit that I am no good at relationships. I ben with so many men all I can do is wonder where I went wrong. I think what it is, is my older brother is sooo nice, that when I meat other men I have expectations that they will be good to me. So I have had so many problems with my boyfriend "BONES" that I am thinking to bake up this time. We ben together for about 4 months. I LOVE HIM. But he is NOT good for me and my doughter. We need a real man to take care of us. Not to drag me down with him. I need a good way to get him to move out of my place, and to do a final brake up. My friends say that he will not go on without me and that he loves me. so this is hard. He ben stressin me out all kinds to that I cant even imagine to share. We Wont Go There. so:Whats worked for you in the past???? How to get over this??????

2007-12-06 18:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Family

Your own personal project? To introduce them to a new way of life. If only for a day!

2007-12-06 18:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by suzyqu81 1 in Family

if you were dating a guy and he told you he was 39 but in reality was 50 what would you do or say?

2007-12-06 18:12:52 · 23 answers · asked by sunshine 5 in Singles & Dating

last thanks giving she was grinding her teeth in my uncles face cause he expressed a different religious opinion. called me a communist, and said i should have to live in a third world country, just cause i had an opinion on the war and our military. i have to walk on egg shells while she controls the whole atmosphere. she tells my one year old that her mother(me) is crazy and she should live with her. it seems small, but i am dreading this x-mas dinner. my sister is afraid that by me not going, i am breaking up the family, and hurting my grandmother, as well as putting her in a weird spot. i seriously can't stand her, and talking doesn't do it, you talk, she gets in your face all intimidating like. i'd appriciate any suggestions.

2007-12-06 18:10:19 · 10 answers · asked by shes_a_rriot 3 in Family

If you were living w/girl 4 months and it ended on bad terms would you start sleeping w/her friend? The reason u even know the friend is your girl boorrowed money from friend to bail u out of jail. Even though you werent together anymore. When you got out you made all the usual promises. She didnt feel u were serious. Only gave u 1 day to show her and then was bitchy about it in your eyes. This is the real question. If you did start having sex with her friend, would you think she would store your things for you? If you knew she was really upset about it would you think she would feel obligated to store your things? If she told you to come get them for 3 days, even told her friend you were now with, your sons etc, would you be shocked if she put your things outside? Say she even told you she would put them in her car and be gone one day so you didnt even have to see her and you could call her job 2 make sure shed b gonbecause you claimed she was stalking u and looking 4 excuse 2 c u.

2007-12-06 18:09:53 · 9 answers · asked by aperfectpeach 2 in Singles & Dating

heard geminis esp mans wired differently. Just tell him to get lost and leave you alone. Stop texting him, you give him more reasons to follow you around??? is it true??

2007-12-06 18:09:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf ask me on a date but the thing is that when we broke up he met a new girl married her and now they have a child 2gether should i go or what or am i just waisting my time

2007-12-06 18:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by auris 2 in Singles & Dating

I have just asked my girlfriend to set a deadtime line for our love. As we live in different countries.I don't want to heart her in case we can't be able to get together:(( But she seems very hearted once I told her my idea. Howlongever.She felt very short..... I'm very sad also. Why she isn't a Chinese? Why I'm a American? My Dear God!?
I don't know how to do now. Facing the blue life without her? I can't imagine!!! What can I do? Am I a killer? :((
I want make apologies to her. At last I want her know.I dnon't want to lost her. And making that choice is just because I dont' her hearted when,in case we can't get together but other boys want to with her.

Am I a killer? I don't know.......


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2007-12-06 18:07:16 · 6 answers · asked by zhi snoopy 1 in Singles & Dating

My new boyfriend bin all tryin to please me wich is nice I love the flatery, but I no about something that he did trying to be thoughtfull only it wasnt..in my eyes if this is true. He got me flowers that looked nicely put together but I heard he got them from a semitery. my cousin coby told me this. I am creeped out by this but I dont want to offend my boyfriend...how do I go about this??? ALSO: I would never want to beleive bull**** like this but I no that it MIGHT...be true caus my new boyfriend has no money but maybe 10 bucks to his name. He's looking for new work...so what do I do

FACTS:

1. My boyfriend doesnt have that much money, where di they really come from????
2. Coby doesnt really like my boyriend his name is bones btw and so is he making this up????????

me=confused

I dont want them on display in my window if they are from a place like this :(

I dont want to attract spirits/etc

2007-12-06 18:07:03 · 6 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Singles & Dating

My new boyfriend bin all tryin to please me wich is nice I love the flatery, but I no about something that he did trying to be thoughtfull only it wasnt..in my eyes if this is true. He got me flowers that looked nicely put together but I heard he got them from a semitery. my cousin coby told me this. I am creeped out by this but I dont want to offend my boyfriend...how do I go about this??? ALSO: I would never want to beleive bull**** like this but I no that it MIGHT...be true caus my new boyfriend has no money but maybe 10 bucks to his name. He's looking for new work...so what do I do

FACTS:

1. My boyfriend doesnt have that much money, where di they really come from????
2. Coby doesnt really like my boyriend his name is bones btw and so is he making this up????????

me=confused

I dont want them on display in my window if they are from a place like this :(

I dont want to attract spirits/etc

2007-12-06 18:05:33 · 19 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong for me to have a cover charge at my reception? So like after I pay for the reception there is no money left over. My parents are chipping in a little, but 10k just doesn't cut it, they could give me more if they would use their retirement fund. Now I can't go on my dream Honeymoon. I have always dreamed of going to Italy for my Honeymoon, now I can only go to Hawaii and I have been there so many times it is old. We used to summer there when I was a kid. So that is totally boring. I have to have the perfect Wedding, so now I don't get a very good Honeymoon. So I figure that if I charge every guest $40 at the door, I should have enough for my dream Honeymoon. But my fiance's mom is whining about the cover charge- I told her she doesn't have to pay but she is still upset and I don't know why.

2007-12-06 18:04:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I can't seem to make a connection in the corporate world. I've been in between jobs for several months, and there is always an issue with me. I've gone on tons of interviews, and be snubbed at every one of them. It seems like I sound great on the phone, but once they meet me it's a different story. I might lose this job that I'm at right now because I'm not producing enough. There is always an issue with me. I'm smart, kind, technically inclined, and want to make money. My brother and sister have moved on in their careers and are very well off. I on the other hand keep struggling to make ends meet. I want to be in IT, but I can't afford school right now, and most jobs want someone who has a degree. I feel trapped, and confused.

2007-12-06 18:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by yayaquack 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Well here is the story, I have a daughter and i didnt know anything about untill my daughters mom filed for child support 9 years later, thats how i found out that i had a daughter, my daughters mom was young and was really bad going to jail all the time so my daughters grandparents raised her for 8 years then my daughters mom got her stuff together and then filed for welfare and child support. My daughters mom had gotten married and her husband works under the table getting cash and not reporting that income so both are playing the system. Can someone help me on this i have to pay $800.00 dls a month plus 100 more for medical for my daughter.

2007-12-06 18:01:47 · 9 answers · asked by losretana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

IAM 33 AND SINGLE BUT SEX WASNT ALL THAT WITH THE EXX BF...BUT MY SEXUAL DRIVE IS VERY HIGH...I KNOW THAT I SHOULD BE SATISFIED...AND IAM NOT NOR HAVE BEEN FOR AWHILE

2007-12-06 18:01:42 · 1 answers · asked by SASSYNSEXY33 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been platonic friends with a man somewhat younger than I am for about 4 years. We have both had other relationships, now with the holidays coming ( my dad lives with me and does not approve of me having over night guests) we have been discussing changing this relationship. I know you are going to ask why my dad has anything to say about it, cause he has dementia/alzeheimer's and doesn't know when or how to be quiet. I want this man to come for the holidays as he is alone, but don't want to rush things. We both know 2 unmarried people of opposite sexes can sleep in the same bed with nothing going on but not sure that is what we want. How do we go from best platonic friends to a lot more? He says he wants to marry me,,, being a lot older I am concerned about the age difference which is over 14 yrs, Any 'older' adults got any suggestions? We aren't sure if it is love yet or not. He has a 9 yr old daughter that he wants to regain custody of and has to be married to get that.

2007-12-06 17:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by N H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 17:54:51 · 15 answers · asked by starbow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres my story i was 17 and this 29 yr old beg to marry me and wrote me poems and song and told me he alwyas gonna be there fo me no matter what and i fell in love with him and give him 100% trust, he promised i was gonna beable to go to college well to keep him happy i end up workin 2 jobs trying to pay most of the bills and then 8 months later he started to treat me bad cuase alot of bills was coming and he was stressin, well i got into this bad car accident where my car wen under a semi trailer, ad he wasn there for me , put his new car sales man job be4 me didnt want to take me to the hospital! so i left cus i was shocked and i left, next day i tried to work thing out he didnt want nothing to do with me, then i found out i waspregnant and he didnt care wither, well after 7wks ihad a miscarrige, we've bin separated for 2 months and he dont want nothingto do with me! he backstab me, how can i get over this? does karma really happen? is there achance he will be back??

2007-12-06 17:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by rhea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He gave me life in this world but I have " crooked teeth, an underbite, petite, ugly ( as by many ppl so I always get teased in school ), and a broken family . Is god always like this ?! Why me, as if making me ugly is not enough, I am so far away from my family and I see them once in 2 years and I have no bestie or whatsoever . My mum's having an affair an I suspect my dad is too

2007-12-06 17:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He gets angry for the smallest reasons, I hate to walk away but if I try talking to him, it just makes things worse.I love him, but I just dont know what to do anymore.He was diagnosed as bi-polar last year, and was taking meds, but it made him a zombie, and he couldnt afford them anymore.

2007-12-06 17:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce