Why is god so unfair to me?

Question

He gave me life in this world but I have " crooked teeth, an underbite, petite, ugly ( as by many ppl so I always get teased in school ), and a broken family . Is god always like this ?! Why me, as if making me ugly is not enough, I am so far away from my family and I see them once in 2 years and I have no bestie or whatsoever . My mum's having an affair an I suspect my dad is too

Answer 1

I don't want you to blame yourself for others' flaws. If people want to tease you, they have nothing better to do. These people probably aren't so thrilled about their lives either if the only thing they can do it tease you, and that is THEIR curse.

Do what you can do for yourself. Don't ever be convinced that you are ugly. Teeth can be fixed, and your size doesn't matter. All that matters is that you are healthy. You feel down now, but do YOU. Get yourself an education and LIVE.

Answer 2

Instead of fixating on your problems, start with finding solutions instead.

Dental problems can be corrected, and many people have survived broken families.

People have come from far more difficult circumstances and made huge improvements in their lives. Find a role model of someone that you really admire and find out what you can do to grow in that direction.

Go to the library and seek out good books to guide you in rebuilding your self perception.

Work hard in school to acheive good grades so that you can progress on to a college or university and qualify yourself in some area of interest and you will surprised at how wonderful the world can be when you are self motivated to progress yourself and not be acted upon by small circumstances.

Learn from the pain of others. You see what is happening to your parents. Learn from that. Build your relationships with people that you can trust. Be unafraid to break off with those demanding compromise, you will only damage your self by giving in when you know you shouldn't. Always: Be true to yourself.

When this is over, you will see that it really wasn't God's fault at all, just mistakes that have affected you. You have to be tough and grow through it, but you don't have to do it alone. Find good friends and one of the best can be found when you go to your knees in prayer.

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

God isn't unfair to you, your family is and so are you - being unfair to yourself. But count your blessings. Those things you can correct in time but you have to begin with how you look at yourself first. Try to love yourself more and be more positive about life. Heck if your family is broken up or what - so what? A lot of other kids are in worse situations than you are and they're surviving, they try to make their lives better. Enough complaining and work on improving how you feel about yourself and life in general.

Answer 4

i'm sorry and i'm sending you hugs

i don't believe in "god" as he's envisioned to the rest of the world, so i can't properly answer your question.

hon, i'm sure you're not ugly. maybe you can ask your parents if they wouldn't mind sending you to an orthodontist for help with your teeth.. insurance usually pays for it these days, because it's necessary to your future hygiene... straight teeth are easier to clean, etc.

i wonder what you mean about being far from your family? i sure hope you can make some friends. you can do a Yahoo search on HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS, and there is quite a lot of information out there on websites....

unfortunately you can't control what your parents do.

Answer 5

Ther e are kids worse off than you. You can improve your underbite by having cosmetic surgery to correct the bite.I did.You can improve your appearance. As for your family why not contact them by internet?Technology is a wonderful way of keeping in contact.

Answer 6

Each and every human being has some deprivation , something to be sad about, these are usually things that one can do very little . if any thing , about them . Even people who think have much to be happy about have some sadness in their lives, there is always something that makes you sad and unhappy. Very beautiful or talented people commit suicide or are depressed or are sad etc. etc..
You are therefore not alone when you say why me .You have to accept yourself as you are and who knows that your child or grand child will be very beautiful or talented.Our lives continue in shape of our children as we are the continuation of the lives of our ancestors.
Happiness is within you and you will find happiness if you accept yourself as you are and enjoy whatever talents of gifts that you do have, you seem to be educated and also an intelligent person. I wish that you find inner peace and find happiness in your life .

Answer 7

God is not unfair to you. Dont blame god on your family p.o.s. god loves you he treats everyone equal sometimes i ask myself the same question why is this happening. Sometimes god puts us in this stuff to see if he still have faith and still belive. Im not the perfect person in the world i have my ups and downs all the time allmost everyday doing something wrong but god is allway here for me and i love him just keep your faith and trust in him and he will be there for you he is allways.

Answer 8

honey, you are not the only person with a broken family, less than perfect looks, etc. I suggest you volunteer somewhere so you can get a taste of real misfortune and count your blessings. it will also help you get your mind off your parents and whether or not they are cheating on each other.

Answer 9

after seeing the guidelines that some nerds have offered you-
if u like being yourself -finif you want to be somebody else-not fine
Just pick yourself up ,walk around and smell the roses and listen to the wind in the willows-- it will tell you what to do NEXT!!