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Question

My new boyfriend bin all tryin to please me wich is nice I love the flatery, but I no about something that he did trying to be thoughtfull only it wasnt..in my eyes if this is true. He got me flowers that looked nicely put together but I heard he got them from a semitery. my cousin coby told me this. I am creeped out by this but I dont want to offend my boyfriend...how do I go about this??? ALSO: I would never want to beleive bull**** like this but I no that it MIGHT...be true caus my new boyfriend has no money but maybe 10 bucks to his name. He's looking for new work...so what do I do

FACTS:

1. My boyfriend doesnt have that much money, where di they really come from????
2. Coby doesnt really like my boyriend his name is bones btw and so is he making this up????????

me=confused

I dont want them on display in my window if they are from a place like this :(

I dont want to attract spirits/etc

Answer 1

THey use to do that in earlier days too. No don't be offended his heart was in the right place. he wanted to get his girl something nice and if its true thats what he did.

Let it slide but in future perhaps tell him maybe a nice poem or a sweet letter to you would be fine. he will ask why you dont' like the flowers say no i love them but you don't have to buy me flowers i know money is tight . make me something that doesn't cost you anything. Its you im interested in.

Answer 2

Attract spirits? What are you, six?

Your bf has no $, but instead of just not trying to woo you, he risks arrest getting you flowers...I think you should thank him, put them in a vase, and let the guy feel like he did something right for a change. If it's really driving you crazy, tell him the flowers are lovely and ASK where he got them. If he says, "the cemetary," tell him you can't accept stolen goods, throw them out, and tell him you appreciate the thought, but you don't want to have a boyfriend you might have to bail out. Remind him that he could write you a poem if he's feeling romantic...it doesn't cost a thing! And ask if he wants your help finding a job.

Answer 3

I think my biggest problem with them coming from a cemetary is that it's completely disrespectful to the person that they were bought for. And if your new boyfriend has the gall to steal flowers that were meant for a person who meant something to their loved ones, then maybe he's not such a great guy. A man with no money can still find ways to show his girlfriend he cares without stealing from a cemetary.

Tell him outright that Coby told you this and ask him outright if it happened. Let him know how you feel. Don't start a relationship out by hiding how you feel about things. Good luck.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

He got you flowers ! Is a very good thing ! point for him. nunya cuzis bussiness. He probly did.. so.. cuzin jealous *****!! Probly has hots for you will tell probly all truths to ya but... tellin for the wrong reasons. !! Twisted yes ! Bet I'm 100 % right on the money with the cuz!! back to the flowers, truely was the WWWRONG!! place to get them better for him to have picked out of a yard or field or hell even stole them then to disrespect and steal from the deceiced !! Bad BOy!!! You is ok to eccept for you should not have known !! But since you have a poss clue,, Straight in his face saying my CUZ said.... give kiss hug and thank you for thinking bout me but lets take um back to whom you took from cause you wouldnt want someone to steal from your deceised family or brotherhood member !! get me !!

Answer 6

thats bad juju to take flowers from the dead they may want then back. u need a real man like me if i was that broke, which i'm not i would have the deceney to pick from the fields or at least to steal fro a florist not a grave

Answer 7

Don't do anything. Don't ask him about it, and never bring it up again. It looks like he is doing the best he can right now. Give him some slack. Also, "attracting spirits" borders on stupidity.

Answer 8

He probably did get them from the cemetary. He stole them from a dead person. It's very weird. It's not about the spirits. It's supposed to be the thought that counts. Ask him about it.

Answer 9

if ur worried about the flower just throw it away, dnt hate some1 just cuz he dosnt have money (every dog has his day), help him find a good job. he brought u flower just 2 make u feel good, n u shld thank him 4 dat, do not believe anything a person says even if its ur sister or so, believe only what u see with ur own eyes for we have alot of enemies whom we dnt knw who they really are.
and most of all...appriciate him for who he is!

Answer 10

i get my girlfriend flowers from the cemetary all the time.

i had my date carry a casket wreath to prom. it looked like she just won the kentucky derby, but, hey, it was free.